Family & Relationships - 7 December 2007

My MIL is not too bad, but given the choice to "take her or leave her" I would definitely "leave her" ha ha! What is your horror story and how did you cope (or did you???)!!!

2007-12-07 14:50:10 · 15 answers · asked by laura d 4 in Family

I no longer can have any children. I am not ' fixed '. I am 40 yrs old. He is 42. He decided to get ' fixed '.
Why do you suppose after 19 yrs of marriage and the fact that I can no longer have kids, would he decide to get ' fixed ' ?

Please leave only decent comments. He's not messing around.

2007-12-07 14:48:41 · 12 answers · asked by simpleminded 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i grew up in 8 places, 4 countries, so where am i from?

2007-12-07 14:45:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't want to hurt his feelings, or ask for too much.

2007-12-07 14:45:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my brother and sister in law got engaged when they only knew each other for only 4 months and married 6 months after that. they been married now for 1 1/2.shes only 22 and my brother is 21. do you think theys are going to last???they have their ups and downs but they love each other.???please answer..

2007-12-07 14:45:21 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was wondering what they are call cause i have them..i seen some people have them not alot...like its on the side it goes in..l , it looks like this *W* the W is the smile the stars are what im asking ..sry i couldn't find pics cause i dont know whats it call, its hard to describe

2007-12-07 14:44:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok here's the story my son is finally getting his HS diploma in 2 weeks, and he's also joining the Marines possibly leaving in Jan. I want to do something special for Christmas because who knows when he will be home for the holidays again. Any ideas?

2007-12-07 14:42:37 · 4 answers · asked by dawn w 2 in Family

Today I found out that one of my friends has a crush on the same guy that I like ALOT. For me it is far past being just a "crush". I am in high school, but I have only had strong feelings for three guys in my life so when I am attracted to someone it is really deep. When I fall I fall really hard. I know that I don't need a guy to be happy, but I just know I would be much happier if I had him.

Is it fair to still go after him even though I know that she likes him? She doesn't know how I feel. I know that she would never actually make a move and that she will just continue to admire him from afar. We aren't very close friends, but I don't want her to hate me.

One major difference is that she refers to her feelings as a crush, but mine is WAY past that.

2007-12-07 14:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When he sees me, we'll make eye contact for a second, then he'll look away and start stretching his neck and twisting it around like he has some crick in it or something. We exchange a lot of eye contact, and he has made this weird move more than a few times in my presence. But why the heck does he do this so much when I'm around? I am pretty sure he is attracted to me, I don't know him very well, but he did ask someone about my relationship status.

Do the weird movements have any meaning? No one else has noticed it, am I just reading into things too much?

2007-12-07 14:40:18 · 2 answers · asked by melissa 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 14:39:23 · 20 answers · asked by LUCKY3 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-07 14:37:09 · 16 answers · asked by Jalisa 1 in Family

Why do people "love" only to get hurt. Over and over again. Ruining families. Ruining their children's lives. Why? Why do people constantly move from one person to another? Why bother trying to find someone to love if you're gonna cheat on the other person? Why do they leave? Why do they cry? WHY PUT YOURSELF IN THIS POSITION? what is the worth? you lose more than you gain. What's the point...?

2007-12-07 14:36:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She used to like me, but as time went on, it waned. I still feel very affectionate for her, and am torn deeply. I don't believe she can ever like me again, though.

2007-12-07 14:36:28 · 38 answers · asked by Nathan L 1 in Singles & Dating

well me and a relative of mine got into a huge argument. he is always aggervating me and i never do much about it. well yesterday i was doing my homework and i really needed to concentrate, but he came in my room and i asked him nicely to get out. but he wouldnt so i told my mom to tell him to get out and he got mad and he put my computer chair out of place just for the hell of it and that really bothered me, because my mom is always getting on to me about where the computer chair is and she tells me she wants me to keep it under the desk. so i told him to put it back where it was and he didnt so i told my mom to tell him to do it and he did it but he didnt do it right and he knew what he was doing, he was trying to aggervate me even more. so i got a belt and i followed him and i gave him a good smack with it, but im sure it didnt hurt too bad. he got so angry he pushed me down into the dining room table and pushed me down and we fell down in the chair and the chair fell down. so i got

2007-12-07 14:35:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was working on a school project with a girl and she screwed up and made us fail so I said she was a F*cking idiot and slapped her in the face. She started crying and said she was goign to "kick me where it counts" what does that mean?

The girl is such a little b*tch and she thinks she can hurt me. HAHA, she is like 5'2 and i'm like 5'11. I thinks its hilariouss how girls think they can hurt me when i'm 100X stronger and tougher than them

2007-12-07 14:34:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had a child at 19 pushing 20 so I felt it was time.

2007-12-07 14:31:15 · 40 answers · asked by chicken2008 5 in Family

I told my husband that I don't mind him talking to his ex-girlfriend, but recently I found he created a second facebook account and his EX is his only "friend". Why would he hide this from me? Should I be concerned when I go away next weekend without him?

2007-12-07 14:25:37 · 13 answers · asked by Cassandra C 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, My mom when we were little use to go out to bars and leave me and my sisters home alone (ages6 &7). now that im almost 18 in 8 months, my mom treats me like her slave, she calls me a whore (im not) she use to beat me, but now its all verbal abuse, my sisters stick up for her and never me. I have moved to my fathers, to Ohio, and to Seattle washington just to get away, but she always forces me back, Just recently when I moved to Ohio, but I left my moms house in washington because she had 9-10 people living in a 3bed room house, but me and 3 guys that arnt related were having to live in the cold gorage together. I couldnt take it so i left. But anyways i want to know if i have a case that i can present to get amansapated right now on my own??? PLEASE GOD HELP. I cant take this anymore....



if it helps i have had jobs, and an aptment, but she keeps forcing me back I am able to take care of myslef but because she is my gardian i have to come back home when she says..pleaseHELP

2007-12-07 14:24:20 · 8 answers · asked by fairygirl888 2 in Family

Ok so i've been fooling around with this girl for about a month now. We talk to each other almost everyday, if not everyday then at least every other day. It started out with her coming up to my apartment and getting MY number, and we went from there. Well we spent a couple nights together where we only cuddled and then went home, but on the 4th night together we went to her place where i went and pleased her orally and a handjob. I didn't expect her to return the favor because we were still relatively new as a "thing"..

Well its been over a month now, and we've hooked up and fooled around probably10 times now and she has still not repayed the favor. She still likes to cuddle and when she's in the mood she wants me to do something to her, but it never goes the other way. I'm not sure if it is because she has never done it before or if she just doesnt want to?

What can I ask her, without making it seem awkward or forced, in reference to her pleasing me back?

2007-12-07 14:24:12 · 15 answers · asked by justchillin_5050 2 in Singles & Dating

she completely ignores me she didnt before she use to at least say hi is it b/c i never talk to her b/c im so damn nervous i can tell sometimes she will listen to my convos. b/c she will glance at me and if im sitting behind her she will turn around sometimes and like look behind her. We are practicly strangers to each other we have know each other for a year but never really talked

2007-12-07 14:19:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

It was kind of awkward.. because he sort of missed. He's so tall ! (6 feet almost) and I'm just barely 5 feet. I guess he estimated wrong haha! I mean hugs from behind are cute, but what are some ways short girls can hug tall boys without it being awkward? Short girls can't wrap their arms around the tall guy's neck! :[

2007-12-07 14:19:47 · 19 answers · asked by ello 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my soon to be ex told me about her past, and it was way more than I could deal with.

Can people really change their sexual habits, or is sex like any other addiction (such as drugs, alchohol, food etc), where people only try to control it.

The things she told me I could never trust her. Advice please.

2007-12-07 14:18:28 · 6 answers · asked by baron d 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here are the possible answers:

1 - Nobody is at fault. I disagree because the receiver chose to be offended before understanding what was said; therefore, it is their responsibility to apologize once it has been clarified.

2 - The giver is at fault. They should have been more clear, right? I also disagree here. Why should I have to walk on eggshells all my days? Everything I said would have to pass through a lawyer before I said it!

3 - The receiver is at fault. The moment something seemed offensive, they should have asked for clarification before getting emotional about it. This is the answer with which I side, unless you can present a better case. I'm open for suggestions.

4 - Both are at fault. I also disagree here. If I say something that had no negative meaning and it was taken the wrong way, why should I have to apologize for it?

I think relationships can work out better if we can identify where the root of the problem is, the receiver's *choice* to get offended.

2007-12-07 14:17:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Other than the obvious physical traits..

2007-12-07 14:09:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was mad at my son and threw my ipod at him, it hit his head and knocked him out and broke the ipod. Whos fault is it that the ipod broke?

2007-12-07 14:06:26 · 10 answers · asked by mowurlawn4cheap 1 in Family

My husband recently got his car towed from my housing complex we are separated my name is the only one on the lease. anyway it cost him more than a hundred dollars to get it out tow shop which he didnt have therefore i signed an agreement which said he can pay in two weeks since he didnt have the money then and if they dont get their money in 2 weeks im responsible for paying, he swore up and down he would pay for it then but now that it is due he has nothing and he is constantly telling me everyday i will give it to u tomorrow and everyday its a new excuse i told him they will raise my rent if i dont pay and he still wont pay why is he doing this knowing we have kids and i cant afford this extra bill what can i do to get my money ?

2007-12-07 14:04:14 · 13 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My little sis is a pain in the rear and she won't stop annoying me!! any advice on how to get her to stop? shes a 6 year old just in case you want to know.

2007-12-07 14:03:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do I show a guy I like him without embarassing myself in front of him?

2007-12-07 14:00:48 · 18 answers · asked by Caroline T 1 in Singles & Dating

What expertise do you think is the best? And DON'T be dirty about it! lol... Like, what do you like the best when a girl is kissing you?

2007-12-07 13:58:29 · 18 answers · asked by Gaga<3Love 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok, well my boyfriend is a year older than me, he is kind of a trouble maker and made some mistakes in the past, he swears, and me and my boyfriend kiss alot. There is some other things I dont want to mention. I am SCARED! My parents want to meet him, and he wants to come over. He is coming over tomorrow. Also, I know this is what everyone says, but my parents are a little embarrassing. They walk around the house, burp and fart and then laugh, and then they might say embarrassing things about me! I am terrified. What if my parents dont like him. My parents don't even know he is my boyfriend, they think he is a guy friend. I am planning to tell them that he is my boyfriend after he leaves tomorrow if my parents like him. What should I worry about. What should I tell him & my parents. What should he wear and what if he accidently slips out a swear or something like that! I am a wreck! OMG HELP!! Give me all the advice you have!!!

2007-12-07 13:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by *Natalie.* :P 5 in Singles & Dating