2007-12-07 14:39:23 · 20 answers · asked by LUCKY3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sure that there are some circumstances that people have had to cheat?
What about a partner who has been in a in a coma for years?
If they have a partner that has gone insane, violent, etc.
Many times people will cheat before they find a way out of a terrible situation or if the loved has not been able to communicate for years.
The very young will cheat at games that is how they learn to develop into honest adults given the proper guidance, love and direction.
I think that there are many more circumstances where a person can and has cheated.
Ideally it would be a beautiful thing to say NEVER, one never really knows the full implications to this question given the variables of the possibilities.
I try not to judge.
Most of all we cheat ourselves when we try to cheat others.
2007-12-07 16:07:54 · answer #1 · answered by Soundproof 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on the people who are in the relationship with one another as to what is cheating. Is flirting cheating? Is being friends with others cheating? Is working too much cheating? Is self gratification cheating? This is something two people have to discuss on their own and decide for themselves. They have to spell out their expectations of one another and hopefully understand and respect those expectations. If that happens then there will not be any cheating. But, your question assumes that there is cheating so I have to assume that these expectations were not there to disuade either person from hurting the other. So the question is is cheating wrong? The answer is that cheating is wrong if it hurts the relationship, and it always seems to hurt the relationship. I can't see wanting to hurt the relationship as a good thing. All I can argue is that perhaps the infraction was one of ignorance and not intent. It does not make it any the easier to accept or forgive but it does make it other than willful disrespect of the bond between the two people. In the categorical sense, cheating is cheating and it is not good, but in the practical sense someone has to call something cheating in order for it to be so. My answer in as far as relationships are concerned is no.
2007-12-08 09:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by LORD Z 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing makes it "okay" to cheat, but there are circumstances that might occur over a period of time that might cause someone to cheat. For example, if you were in a relationship that your partner ignored you for a long time and never showed an interest in you then if the opportunity arose where some guy came along and paid attention to you and talked nice to you and made you feel special, then yes...those circumstances can occur...but it still doesn't make it okay...just understandable.
2007-12-07 22:46:41 · answer #3 · answered by Corona 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Since this is in singles & dating, I'll answer a bit differently than if it were in another section.
I don't believe that unless people have a mutual commitment, it is "cheating" to be intimate with someone else. I clearly don't mean "sleeping around," & of course, wisely--protection etc.
This depends largely on the individual's moral compass, often in religion, in which case, one is not supposed to be sexually intimate with ANYONE unless they are married.
I've observed a large "glitch" in this. Without any experience, how is one to know that they will be sexually compatible? This is, after all, a very essential part of marriage.
2007-12-08 01:23:28 · answer #4 · answered by Valac Gypsy 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but the cheating has to be forgivable to whatever extent.
I can't think of any at the time (i'll edit my answer if i find any), but there are always circumstances for all situations.
2007-12-07 23:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there isnt. Even if u were cheated on first, that doesnt make it ok for u to do. Karma does come around and when it does it takes a bite out of ur a$$.
2007-12-07 23:04:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in a "committed relationship" & find you want to cheat maybe it's time to look at your relationship. Blessings.
2007-12-08 17:05:06 · answer #7 · answered by Just Be 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Noooo way, if you don't care about cheating on him, you shouldn't care about breaking up with him either. Spare him the pain.
2007-12-07 22:48:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO NEVER. BECAUSE IT'LL HURT THE OTHER PERSON. SO MUCH. DON'T DO IT.
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2007-12-07 22:47:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating under any circumstances ain't good. try walking in their shoes..how miserable/crappy/down/empty would you feel then...
2007-12-08 06:49:24 · answer #10 · answered by farhire 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋