have never experienced their first girlfriend, first kiss, first real date ( I went on 2 "sort of" dates 5 years ago) and still live at home? This all applies to me. On the other hand, I am working on my masters degree, have a full time job and am very involved with my community. I just haven't been able to meet any girls anywhere. I am involved with so many things but it still doesn't help. I am also a very nice person and am decent looking. I believe I am a total package. Anyone else my age going through this. It's getting a little weird (as in I feel left out) because all my friends are getting married etc.
2007-12-11 16:08:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its okay though.
I understand that you feel left out, but don't rush to a marriage; it takes time to find a girl and feel the right moment to marry her.
I think you should start getting more involved socially with people once you finished getting your Master's Degree.
2007-12-11 16:12:34 · answer #1 · answered by Andizzle Foshizzle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, you need to understand you're a child. This statement you've made: "I'm a teenager but I have always been mature for my age and I am not a stupid person." SHOWS you're immature, and I'm not going to say "stupid" per se because that's not nice, but you're just not mentally mature enough to fully grasp that this adult male is a predator. You may think you're mature, you may think you're smart, but there is one part of your brain, in the frontal lobe which hasn't developed yet. And it WON'T be developed until you're in your mid-twenties. This is why you're not saying, "Whoa... why would a grown man be trying to be with me? Why would a grown man want a relationship with a child? Any sane, rational, and healthy person would never try to get into a relationship with a child. Something is wrong here, why can't he get a woman his own age?" Instead, you're focused on the fact he's being sweet, and you feel you're "in love" and "so happy." Believe me, this is not love. If you have to hide something from your family, YOU KNOW DEEP DOWN IT IS WRONG. And this is not a foundation to start a relationship. Do you HONESTLY think you can keep this going for three years without your family finding out? Do you really think you can continue on as a child, with a grown man only speaking on the internet or the phone? I think you need to end this immediately. This guy is bad news. Believe me. Don't even sit around waiting to find out. There may be many reasons why he's preying on you. He could be a pedophile, or he could want complete control over a person and a mature grown woman wouldn't tolerate this, he may love innocence... just... stop with this guy. He's not looking out for your best interests at all.
2016-05-23 04:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Each person has his/her own lifestyle.
If they had a lot of girlfriends and got married at a very young age, that's their lifestyle.
If those people cannot respect your lifestyle, then they aren't your friends.
I don't have a girlfriend neither. It's not easy to find a nice girlfriend these days.
I'm near 28 (I'm 27 right now) and I really do not care what other people think about me.
Just because they married young (your friends) doesn't make them any better than you.
2007-12-11 16:16:34 · answer #3 · answered by carlosdavid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to ask a female confidant (not love interest) for some feedback. There may be something that a gal picks up on that you are not even aware of.
2007-12-11 16:12:02 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married. Puhlease. Yo better enjoy the single life while you can buddy!!!
2007-12-11 16:13:42 · answer #5 · answered by paparazzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋