Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

Hey girls you should have the answer to my question?
I like this girl that has a locker close to mines. Well one day I found like some sort of jewlery in my locker and the girl that I like was the only one there, well is two girls wich is two sisters, that are always together. so anyways when im at my locker they are always looking at me and smiling with each other. After I finished using my locker I put the jewlery wich made a great decoration for my locker back on the locker thingy that you use to find the number. The day after I the jewlery wich is today they told me good morning and I told them hello, then they asked me where Im from and I answerd them. Then I went to my homeroom and that was it. I dont know if they put the decoration in my locker but they were the only ones there. What do you girls think. They do stare at me alot while smiling and talking to each other but I cant hear what they say. Do the girls like me or just being friendly.

2007-12-07 15:28:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why dont girls like guys who are into bodybuilding. what turns you off about a guy that is into boydbuilding

2007-12-07 15:28:39 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 15:28:32 · 3 answers · asked by YesIDid 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a secret Santa. I got a girl for it. She is a tom boy. What gift should i give her and it can't be to expensive. I need answers fast. please help.

2007-12-07 15:28:11 · 2 answers · asked by Successor 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

i hav found out that my gf is pregnant about four months now, and i still havent told my parents, we are both mature adults.
we are also both from different cultures and this upsets both families,(Pakistani/chinese). i hate to admit it but most of the stress im feeling is considering my familes reaction.
i know how they are, they didnt approve me at first going out with my gf because she was chinese...basically they have old view thinking. to get to my point, i am unsure whether to tell them or not, because i knw how they will react, they will be angry and dis-own me of which i dont want to happen. should i just move away with my gf and tell them in a while when im ready, or tell them prior to the baby being born?

2007-12-07 15:27:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my oldest girl is a 17 yr. old varsity cheerleader

my house is the one where all the kids hang out. i have an indoor pool, arcade and theatre etc. the maid always keeps plenty of food in the house.

she is having several friends spend the night like usual. i just went to tell her i was going to bed. when i knocked on her door, someone said come in. when i opened it, my daughter wasn't there, but two of her friends were.

i said how was your day girls? the one lying on the bed, grabbed her shorts, and pulled them up in her crack like it was a pair of thongs and said, "i went tanning today, and my butt is so red, see" i just said, "better put something on that" and got out as fast as i could.

i know when i have been hit on, and this was DEFINATELY it

when i was a young man, i would hit on my friends moms and aunts all the time. i think it is normal for guys.

is it normal for girls, too?

for the record, i would NEVER allow anything to happen

2007-12-07 15:27:29 · 19 answers · asked by DocLove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband and i have a deal - i do all the indoor chores and he does all the outdoor ones.
this has worked really well up until the last year. About a year ago he took up a new job which means he works most weekends. And during the week has has two days off in a row e.g. Tuesday and Wednesday.

my husband has taken to "taking a well deserved break" on those days and not done any outdoor chores.
So this year I have planned our wedding (we got married in august) done all the shopping (we used to do this together) and done all the indoor and outdoor chores. Except starting the mower - he starts it for me because I just can't seem to do it!
Now... today we both have the day off work and we are starting our first garden. I am making him shovel all the dirt into the garden.
He is hot and sweaty (and sexy as hell i might add) and i'm here twiddling my thumbs and playing on the computer.

am i a selfish and lazy wife for not helping him?

2007-12-07 15:24:27 · 16 answers · asked by chilly 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is love so complicated? My ex and I decided to get back together (we wen't out in high school). I'm a junior in a college in a different state, and he's back home. I love him, and he says he loves me. But this long distance thing is so hard. I'll be home in 2 weeks, and the thought of him being with someone else makes me sick. But, I have to admit there are times when I just want to give up. How do I know if its worth it? And is it even possible for a man to be faithful in a long distance relationship, no matter how in love he is?

2007-12-07 15:22:29 · 8 answers · asked by MzIndependent09 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't know how to cope with it. she was right next to one of my classes. it's so weird because she was there one day and now she's dead. what should i do? i feel like no one wants to talk about it.

2007-12-07 15:21:22 · 5 answers · asked by Rita 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Nope thats not the game driving me crazy is.......

2007-12-07 15:18:53 · 7 answers · asked by saveitok 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have not been getting along for quite some time. I b**** alot about little things and get jealous for no reason always think my husband is cheating when he is home most of the time and doesn't like clubs. I know I need help but when I get angry I get crazy and can't control muself. I say hurtful things and throw things. But it's also that hes been waiting for his business to start for 4 months now so for 4 months he has not given me any money for bills.but never once I thought of leaving him because of money problems. I'm under alot of stress . We do love each other very much each time we fight he leaves to his mom's house for couple days. Lately thing have been getting worse. A month ago I lied to him about going to a club he was gone for 5 days I had to beg and beg and beg then he came home. 2 days ago I told me he had invite this girl to our house to watch a fight along with his boys. This girl is supposedly a close friend of his familys but I was upset he

2007-12-07 15:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband works about 60 hours a week. I am home with a 6 month old and work part time 2 days a week(which I love and am lucky to be able to stay home with him). When my husband gets home around 9:00 he eats and falls asleep on the couch. Every night is like this and he also works on the weekends. I don't really feel like we have a marriage. I look forward to him getting home so I can have some adult conversation and he falls asleep within an hour. How can we keep our marriage ok. I hate this feeling of resentfulness because I know he works very hard and can understand why he is always tired.

2007-12-07 15:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by Kristie R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when someone treats you VERY badly and you KNOW you can easily get better or is it easier to move on when it ends because of some other circumstance such as long distance where it might have worked otherwise and you didn't do each other wrong by cheating, etc. I personally think its easier to move on when the man I'm with is an @sshole anyway. I've had both types of experiences and I got over the @sshole pretty quick, but I don't know if I will ever get over the other guy. I love him a lot and we lived together for 2 and a half years and I really wanted to spend my life with him...but I guess we had our problems too.

2007-12-07 15:15:57 · 4 answers · asked by little e 3 in Singles & Dating

Okay, obviously I mean "fixed" or "snipped". We have ENOUGH pro-creaters in this world. We are becoming over populated as it is. I think that all men should dispence their sperm into a bank, for when they are ready to create a child. As many samples as they want to give. And then get fixed. This would fixed all unplanned pregnancies and over populated people problems. Why not fix where the problem begins? Sure, you can get angry and are all "prideful" about your little smelly berries, but really......this would fix so many problems..haha..

2007-12-07 15:15:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with a girl, and we were officially together for 10 days before i had to leave the country (coz university started). Now its been almost 4 months, and we are closer than ever. Have we gone totally insane? I spend twice as much as i make on phone calls, and money is running out fast. Found a solution to that though. Cant wait to see her next summer. It feels like an eternity!

2007-12-07 15:14:31 · 7 answers · asked by something crazy 4 in Singles & Dating

I was betrayed by someone close to me and i am having a problem forgivig because i cant forget and i feel i can not believe anything this person says to me. So i have stopped speaking to this person all together. I feel i cant say anything because i cant say anything nice. do i continue to be hurt over and over again or do i just keep the peace and be silent?

2007-12-07 15:14:00 · 8 answers · asked by Kelina C 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm on the point of leaving and taking my 11 month old daughter out of this situation. My fiance's son who is six is playing us against each other. Acting spoiled and pretty much telling his mother that I want all of his father's attention while he is over at our house. He tells her other things too that aren't true like I drink when he's there (and I don't drink) So his father has pretty much cut me out of the picture as far as being a parent figure and gets together with his ex wife to discuss things and does not include me. His tantrum throwing and lies have drivin a wedge in between us and we are no longer close. This just started a month ago and I'm so sick of it that I'm thinking about leaving. I do not take all of the attention believe me I actually hardly get to spend anytime with my fiance anymore at all because his son demands that he stays up with him playing video games until 10:30 at night. If we do talk his son gets in the middle of us and throws a tantrum! HELP.

2007-12-07 15:13:58 · 8 answers · asked by mudpuppie_80 4 in Family

My fiancee wants to tell his parents on christmas that we're engaged. We've been together for 10 months now. A few years ago we dated for about 7 months. We plan on getting married Dec 05, 2008. We're both 23 and we're moving in together. His parents love me. My question is what is a good way to tell his parents that we're getting married? Should we make a "marriage" paper and wrap it up as a gift? Should we just come out and tell them? Should we make an engagement cake and take it to their house? How did you tell your future in~laws that you were engaged? I want them to know cuz their oldest son told them after he got married.

2007-12-07 15:13:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

looking for opinions

2007-12-07 15:12:45 · 34 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom doesn't have a job but she gets some type of check frm the gov. & we get food stamps my father is a functioning crackhead meaning he has a good job but he spends major money on crack & he jus moved out because my mom is cheatn on him & i saw the fat bastard who she with. But my problem is my appearance there is no income in the household & its hard 4 me 2 go 2 school with the same clothes frm last year. Wen I had a summer job I bought a few school outfits & my parents were supposed 2 get me & my little sister sum more but it nevr happened (school startd 3 months ago). I am about to be 16 in a week exact and I am really prayn tht I get a job so I can do 4 myself n my little sis bcuz no one else is. I just look a mess n it is really affectn me I am so over this though

2007-12-07 15:12:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex (twice) came back from Arizona the other day after having been gone for over a year. Mind you when he left, he said goodbye to no one...he just "had to find himself". I guess he has now and told me he came back here just for me and wants me to tell him to stay here (indiana). We tried to date twice but I ended up getting bored....Everything's kind of crazy right now...but who know what'll happen in a few months! What if he decides to find himself again? I'm lost...what do you suggest?

2007-12-07 15:11:55 · 15 answers · asked by Kyrie 1 in Singles & Dating

HELLO This is new for me! I and my husband been married for seven years now. I say around the second or third year of marriage it started to take a turn. Don't get me wrong he great with the kids, he a great provider, however the communication and relationship that we have are not the same. We barely talk and when we do it is when we are apart. Sex is minimum. I have grown tired of that. I am not an unattractive female I'm sure I wouldn't have a problem finding a man but that is not the point. I'm trying to save my marriage we have went to dozens of counseling. None has worked we even separated for a couple of months and got back together to try at again however we ended up back in the same boat. I am tired of being in the same household with my husband and feel that he is not there I am tired of going through of not having sex for six mo. almost two yrs once. He stated he would rather leave because he feel he doesn't need to change. Im tired of doing all the sacrificing.

2007-12-07 15:11:30 · 6 answers · asked by Ms. Lena! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like just walk up and hold his hand or tell him wuts on my mind i dont kno how to do it though . it sounds confuzing but it really iznt plzplzplz help!!

2007-12-07 15:11:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

their 7th grade sweetheart? just seeing if its possible.... curious;]

2007-12-07 15:06:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 11 years. The past few years hasnt been very good. We argue all the time, we cant get along at all. He pays no attention to me. He works all the time and when he is home, hes either sleeping or watching tv. I feel like I come in second next to his job. We never have anything to talk about with each other. He use to kiss me goodbye when leaving for work, now he just rushes out the door, without even a bye. I feel like hes a stranger to me. I miss what we use to have, I feel like he doesnt even love or like me anymore. Ive asked him to help me work this out, but he wont. I guess what Im asking, is this something every couple that has been together for a long time goes through? Is it that we are bored of each other? To be married, I sure do feel lonely......

2007-12-07 15:04:16 · 9 answers · asked by Care2much 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a huge crush on a junior that goes to my school.i am a freshmen.i have never talked to him b4 but ppl tell me that he is a super nice guy! i wuld really like to get to kno him though. i have liked him for like 4 months and just recently he has been looking at me constantly in the mornings and at lunch and then when i pass him in th ehallways he glances at me EVERYDAY! He has a GF though and they supposely just started going out. What does glances mean if they happen every day from the same guy? could it mean something? does he know i like him? he barely even knows me and i don't know him that well but he seems like a really cool guy...can u be interested in someone you don't know?? and at lunch his friends always look back at me and he does it too...my friends even notice him glancing at me all the time...please help me i am so confused!!! He doesn't really glance at me that much when his friends are around but when they are not around he looks at me a lot!

2007-12-07 15:02:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For too long he has been doing me wrong, and tonight, i want to end it between us. But I KNOW he's going to come up with something...

How can i make a clean break?

2007-12-07 14:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A single man/woman who knows that your married is checking you out.What would you do?Do you think its alright to smile and wink at them as long as it didnt go past that or would you ignore them because you would consider flirting as a form of cheating on your spouse?

2007-12-07 14:55:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he's a sleep and I'm in need of love ,

2007-12-07 14:55:22 · 23 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I would rather do something that involves conversation on the date so I get to know more about the person. At a movie, you can't talk in a theatre during the movie and the movie is distracting from the development of communication.If I were to take a girl on a date, I would take her to a homeless shelter because I would like to see how well her heart is in helping others in need and not be driven my money like a lot of women are. We could work together in the soup kitchen because I can see how well of a cook she is.

2007-12-07 14:52:17 · 24 answers · asked by Eric W 1 in Singles & Dating