Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

have never experienced their first girlfriend, first kiss, first real date ( I went on 2 "sort of" dates 5 years ago) and still live at home? This all applies to me. On the other hand, I am working on my masters degree, have a full time job and am very involved with my community. I just haven't been able to meet any girls anywhere. I am involved with so many things but it still doesn't help. I am also a very nice person and am decent looking. I believe I am a total package. Anyone else my age going through this. It's getting a little weird (as in I feel left out) because all my friends are getting married etc.

2007-12-11 16:08:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i meet a my a match ... and i think we are destined for love

2007-12-11 16:07:31 · 17 answers · asked by Jam-Up 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 16:07:00 · 5 answers · asked by tweetybird 1 in Singles & Dating

How do you mellow out just before talking with the good looking guy you like? I tend to think too much, which creates some type of stutter.. although it only occurs on the first word. By the middle of the conversation, I'm flat out comfortable.

It's obviously something everyone gets when talking with their crush. But have any tips!? Thanks :)

2007-12-11 16:06:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went to see this guy (we like eachother) the other day and he gave me a hug when I was about to leave and he well..moaned (not like a sexual one but like a relaxed moan) or something..I rubbed his back while we hugged and then we talked for about a minute, then I gave him another little hug and our head backed up and we were litterally like 4 inches away from eachothers face and we kinda stared for a few seconds and I don't know why the hell I did not kiss him!..I just said 'I will see you later' or something. Of course he works there and there were cameras on him I am sure and co-workers were around but...ugh..thats not why I didn't do it, maybe cause I wasn't sure that is what he was thinking too. I hope it was tho. How do I attempt the 1st kiss without it being a quick 'im shy' smooch cause I have a fear that is what I will do..

2007-12-11 16:04:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 16:02:29 · 34 answers · asked by a_man_with_no_woman 1 in Singles & Dating

where were they, are you two together,how was it?

2007-12-11 16:02:00 · 6 answers · asked by Leslie 1 in Singles & Dating

She doesn't want to participate when it comes to sharing household responsiblity and when we bring it up to her she becomes real rebellious towards everyone. I feel like the only option we have left to do is lock her out of her room until all the work gets done and her attitude changes to everyone. Please give me other options that our available so we don't have to lock her out of her room.

2007-12-11 16:01:30 · 9 answers · asked by rascoe627 1 in Family

there is this guy i like and my friend thought it would be funny to go and tell him i like him..but it isnt! anyway i want him to no i like him but on the other hand i dont cuz im scared to have a broken heart. what should i do?
listen to my mind which is telling me to forget him or listen to my heart which is telling me to tell him i like him....HELP PLEASE! im stuck!

2007-12-11 16:00:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 15 and have ocd and i am a germaphob. i am the only kid still living at home and my parents drive me nuts. they are alway telling me to do things when it would only take them a little effert. i have a job and go to school. it is my responisiblity to clean the house and i do mean the whole house. they live like pigs and i can not stand it anymore. one of the ladys that i work with offerd to let me live with her this summer but i will only be 16. do u think it is wrong for me to want to move out even though i am so young???

2007-12-11 16:00:08 · 4 answers · asked by imurheaven22 2 in Family

I'm doing my best to get along with my husband we are seperated. We have a two yr old together who he asks to see ect. My daughter from a previous marriage he knew since she was three she is now 7 he doesn't want to see her for visitations because thats not his biological child and we are probably getting a divorce. He doesn't even ask about her. He went away to the military in july where he forgot me and his kids were alive in basic training and ait never called wrote letters that were cold. Causing this whole problem now that he is home we have meet a few times in twon he asks about our daughter but never mentioned mine i said would you get her a x-mas gift he says would your first husband buy my daughter a present i said my first husband did raise your daughter This really disturbs me since they were close how can he forget her so easy. What would a judge say i don't even know if i should bring it up as it really isn't his obligation to see her.i don't know i hurt for my daughter

2007-12-11 15:58:58 · 28 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i've told him i don't really have feelings for him and it's not serious. he loves me so much he doesnt want to leave though. he wants to be with me at every opportunity. it feels a bit like he's desperate. does he have no self-respect?

2007-12-11 15:56:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My grandma passed away a few years ago and her husband took everything. We believe he let the storage shed go and it was auctioned off. My family is mainley concerned about pictures and things like that though some of her things would be nice to have. Does any one have any ideas of what we can do to find the stuff and has any one been sucssesful in finding stuff?

2007-12-11 15:51:23 · 2 answers · asked by passion4ranchin20 1 in Family

I have had one before, but then stopped in hopes of regaining intimacy with my husband. Now he has told me in so many words that he just isn't into sex. Whether it be depression, sickness or whatever, it's up to him to get checked, which he won't. I have someone I can be with one the side, completely physical, no emotional attachment. So why not?

2007-12-11 15:48:15 · 68 answers · asked by secretsecret16 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex broke up valentine's day 2007. i tried to move on. i even had crushes on other guys. but none of my other crushes came close to the one i have for my ex. i've told him numberous times that i still like him, but he says he doesn't feel the same way. it's been 3 months since the last time i've told him. should i tell him how i feel or would i just be rejected. he's a really nice guy, and he would never harm anyone. please help!!

2007-12-11 15:44:47 · 4 answers · asked by Courtney C 1 in Singles & Dating

I tend to put my cell on silent because I'm either in class/studying/work. My boyfriend gets angry because I don't pick up and this happens often. Today, we had a major argument because of this phone issue. He always accuses me of being 'bad' and that he does everything 'good' for me (i.e.quiet smoking, went back to school, etc.) He emphasizes a lot on his feelings and how he is the one feeling sad-I make him sad. But the fact that he always blames it on me, that I'm a 'bad girl', makes me cry. I told him this but he denies ever making me sad. I know I'm not perfect and I know I'm impatient and inconsiderate sometimes but I always apologize and want the best for him.
What is a good way to deal with this?
When we have an argument, I tend to cry because I'm tired of being called the 'bad' person in the relationship or the 'bad girl'.
What should I do?

2007-12-11 15:40:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is this just a myth. In the book "HE'S JUST NOT THAT IN TO YOU ". The author says that IT IS A MYTH. He says if a man is in to you, he WILL CONTACT YOU, IF HE IS SHY OR NOT/

WHAT DO YOU THINK??

2007-12-11 15:39:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

telll a girl they like them! it makes me sooo frustrated bc they nvr think that the grl will like them back which is soo not true.they need to just step up to the plate and ask the grl out. why the heck do they just hide in the shadows most of the time?

2007-12-11 15:39:35 · 9 answers · asked by singarr03 1 in Singles & Dating

she isn't happy at all:
she thinks she looks really old & fat so for this christmas i want to get her something or do something for her that makes her happy & not so down on herself??
what could i do??
i was just thinking i would do something so cool that i would mabye make her cry??
is this possible?? lol.

2007-12-11 15:38:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If not, what age do people usually purchase their first house?

2007-12-11 15:37:13 · 4 answers · asked by Virginia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not frustraded or anything, but just curious. Like im on match.com and I sent out e-mails to those who match me the best. Some have viewed my page and has not replied yet. What's the deal.

2007-12-11 15:36:58 · 4 answers · asked by ........Frank 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,

I am typically a t-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I ALWAYS do my hair and I more often than not wear make-up, but I feel I can do all this and still look beautiful with a cute t-shirt and jeans on.
Now, my boyfriend is like this, no matter what I'm doing, if I'm going to the gas station, or even if we're just going to Wal-Mart 12 in the morning, he expects me to look the same way I do when going to school or work. This means I have to wear a fancy top with my jeans or a dress, with jewelry, make-up and have my hair done. What's wrong with me wanting to be comfortable every now and then. I went to the store with my hair in a ponytail and well, jeans and a t-shirt on the other day and it really bothered him. Now, let me make this side note. I hate dresses and his ex always wears them, he has done everything in his power to make me wear them even when I say I'm not comfortable in them he still tries. Also, his ex is ALWAYS dolled up. Is he trying to turn me into her?

2007-12-11 15:34:57 · 12 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Family

Hi,

I am typically a t-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I ALWAYS do my hair and I more often than not wear make-up, but I feel I can do all this and still look beautiful with a cute t-shirt and jeans on.
Now, my boyfriend is like this, no matter what I'm doing, if I'm going to the gas station, or even if we're just going to Wal-Mart 12 in the morning, he expects me to look the same way I do when going to school or work. This means I have to wear a fancy top with my jeans or a dress, with jewelry, make-up and have my hair done. What's wrong with me wanting to be comfortable every now and then. I went to the store with my hair in a ponytail and well, jeans and a t-shirt on the other day and it really bothered him. Now, let me make this side note. I hate dresses and his ex always wears them, he has done everything in his power to make me wear them even when I say I'm not comfortable in them he still tries. Also, his ex is ALWAYS dolled up. Is he trying to turn me into her?

2007-12-11 15:34:30 · 18 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi,

I am typically a t-shirt and jeans kind of girl. I ALWAYS do my hair and I more often than not wear make-up, but I feel I can do all this and still look beautiful with a cute t-shirt and jeans on.
Now, my boyfriend is like this, no matter what I'm doing, if I'm going to the gas station, or even if we're just going to Wal-Mart 12 in the morning, he expects me to look the same way I do when going to school or work. This means I have to wear a fancy top with my jeans or a dress, with jewelry, make-up and have my hair done. What's wrong with me wanting to be comfortable every now and then. I went to the store with my hair in a ponytail and well, jeans and a t-shirt on the other day and it really bothered him. Now, let me make this side note. I hate dresses and his ex always wears them, he has done everything in his power to make me wear them even when I say I'm not comfortable in them he still tries. Also, his ex is ALWAYS dolled up. Is he trying to turn me into her?

2007-12-11 15:34:02 · 19 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do if someone (30yrs old) moved all the way across the world to be with you and then treated you rudely and borderline abusively. (Think unbelievably abusive name calling, etc.) Would you ignore them until they acted like an adult? This is what I've been doing but he just insists everything is only my fault. Anything else I should try? Is this a lost cause? He just keeps writing online (especially yahoo answers) that he came here but *I* turned out to be a loser/liar/fake when it's really HIM that has been acting like a 2yr old?!

Anyone want to talk some sense into me? :(

2007-12-11 15:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by sublime 5 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of 3 months keeps telling me that i am his bi***tch, his cu***nt, his who***re, his sl***ut, etc........ out of the blue, for no reason, when we are watching television. As our relationship is progressing, he calls me more and more often degrading names like this, even though he is not even angry.

He also told me that his mother is a f**** bi*****tch, what is going on with this man ?

i have not answered his calls today, and he has called me 30 times just today.......

please help me, i need answers from both men and women.

2007-12-11 15:33:00 · 1 answers · asked by vanessa 1 in Singles & Dating

We did alot of mean things to each other. But i know he is not cheating right now. i can't understand why he doesn't answer his calls says he doesn't want to waste mins prepaid phone but he has over 1000 in bank? cards are like 32 dollars? we are seperated right now he got homw from military 3 weeks ago first week he planned on smashing my face in divorce court i just took his truck with police escort before he got home that i payed for. Next week we meet at a hotel just to talk. end up sleeping together next week he says you can't talk to me about anything but getting together our daughter or a divorce. Doesn't even want to eat with me before i go to meet him at hotel "i'm not dating you he says. i cry off and on for days i don't even want to go to his house to get childsupport at the advice of my conselor i do he says get the money be brief. Well he pays me one week and an extra week in advance for then he invites me to lunch and buys me clothes? I tell my conselor who previously

2007-12-11 15:32:21 · 10 answers · asked by poo~poo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean a good quality ring without the outrageous price normally attached to it. I don't want a cheap junk ring, just a nice ring for the best price.

2007-12-11 15:31:15 · 26 answers · asked by tazdvl_31 2 in Weddings

Should I tell him so he will know why I dont know what I am doing or not? How should I go about telling him?

2007-12-11 15:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-11 15:29:45 · 1 answers · asked by Dinuka P 1 in Marriage & Divorce