This guys is is really getting on my nerves he is always do bad stuff to me what should i DO !!!?

Question

and his name is Carlo...he is cute, tall and handsome...BUT!!! he is a BIG ASSHOLE!!! he always make fun of the people in the class..he has no respect for others...especially the for me.

We had this Exchange Gift thing for the whole class...unfortunately he unsexpectedly pick me.... so im so, so nervous...coz he might give me an insulting gift... he once said that he will going to give me a LOVE letter??? came from his Heart...that full of love??? ....i told him...WHAT FOR??? he had a girlfriend so he was making fun of me to the whole class then he again...told the whole class he will give me an HOtOil(coz my hair is kinda dull.but that was before...!!!)..and i was like Laughing but deep inside i was really, really hurted by his ******* jokes..then for the last time of this day..he told again the whole class..that its hard to give me a Gift...because he wasn't sure if his going to give me a gift Guy or for a Girl..isn't ovious that im a GIRL.just because im just a simple girl???

Answer 1

Wow, he sure does sound like an ass. Obviously he is insecure about something in his life and needs to pick on people to feel good about himself. I guess the best advice I can give you would be to ignore him. If he sees that it bothers you then thats like the fuel he needs to get satisfaction. If you ignore him (and if everyone else would ignore him) he would have zero satisfaction and would stop for sure. So although your not going to get the whole class to stop, ignore him yourself or if you are confident enough, make a joke back at something he says to you! For instance, about the love note, tell him thats youd love a love note, and youll make a copy for everyone at school showing how much he loves you..that would embarrass him!! Or about your hair, just say "thanks, hot oil would be great, maybe Ill let you try some as well if it works great. If you have humor to your come back, people will be laughing at what you say and he may not pick on you as much since it doesnt bother you. Hope this helps, good luck!!

Answer 2

You are an absolutely beuatiful girl with a warm heart and wonderful personality. You deserve to be treated with respect and love, don't ever forget that. The best thing you can do is ignore this guy and perhaps tell your teacher how mean he is and that what he is doing is bullying. Buy two gifts for this guy...buy a barbie doll and a gift certificate from your local music store. If he gives you a bad gift then give him the barbie doll. If he gives you a good gift then give him the gift certificate.
I think you are wonderful and one day a special and nice guy will find you and make you happy.
Sweet dreams Princess!!

Answer 3

What is the deal? Why don't you make fun of him. Make his feelings hurt. Why don't you tell him how he is on the inside and why he does things as if you're a psychologist. Don't hurt him physically but emotionally like you. Don't put up with this ****. Give him a doll from the dollar store if you are suppose to give him a gift and say this gift if for little cry babies like you. I did that to some one when I was in school and everyone made fun of him. Although in the end he gave the doll tatoos and a mohawk and then people thought it was cool but they still made fun of him , I know I did.

Answer 4

When someone makes fun of another, it is something wrong within them. People that make fun of others have a real problem and think that making other people look small, they make themselves look better. Call him on it and he will stop once he realizes that everyone realizes he just wants to look bigger, better and stonger than he really feels that he is. I call it the Jaguar complex. It's a volkswagon that want to be a jaguar but can't figure how how to pull it off. Either that or he is overwhelmed with himself and has no substance inside. Whichever a bully is a bully. Only one way to deal with a bully and that's to confront and not let him get away with it. Be prepared that he will get mad when his bullying doesn't work and may physically confront you, just stand up to him. So what if your hair is dull and he does gives you oil. When he gets loud and starts trying to run you down, just hand him his gift back and telll him to keep it. You don't want anything from a jerk. When he gets loud and tries to hurt your feelings just get sarcastic and laugh at him and say something like ohh bully bully trying to hurt my feelings. Oh gee my feeling are so hurt. And then give him the hand and tell him to go away he is a waste. of humanity. Get everyone to laugh at him. If you can't outtalk him then just make a sarcastic face and just give him the hand again (as in talk to the hand). People pick on people they think they can pull their stuff out on. In life you will need to learn to how to protect yourself and there are many ways to do it so think about it and pick one that will work for you. So dealing with this bully is another experience you will learn from. Do what works for you but try to verbally push him off, not suck in your feelings and take it cause you will never get rid of him. Everyone has weak points or things they think could be better. So what! It's those things that make you uniquely you. Always be proud of exactly who you are. The guys an idiot, tell him to stuff it when he starts. If he says he doesn't think he can figure out what to buy you then tell him not to bother especially if it means you have to listen to any more of his stupid stuff. One thing an older sibling did for me was teach me how to deal with a stronger adversary whether I wanted to or not. Good Luck.

Answer 5

kids are just mean...

the funny thing about life dear, is this....

Wait till your 25. Those people who teased you might likely be some white trash neighboor who goes and picks up beer everynight of the week. But when that time comes dont laugh at him. Just know inside that yep, look whos laughing now.

Just stay focused and screw him. You will find a man to love you like you want ( even if you are a little young? lol )

sincerely,
26 in texas

Answer 6

This guy sure sounds like a Dumb AZZ! And to top it off if his girl friend allows him to get away with the stuff he does than she is no better. What I would do is if he gives you a bad gift I would thank him and then take it to his girl friend and tell her that she needs it more than you do.
He is a bully and is very insecure with himself and his life. He has to put others down to make himself feel better. I pity the guy as he just needs to feel secure with himself and leave others alone. Good luck.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Answer 7

well at lease he doesn't hurt you physically, not like my classmate in the Philippines, always like punching me, but i punch back when I'm in the bad mood. Do the same as I do, ignore till you can't hold it back, but before letting it go try to talk to him that try to stop what he is doing cause you don't like it and tell him that do he wants to feel that way like you feel when he is vexing you, and if he doesn't stop wait until he says something again then slap him in the face while the whole class is looking. ok

Answer 8

i in my view get alongside with especially plenty each and every sign each and every person is very distinctive however looking on their signs and warning signs. If I had to %. one however i might say Gemini or Aquarius Geminis through fact a brilliant style of them are basically so fake i do in comparison to fake in any respect.... Aquarius through fact a brilliant style of them attempt to be humorous each and every of the time... that is like they don't be responsive to while to cease! some Pisces i've got disliked those i've got not enjoyed have been so whiny that is insufferable they attempt to play the sufferer plenty too.... The signs and warning signs I look after the main are Virgos through fact my boyfriend and cousin/bff are virgos they are basically very candy and cute even while they pass on their little rants lol Libra- I even have 2 of my bff's that are Libras idk why yet they only continuously make me smile :) they are very beneficiant too! they continuously look out for me and help me out. Scorpios- through fact the two my mothers and fathers are scorpios and my grandma is one too i like my grandma and fogeys to loss of life they are very unswerving and giving i be responsive to they are going to continuously preserve me no remember what! scorpio

Answer 9

Just ignore him.. He'll leave you alone if you start ignoring him and just don't show that you are hurt just don't show an expression.. He'll stop because he wouldn't have teasing you because he'll think you don't care..

But for a minute It sounds like that he has a crush on you because most of the boys or maybe even girls tease their crushes because they want their crush to notice them. Anyways, you did say he was cute, right!

So.. you choose what you wanna do..
GOOD LUCK on your problem!

Answer 10

For goodness sake girl, tell him to hit the road, he's aright pig.Why would you even want a gift from this moron if he is just out to embarrass you. I would throw it straight into the garbage. Surely you have nicer people to be around than this loser.