Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

she completely ignores me she didnt before she use to at least say hi is it b/c i never talk to her b/c im so damn nervous i can tell sometimes she will listen to my convos. b/c she will glance at me and if im sitting behind her she will turn around sometimes and like look behind her. We are practicly strangers to each other we have know each other for a year but never really talked

2007-12-07 15:57:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Somewhere in the back of my mind I know I am and that I need to start getting my life back together for my daughters sake. And on the other hand, I can't let go of my bf. It's basically over and he doesn't offer us any kind of support anyways, but somehow I can't cut the final string that keeps us together. I end up fighting with him 24/7 about how he needs to accept he has a kid now and needs to step up. But he doesn't and just thinks that I want to ruin his life because mine is. Why am I finding this so hard to just accept that he won't accept it and just move on?

2007-12-07 15:56:55 · 16 answers · asked by Me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how can i get rid of a [hickey]..? plz help..!

2007-12-07 15:56:52 · 10 answers · asked by adri 1 in Singles & Dating

I have liked my friend Alex for about a year and a half. His girlfriend Ashley hates me. They've been together a little over a year. He keeps trying to get me help him cheat on her, but I dont want to hurt Ryan, my boyfriend by breaking up with him. I like him so much but I think I might love Alex. Alex was attempting to break up with Ashley this past summer when he found out she's pregnate. He says that hes going to dump her after the baby is born and then ask me out. He keeps flirting and hitting on me at school and trying to mess around with me when we are alone. He got another one of my friends [one of his ex gf's] to help him cheat on Ashley at least 3 different times [handjob, *******, etc.]. He's not happy with Ashley at all. I really love this guy, but I really hate to break up with my boyfriend for him. What should i do?

2007-12-07 15:55:01 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca R 1 in Singles & Dating

all my friends are moving all i will have is 3 friends left over which the one of the guys and girls out of that 3 are really popular and that leaves my other friend which in highskoo she'll be hangin wit her sis so how do i make more friends be4 highskoo so im not a loner

2007-12-07 15:53:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

If we do, CPS is called or she tries to get my husband fired out of spite. We tried allowing her to live w/ us b/c all her utilities were cut off, but after 2 wks had to hv police remove her bc she refused 2 leave. This woman didn't even raise me. She pawned me off on my grandmother. I have 2 half bro/sis. My sister is a heroin addict & my bro has given up on her. 2night she tells me she never wants 2 hv anything 2 do w me bc I didn't make it 2 her house in time & ice cream I'd bought her was melted. Bought her 1/2 gal yesterday. Tomorrow, even though she wants nothing 2 do w/ me, she'll call & ask more favors. She's had what we believe to be her final SSDI hearing &hopefully will b getting a ruling soon. After she receives her $ & can pay her own bls, I hate to say it, but I never want 2 c her again. She's made my entire life hell & I cant take it anymore. I know its a disease or so they say, but part of me believes shes just always been a spiteful heffer. Am I a bad person?

2007-12-07 15:51:55 · 12 answers · asked by gwenbleu2 1 in Family

It is a poem, significant for ITS' Truth be respected, within it!
And I will translate it, as well, from the Spanish to English - community Guideline people.
For it is a Poem of VIRTUE, not suspicion.

From La Guantanamera, written by apostle of Cuba, Jose Marti.

"Cultivo yo una Rosa Blanca
En Junio como en Enero
Para ese Amigo Sincero
Que me da su Mano Franca."

Translation :

Culivated is this White Rose,
In June as well, as January
For THAT One Friend who with Sincerity
Grants me to hold his Hand in Frankness!

Good Night, Good People. And Bless!

Marti Grecia Odalyz.

2007-12-07 15:51:42 · 9 answers · asked by skydancerwi 6 in Friends

the person you like is too good for you.

2007-12-07 15:50:38 · 32 answers · asked by hello there 1 in Singles & Dating

I kind of like this girl and I told her to hang out with me one time, but she told me if she could bring her friend. What does this mean?

2007-12-07 15:50:36 · 8 answers · asked by Clarom087 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok me and my new girl friend haven't gone that far (sex) and um.. so i jack off which i know isn't wrong but im either watching porn or thinkin about other girls. Which i kinda feel guilty about (and if you know me you know that i could kill someone and not feel guilt) so is it wrong? and i think it would be way wierder if i jacked off to my girl friend or would it be hmmm?, i don't know what would do you think?

2007-12-07 15:49:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is 19 and dropped out of high school for about a year and everytime we try to talk to her she threatens my mom that she will leave the house. she works and helps my mom when my mom needs it cuz she cleans houses. The thing is she listens to her bf's mother who shouldnt be saying anything cuz her son is the same like my sis. I just want advice on how we can talk. my mom has raised us without beating or grouding but i turned out ok (honor student) and i really want my sister to make something out of herself.(she would have made a great lawyer) i want to talk to her and start to get her on track so her life wouldnt be as tough as my moms and she needs a guy who will treat her well and help her get on track but i guess her bf can stay but any advice on how i should talk to her (my mom and i should talk to her) plss i need to do this as early as possible

2007-12-07 15:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Lost&Confused 1 in Family

2007-12-07 15:48:44 · 14 answers · asked by pretty1 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girlfriend have been with each other for almost 2 years. We talk over the phone more than we see each other but when we do see each other its the best
but she cant go out as much as i want her to
and we dont trust each other anymore because she is unfaithful
what should i do because i dont want to leave her and she loves me as much as i love her.

2007-12-07 15:48:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She said that we didn't have the same interests and such and broke up with me after going out for about a month. She said we were meant to be good friends not dating. However ever since she broke up with me things have been acward between us. I want to talk to her about it but I don't know what to say... I still want to be good friends with her and I want to tell her that but then it would be hard to break the acwardness. I don't want it to seem like i'm trying to get back togather with her but i want it to be close. Allthough I'm only 16, it's a complicated situation. Any suggestions or comments of what I can do will help. Thanks

2007-12-07 15:47:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 15:46:46 · 11 answers · asked by [♥]Cappie[♥] 1 in Weddings

To me, saying it doesn't matter who's fault it is is like saying the kitchen floor is wet, but it doesn't matter if it's the pipes to the sink or the dishwasher. This is just an analogy for relationships. Don't give me responses about home repair, please!

Don't we have to identify the source of the problem before it can be fixed? Yes, the damage is done. The wooden floor is damaged. But are you just going to leave it alone? No! The problem will get worse and someone might get hurt anyway! Aren't you going to fix the pipes first, then clean up the mess?

2007-12-07 15:44:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

MY BOYFRIEND JUST PISSED ME OFF AND I WANNA MAKE HIM PAY! ANYONE HAVE ANY IDEAS GAAAA!

2007-12-07 15:43:35 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that it is apt to cause discomfort to some young ladies that he has sex with. Is he obligated to caution a new sex partner about the size of his penis or should it be the young lady`s responsibility to feel his penis with her hand or visually check it for size before allowing him to attempt penetration.

2007-12-07 15:42:20 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Un-couth 7 in Singles & Dating

I saw sunshine on yahoo answers and she seems a very nice person... what do you think?

No points for a bad answer.. we all need a little love

2007-12-07 15:41:44 · 12 answers · asked by Spooky Mouse 5 in Singles & Dating

My Fiancee and I are starting a horse boarding facility and have a couple that we wanted to train the horses. they somehow have gotten us to split all the profits with them, which i am either to nice or not smart, i really wanted her help so i agreed...Now they are kinda taking over and asking unreasonable demands, like asking my fiancee to pay to have his own horses here!! He is the one who leased the place! Any way now they want to move into the barn appartment, Originally My fin. told them ok, but feels so uncomfortable with it he descided against it. We told them today. Business partner came straight over to my house, after i fully explained it to her husband, and called from cell phone and told me she wanted to "discuss this with me". They didn't ask me if they could move in, they asked my fian. and he is the one who changed his mind, Any way when she knocked on door i hid in my room all day like a crazy person...Because this is becomming to much for me, What do i do? go of

2007-12-07 15:39:04 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and I decided to separate on Nov 20, 2007. I just found out that he quit his job Dec 3rd. Why would he do this? He was self employed working 15 hours a day and now he has decided to quit and live in his van. We have a 6 month old baby and he has 2 daughters from a prev marriage. Why is he doing this?

2007-12-07 15:36:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok well his name is ian and i really like hjim but...................... we havent mkisswed yet

2007-12-07 15:35:23 · 12 answers · asked by Lauren B 1 in Friends

2007-12-07 15:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by sexy tweety 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Some mnths ago i met a guy online, we started chatting n spoke regularly. I then met him n we met for dina, the chemistry between us was amazing, i was totally comfortable with him. we then started seeing each other regularly.he was in the country on a contract job.he told me he was single but was not lookg 4 a commitment.
a few months later, coz of work issues, he had to quit and leave. just a day b4 he left he told me he was married n had a kid as well.
at 1st i dnt know how to react, i always had a rule not to see a married man n i had broken that rule (without knowing)...
when he left, i realised that i really liked him...we r still in touch over emails n chat. the funny thing is that now i feel like i wud still c him if he came back.
He says he cares abt me but he lied to me. he says his not happy with his marriage but not willin to leave his wife. shud i even believe this? is it wrong that i still like him? should i still be in touch with him?
what would u do if it was u?

2007-12-07 15:33:27 · 17 answers · asked by Swit Angel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going home 8 hours away to see my mom for Christmas, even though our relationship has been strained for many years, even growing up but very signifigant, her no showing at my wedding due to her wanting me to allow (her new husband of 4 months) to give me away. I said no that I wanted my brother to do it and my husband to be supported me. Her retaliation was to no show. Now she has some health issues and we are going home for Xmas to see her based on a recent wish to have us together for Christmas. My husband is awesome, treats me well and is a good sport going along and trying to get along with her. Everytime we go up to visit she suggests that he and her husband hang out then she monopolizes all of my time and excludes my husband. (her wanting girl time is understandable but its whenever we go). How can I be kind to my mom,(its the holidays) but be firm with the fact that she has to accept my husband of ten years as part of me? This really hurts my feelings.

2007-12-07 15:33:08 · 17 answers · asked by TennesseeGirl 2 in Family

I love him and dont understand why he tells me ,cant you see I just fell out of love. help me

2007-12-07 15:32:22 · 16 answers · asked by paul k 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a basketball coach and work with kids for my job. Its very family oriented work. She never attends anything, no games, no events at work....even though its been expressed its important to me.
She does little around the house...i do almost everything. I mention i need help around the house....very little gets done.

We get along...but at what point is enough enough? I cant do everything.....i work about 60 hours a week at least, i take care of her, and treat her well. Just feel like im not getting help.
Ive talked with her time and time again about these things calmly and nicely...and i get no results. When do i give up?

2007-12-07 15:31:37 · 15 answers · asked by Matt C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you look for in a girl?

1. Would you rather have a beautiful girl with no personality or a not so pretty girl That has an awsome personality.

2.What color of hair do you prefer Blonde, red, brunette or black?

3.Does there weight a matter to you?

4. What r 3 things your looking for in the girl your going to marrY?

5. On the first date do you think it ok to make out?

6.What part of the body do you notice the most? For example there smile there eyes there laugh(dont do anything inapproipate please)

7. Describe the perfect girl physically and personality wise

2007-12-07 15:30:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am kinda dating this one guy. I have known him for a while, but really, I have been dating him for a week. My parents don't know, but when I started to like him, then they make a big deal about interracial stuff. He's black/puerto rican and i am white/panamanian. But they think my reputation would be ruined. I don't know if it's because of the white/black thing (my parents have nothing against black, but they still act like it's 1969), but I love him and he loves me and I wanna find a way to tell my parents that i love him and that race doesn't matter, but I am too afraid. This guy is amazing and him and we love the same stuff (Guitar Hero and heavy metal music). I wanna tell my parents that race doesn't matter to me and that love is love, but how?

2007-12-07 15:30:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have this younger sister who trys to act just like me. I'm sick of it! I will get new clothes, shoes, ect. and she will say they are ugly. Then when I out grow them and she gets them she likes them. She also thinks that because I can wear it she can wear it. She trys to hang out with my friends and treats me like I'm the same age as her. I really like this friend of mine. Everytime I am talking to him she has to walk up and listen . We really don't get along that great, but I still love her and try to be understanding. I just want some space and don't want someone copying everything I do. Please don't tell me to take it as a complement , my mom tells me that, and I have tried talking to her.
Sorry it's so long

2007-12-07 15:29:45 · 9 answers · asked by R.A.R 3 in Family