at times he loves me more of the time he says i m busy so i get tired our maretial relationship is also ok not good enough it feels as if v both have compromised he takes us out spends money but what is my requirement is never fullfilled that in any case, v do not meet on 4 atleast 20 or 25 days on ----- please tell me what should i do is that he doesnt love me or what it is not thjat i m not good looking comparetively im better than him, this i shoulndt mention but i have to.
2007-12-11 20:08:07 · 10 answers · asked by madhu b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is an action based on mutual trust, sacrifice, and compromise. You obviously love your husband, so wouldn't you be willing to sacrifice or compromise on things to make sure that he's happy? Similarly, he should be doing the same for you. You both act for each OTHER'S benefit so that your relationship may flourish.
2007-12-11 20:16:17 · answer #1 · answered by Curious J, Esq. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all starts with good communication. If you don't talk you don't get into each others' minds and thoughts and then when doubts creep in and the loving feeling starts to dwindle. Communication between lovers is like foreplay. It should be fun and light at first so as not to overwhelm you both. Read men are from mars, women are from venus. You will see that we do have our differences and most of the time are worried for no reason. Keep the flame burning by thinking positive thoughts!
2007-12-12 04:23:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having problems translating what you are saying. So all I can say is that if you are too busy for your husband and you are not fulfilled, the two of you need to but more effort into your marriage. Good marriages don't just happen, they are a lot of work. Love does not require good looks. And spending money is not love either. You both need to spend time and work on your relationship. Start talking to each other and find out what to do to make it better for both of you.
2007-12-12 04:16:47 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have been married for quite some time, say for about 5 years+ then you and your husband (just the two of you) need to take a short holiday and bring the romance back into your married life. If you have been married for less than 5 years, then there's obviously some things are seriously lacking in your relationship with him. The best thing you can do is to sit and have a heart to heart talk with him and find our what's bothering him.
2007-12-12 04:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by yuvan53 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
madhuji,first of all do you have children, for how many years are you married? An answerer to this question must know these details.You have used the word compromised did anything bad happen in your relationship with your husband, or did he openly confess his dislike for you.
If you feel that he is not spending enough time with you, you must directly consult this matter with him and make him understand,and bring about a consensus.If you are going to mince matters like this, then whether he loves you or not you yourselves will get depressed.Be straight and clear your doubts by directly questioning him.Best of luck mrs madhu
2007-12-12 04:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by paritran 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A straight answer is not possible. More details are needed.
How long you married
What are your ages
Children
What he does & what you do
Living alone or with other members
Your earlier lives
His & your's nature
Your sex life (it's very important)
But don't get dishearted. At proper time & mood talk to him politely. Life should improve.
Is it practicably possible to leave him ? I thing you go away from him for sometime. You have to keep trying different ways.
2007-12-13 01:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Harish K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you shouldnt worry, he could be going throught a bad time or just might be bored of his days being the same... I think you should talk to him and let him know how you feel and see how it goes from there...Anything can be solved by talking and he is your husband so dont think he doesnt love you because he does
Hopes this helps, Goodluck
2007-12-12 04:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by ~ Bs2S ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This question is very hard to answer without knowing you and your husband. Did your relationship used to be fun and exciting and the light gradually burned out? Or has it always been this way?
2007-12-12 04:12:56 · answer #8 · answered by margarita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell him what r yr concerns., & give him space.,
2007-12-12 05:13:52 · answer #9 · answered by JAMES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hard to say..........but some punctuation might help.
2007-12-12 04:15:15 · answer #10 · answered by amy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋