My sister is 19 and dropped out of high school for about a year and everytime we try to talk to her she threatens my mom that she will leave the house. she works and helps my mom when my mom needs it cuz she cleans houses. The thing is she listens to her bf's mother who shouldnt be saying anything cuz her son is the same like my sis. I just want advice on how we can talk. my mom has raised us without beating or grouding but i turned out ok (honor student) and i really want my sister to make something out of herself.(she would have made a great lawyer) i want to talk to her and start to get her on track so her life wouldnt be as tough as my moms and she needs a guy who will treat her well and help her get on track but i guess her bf can stay but any advice on how i should talk to her (my mom and i should talk to her) plss i need to do this as early as possible
2007-12-07 15:49:03 · 4 answers · asked by Lost&Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
19? time to live and learn let her move on and see where she gets paying for it all and your right the bf mom is out of line but nothing you can do there if she wants to take her advice. be there for her but don't enable her to be a slacker when it comes to school. cleaning is a hard job and requested but to go beyond you NEED that education so play the tuff love card and let her go...she'll be bcak i promise and will see things your way.
2007-12-07 15:55:53 · answer #1 · answered by osu0001@sbcglobal.net 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes as people get older they change and want to further themselves so they can get a career.She is still young and testing world with her feet.
2007-12-07 15:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She need to get rid of that boyfriend. Try talking to your sister and tell her how you feel. It's that boyfriend.
2007-12-07 15:53:02 · answer #3 · answered by BizWoman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a test, pass it by wisdom
2007-12-07 15:53:44 · answer #4 · answered by Rana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋