Family & Relationships - 11 December 2007

how come my bf told me tat he have climax towards me after sex?? before that we have sex together and i swallow for him..
what does that mean when he say this??

2007-12-11 21:09:08 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

than your partner? If so, don't you think that you might have the wrong partner?

2007-12-11 21:05:24 · 11 answers · asked by gone 6 in Friends

2007-12-11 21:03:51 · 26 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please forgive me for being so imature

2007-12-11 21:00:27 · 3 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Friends

Can anyone tell me where I can find out what flowers are in season in June so that I can pick out what flowers to use for my wedding bouquets.

Thanks

2007-12-11 20:58:55 · 6 answers · asked by al 1 in Weddings

why am I made to feel like an underclass... I'm in my early 30's and we have decided not to have kids... yet .. the grief I am getting from people is really getting me down.. what is this obsession with having kids all about?
Why can't I just be accepted as I am.
Apparently, we are not a family we are a couple.. so what..
I love my life the way is it.
Do you have this problem with people?
What is it with these people pushing the need for kids onto us?

2007-12-11 20:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by I've got it! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-11 20:27:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and his name is Carlo...he is cute, tall and handsome...BUT!!! he is a BIG ASSHOLE!!! he always make fun of the people in the class..he has no respect for others...especially the for me.

We had this Exchange Gift thing for the whole class...unfortunately he unsexpectedly pick me.... so im so, so nervous...coz he might give me an insulting gift... he once said that he will going to give me a LOVE letter??? came from his Heart...that full of love??? ....i told him...WHAT FOR??? he had a girlfriend so he was making fun of me to the whole class then he again...told the whole class he will give me an HOtOil(coz my hair is kinda dull.but that was before...!!!)..and i was like Laughing but deep inside i was really, really hurted by his ******* jokes..then for the last time of this day..he told again the whole class..that its hard to give me a Gift...because he wasn't sure if his going to give me a gift Guy or for a Girl..isn't ovious that im a GIRL.just because im just a simple girl???

2007-12-11 20:24:40 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

at times he loves me more of the time he says i m busy so i get tired our maretial relationship is also ok not good enough it feels as if v both have compromised he takes us out spends money but what is my requirement is never fullfilled that in any case, v do not meet on 4 atleast 20 or 25 days on ----- please tell me what should i do is that he doesnt love me or what it is not thjat i m not good looking comparetively im better than him, this i shoulndt mention but i have to.

2007-12-11 20:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by madhu b 1 in Singles & Dating

can you give me some helpful words?? this guy, who is married. has been saying how he wishes he was with me, not the wife. Ive been his FRIEND for a year. Basically he has said he loves me etc... we do a lot of talking (hours) . i always think he might leave his wife for me, then he wont call for a week or two and says " Oh sorry i got busy with the wife" i finally got pissed enogh to tell him off. I just miss him so im trying so hard not to msg him. I've made it two weeks and i know once i get over the "hump" it will get easier, so any advice you have is greatly appreciated. thanks:)

2007-12-11 19:56:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

miles apart yet close spiritually
stong connections with
snd postacards and letter to
give you unbiased advice
remind you of long forgotten memores
don't need to talk to them daily to keep relationship


anyone knows of good metaphors? or any you can think of by reading these things
?

thanks

2007-12-11 19:52:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need something really really meaningful. He has been my best friend since 1st grade and everything I come up with sounds cheesy.. I need serious answers here. I dont want anything like tell him what comes from my heart "although thats what I should do" But yeah.. Help !

2007-12-11 19:49:28 · 8 answers · asked by Ryan 2 in Friends

My sister and her husband came to stay with my husband and I for a few weeks, I am usually always signed in to my email. We left somewhere, when we came back, the computer was on, and when I looked through my "sent" folder, most of the message were marked "read", and I had not read them, nor my husband. Obviously, they must have read them, and probably my inbox ones too, I just can't tell because they were already marked read because I had read already them. So what should I do? I'm signing out until they leave, but should I say something? I would never snoop through someones things, I would even feel bad about opening someone's medicine cabinet or drawers in the bathroom ! (I know people who like to do that out of curiosity.

2007-12-11 19:49:24 · 12 answers · asked by latitude 4 in Family

2007-12-11 19:47:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive been thru this for years.....ive been keeping what i feel for about 8 years.....i love him......but i never had the courage to tell him that....all he could see from me is his bestfriend whom he treats like a baby sister since he never had one....hes in a relationship and ive gone out with him and his gf....and i was treated like a baby sister who has no one to take care at home so his elder brother took her on thier date... he treats me like a baby though were of the same age...he even calls me "baby"....kisses me in my forehead like a child....and he spoils me....gives me almost everything i ask from him.... thats why i fell for him .....im happy being treated that way....but when reality strikes me....that im just his DAMN BESTFRIEND>it really hurts... im 22 and never fell for someone else.... i want to find someone whom i could turn my love to....but havent found the right one yet...or should i say have not found the one who could surpass his impact in me..help me to forget him

2007-12-11 19:39:12 · 11 answers · asked by gentle 2 in Singles & Dating

Are you taking the time to show your love recently or not. Tell me the truth. If not, will you take the time now?

2007-12-11 19:32:50 · 4 answers · asked by bobe 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm quite the chef. . . . .

2007-12-11 19:32:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi
i really want to be able to connect to people easily. i've tried that this year at school - and it has worked but i dont want to be overly nice [some people think being overly nice is fake.] i want a bit more of a fun personality - without being lame/ a try-hard and without being mean.

thanks =]

2007-12-11 19:25:57 · 11 answers · asked by curRy xox luva <3 2 in Friends

2007-12-11 19:00:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

........Then what is the meaning of my relationship with my lover, a repetition of him trying to soothe me from my constant depression and getting stressed out from failing to do so?

2007-12-11 18:42:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay here it goes.My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 3 years yet we do not spend the Christams together because we spend it with our family as it is.We both attend the same university,are going home on the same day and having a fun day of hanging out at the galleria,watching a movie,having dinner at his grandmother's and spending the night there then driving home.So one of my guyfriends today was telling me on how I should maybe spend this Christmas with him and his family yet here is where it would get all sticky.My family and I open presents and then that day is my brother's birthday so we usually throw a party for him with close friends.I do not know when the party would be pushed to now because my folks are having hardwood installed on Monday and then they are painting the rooms downstairs.Then I also want to spend time with my family yet want to see my boyfriend at the same time because he does a lot for me especially after all that happened this semester!

2007-12-11 18:37:59 · 8 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5 in Singles & Dating

I caught my ex the other day following me to my friends house. How creepy is that?? Can I get some kind of restraining order against him?? He wants me back but I don't have time for that kind of childish games.

2007-12-11 18:35:38 · 12 answers · asked by *Heart~broken* 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, This is going to be a bit long b/c there is alot to explain.

My little sister and her 2 yr old live with me and my husband and 3 kids. We gave a bedroom up for her and her son to have. (the biggest in the house)
My sister is working (as a stripper) she leaves this house everday @ about 1 or 2 pm and doesnt come home until 2-4am.
I have her son this whole time.
I do sleep till noon everyday and she wakes up with her son and my 3 yr old around 9 or so.
She does very little housework and contributes very little $$ to the house. She has asked me to set an amount for her to pay weekly for house and babysitting.
I hate to do this b/c it makes me feel like she is a boarder. But, she will not do anything otherwise. I also need help around the house, considering there are 7 of us in a 3 bedroom house.
Should I expect her to pay and help? or just let her pay and me do all the housework and childcare? I thought w/ us being family that it would be easy and set. But I was wrong.

2007-12-11 18:32:12 · 11 answers · asked by stacie m 4 in Family

i have lots of secrets, crushes, h8rs, watevr. but i dont know who to trust. i told my best friend something and she told my other friend. well wat if i didnt like that person, not a friend or something? i'm through with all my secrets getting out.

2007-12-11 18:31:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my bf double booked himself its my party this weekend but he also said he'd go xmas shopping with one of his mates. He says to me and my friends he cant come to my party, cos he said he'd go xmas shoppin first but i told him like a month ago that my party would be the weekend after my birthday any nitwit knows that the 15th of december is the weekend after the 13th of december. I txted him saying why doesnt he meet with us for like an hour but he hasnt replyd. I know he is really sorry. Do i have the right to be upset with him?

2007-12-11 18:28:34 · 7 answers · asked by Applecrumble 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok I need your help. I have this guy friend who's been acting really weird lately. He's been asking where I am all the time, calling me tons of times, asking if I can spend the night at his place. He says that he just wants to be in my arms.

I made it very clear a while back that I'm not ready for a relationship, because i'm very focused on school and work.

Well the other day we were watching a movie and I just wanted to cuddle and he kissed my forehead then told me "you know I'm your man right?? And you're my girl..." What's that about?? Does he want a relationship??

2007-12-11 18:21:50 · 22 answers · asked by *Heart~broken* 4 in Singles & Dating

My bf and i have been together for 3 months and yesterday he told me that we should start having sex but i told him that i'm not ready yet. Can you tell me how long it took for you to star having sex with your bf or gf??...How many months?...I just wanna know your experience...and also tell me how much time you spent with your partner before starting to have sex..thanx

2007-12-11 18:15:09 · 16 answers · asked by Elena_Jolie 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to be true for her ,,,i have no gf but i think i dont need now ,,

2007-12-11 18:12:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been having problems for about 3 years now. one year ago i found out that he had an account on match.com. i tried to let that go because he said it was just to talk to other women but... recently he punched the windshield out of my car and rammed my car with his truck. there has been some physical abuse in the past. i just feel like i've had enough. i still have feelings for him but i believe it's only because we have 2 children together. any advice?

2007-12-11 18:08:33 · 10 answers · asked by irisheyes8205 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So, theres this guy that I've been txting for about 7 months
now. I've never talked to him on the phone, or met him.
Last month he sent me a nude picture of himself. He's also sent me one before this, about 6 months ago.
And my mom found the second pic 2 weeks ago in my phone.

Now...I'm 16, and He just turned 18 2 weeks before he sent
the second pic. My mom ended up calling my dad over to talk
to me about it. And then my dad called the police when he
found out that the guy was 18. The cops showed up at my house , AND a detective. They opened an investigacion cass. The police took my cell phone for evidence. And they said something about him being put on the sexual predators list.

My parents are now checking my history on my laptop.
I can't have a cell phone anymore.
And I'm not aloud to stay home alone anymore.

But...The problem I have is them doing this to him.
It's not like he's an actual sex preditor. He's only 2 years
older than me.

But...Am I wrong here?

2007-12-11 17:59:46 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating