She used to like me, but as time went on, it waned. I still feel very affectionate for her, and am torn deeply. I don't believe she can ever like me again, though.
2007-12-07 14:36:28 · 38 answers · asked by Nathan L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're going to have to move on. You can't MAKE someone else like you. They either do or they don't. If you keep pursuing and pursuing, even after rejection, you're just going to look really desperate which will turn her off even more. I know it's hard....trust me I know....but if feelings aren't mutual, all you can do is move on and find someone else whose feelings for you will be mutual as your for her.
2007-12-07 14:40:43 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't believe she'll ever like you again? If that's the case, then what options do you have?
1 - wait...time...and the "pain" may go away, and you can focus your affection on something else
2 - wait...time...and the affection for her may continue to exist; so sometimes it's "timeing." If you still love her ten years from now, maybe this world won't be so cruel as to let you love someone who doesn't love you back YOUR ENTIRE LIFE. maybe THAT will be the time, and if you spent all those years w/ her in your heart...there's some cosmic force that will give your affection some value, and bring her to you.
all things in good time. life is short, enjoy EVERYTHING ELSE.
2007-12-07 14:43:40 · answer #2 · answered by lzahraei 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try to open up a dialogue with her. If you really feel deeply for her, attempt to see what she wants. Try to do things that are interesting to her. If you guys were friends first, it shouldn't be a problem. Good friends can work well together. Let her know how you feel. And if that doesn't work, lay the pipes down. Chicks love a good lay
2007-12-07 14:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you guys broke up! Also when you guys started going out did you change. That is what i have a big problem with. When guys start going out with someone they often change how they act. If none of this happened then just tell her how you feel. i know that guys don't like to tell how they feel but it makes the girls feel tons better and it will also open up the girls to talk to you!
2007-12-07 14:45:43 · answer #4 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cry if it helps you heal is not good to keep the pain inside it creates feelings of resent towards women and when the one comes you'll push her away. move on hang out with friends ,keep yourself busy ,get rid off anything that reminds you of her. good luck !!!!!!! next time you meet a girl you really like act indifferent it works marvelously!!!! ex. she calls u call her back 3-5 days later. be a little cocky ,but sweet at the same time. a little bit of a jerk and a sweetheart spills attraction!!!
2007-12-07 14:49:30 · answer #5 · answered by jamie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg i know how u feel.. not shur if she likes u or what... but one thing i have lerned is that u cant be scared or regection... go for it and if things dont turn out if u like rock listen to the song. I Hate Every thing about you By three days grace. it seemes to know what ur goin through.. there is more than one fish in the sea
2007-12-07 14:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love her enough to let her move on. And love yourself enough to enjoy life without her. The pain can be horrendous at first, but it will slowly diminish. One way to distract yourself, and I know it's old worn advice, but it does work, is to take up a new hobby where you meet new people.
2007-12-07 14:45:51 · answer #7 · answered by patchellshihtzus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey, don't feel bad i have some advise that may help you out. if shes the type of girl that's the romantic type, take on a "friendship date" maybe like a Field of roses that nobody goes to anymore or go to the park or something. if she is more of the independent type then just leave some roses on her desk. believe me girls love roses.
2007-12-07 14:43:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Things happen for a reason. Maybe she is simply not ready for a relationship.
I would just continue to be nice, kind to her. Let her see what she's missing.
And of course she could like you again.
Take a deep breath, it might not be the end.
2007-12-07 14:43:46 · answer #9 · answered by carol 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, it's time to grab the good old stool and rope... no jk!!! I think it is definitely time to move on, go out and have fun with your friends and stuff, you will slowly forget about it. Try not to push it completely out of your head right away, you won't.
2007-12-07 14:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋