My BF is too tired to want to save our r/s again hence he ended it yesterday. We were both sad & hurt but he felt that was the best way since I've not been fully commited to him the past 9 mths and he's been giving out his love to me and I've only been receiving. I showed him love by buying him things sometimes but that's not what he wants. Anyway he's not replying to my text msgs anymore but I still msg him now & then like informing him im at work alrdy, ive reached home etc, do you think this is still necessary if I want to prove my love & commitment to him ? He told me time will heal wounds and over time, I will forget who he is. I told him I will never coz I know I wont. Can anyone give me advices what can I do to make him feel my LOVE, and im not talking about buying presents. Currently he's also very stressed at work as he's far from mthly target (hes in copier sales), what can I do to encourage & comfort him ? Advices please, thanks v much !!
2007-12-11 14:10:40 · 7 answers · asked by Arpengenie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just sent him a text msg that I now know my direction with him and I'd like to show to him, but his reply was curt "forget me". I really feel so hurt. I never wanted to let him go, really..
2007-12-11 14:52:52 · update #1
Admit to yourself that this relationship is over and do not become his stalker.
You are worth so much more than he is worth. Go find your self esteem and a better man.
Good luck.
2007-12-11 14:13:49 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh, he's just stressed out. Hang in there. Buy him a small bouquet of flowers, make his favorite meal and bring it by, that would be a loving thing to do. Make him paper snowflakes and string them on his window and put up a little Christmas tree in his office to cheer him. Buy some massage oil and say you want to stop by his place and give him a back rub. Sneak into his house and write that you love him on his mirror in red lipstick. If he's not responding to his texts, take a sexy pix of yourself and send him that while he's at work. He might like that. Be positive about his work situation.. guys need a muse. Write him a little love note and tuck it in his briefcase for him to find. And most of all, if you know he's the one, never let him go.
2007-12-11 14:28:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave him alone. Bugging him is certainly not going to make him come back. Do not becoming the annoying ex. If you are supposed to be together then he will come back. If you really love him, then let him go without making his life miserable.
2007-12-11 14:28:04 · answer #3 · answered by Emily W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be best to just tell him you love him and let it go. Sounds like he already has. Just move on now.
2007-12-11 14:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by docC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a LIFE! Begging for his attention won't gain you any respect at all, and a Quality Relationship;NEEDS respect!
2007-12-11 14:16:19 · answer #5 · answered by K M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He no longer cares, he is indifferent. You deserve better.
2007-12-11 15:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lucci 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a friend.
2007-12-11 14:16:30 · answer #7 · answered by moonchild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋