i have a huge crush on a junior that goes to my school.i am a freshmen.i have never talked to him b4 but ppl tell me that he is a super nice guy! i wuld really like to get to kno him though. i have liked him for like 4 months and just recently he has been looking at me constantly in the mornings and at lunch and then when i pass him in th ehallways he glances at me EVERYDAY! He has a GF though and they supposely just started going out. What does glances mean if they happen every day from the same guy? could it mean something? does he know i like him? he barely even knows me and i don't know him that well but he seems like a really cool guy...can u be interested in someone you don't know?? and at lunch his friends always look back at me and he does it too...my friends even notice him glancing at me all the time...please help me i am so confused!!! He doesn't really glance at me that much when his friends are around but when they are not around he looks at me a lot!
2007-12-07 15:02:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means take the compliment but don't take it any further than that.
Trust me, if he was with you and he was looking at other girls, how would you feel?
2007-12-07 15:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jylsamynne 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guys look at girls its just nature. But constant glances and stares could be a sign he is interested in you. especially with his friends looking back also means that perhaps he has discussed you with some of the guys. play it cool give him a smile see how is reactions are but as you mentioned he doesnt glance so much when with his friends could be that he is a bit bashful with it and guys tend to harrass one another about girls etc. he could be trying to avoid that. or it could be he thinks you look nice and likes the way you look but embarssed of you being a freshman.of what his frends will think and the peer pressure etc. But how he does look back at you along with his friends narrows those chances a bit and i would say he is defintley interested to a ceratin point may or may not be very serious so keep it cool, smile back at him. try find a oppurtunity to just say hi. see what his reactions are.
Good luck hope this helps.
2007-12-07 15:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by c.c. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend, respect that. Just think that she probably likes him even more than you do, and, as a girlfriend, it would suck to know that there's someone else out there trying to snag him.
The looks more than likely mean that he's heard rumors of you liking him and he's telling his buddies (why they keep looking back) to make him look cool. If he just started with his girl, lay off a while and if you must, avoid him cause the beginning of a relationship is always too good to end. So don't get your hopes up just yet.
2007-12-07 15:09:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have created a fantasy from nothing. You don't know this guy, you just like the way he looks, if you did get to know him you might not even really connect with him. He has a girlfriend which he could leave if he felt like it. Nothing is stopping him from asking you out and he doesn't. His glances either mean nothing, or he has heard you have a crush on him and he hopes you aren't going to embarass him.
2007-12-07 15:09:47 · answer #4 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice to you would be to move on. There is a BIG difference between a freshman and a Junior. He probably has more on his mind that just having a gf.
Would you want to date a guy that is checking out another girl?? What is to say that if he was your bf, he wouldnt give other girls those glances???
I do say, take it as a compliment!!!!
Good luck.
2007-12-07 15:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by **Lynn** 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a glance may well be only a glance. yet i'd think of that he shows you bodily beautiful, which solutions whether one may well be interested in somebody unknown to them. yet why be at a loss for words? in case you easily need to ensure, mindset him, and ask him why he's often watching you.
2016-11-14 01:05:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's human! Men and women are able to LOOK at the opposite sex, without it meaning they want to jump into bed or a relationship with you. I would respect the fact he has a girlfriend, and like him, take a peek at him every once in a while! Nothing wrong with that!
2007-12-07 15:05:40 · answer #7 · answered by LifeIsPeachy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean anything, I wouldn't get ur hopes up though. considering he does have a gf. Sounds like he's just being a normal guy checking out but nothing serious. good luck.
2007-12-07 15:06:22 · answer #8 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend I don't think you should do anything. It's up to him to make the first move. He might just be a big flirt, and then you would only get hurt. If he really wants to get to know you he won't be doing stuff behind his g.f. back. Leave it up to him, and don't date him behind her back!!! That just means he's a cheater, and if he cheats on her he'd probably do the same to you!!
2007-12-07 15:11:16 · answer #9 · answered by karenhjones 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he glances that much....hes interested....next time smile at him when he glances...or wave when u see him looking at u...if hes into u im sure it'll start something...maybe a conversation...that could lead to other things. his g/f must not mean much to him if hes paying attention to u! try complementing him...talking to him....have confidence in yourself...im sure you'll figure it out. and continue reading his signs...he glances for a reason!!!!
2007-12-07 15:12:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complicated... I think if he liked you he wouldn't have a girlfriend and would want to get to know you better. And not to mention he didnt look at you while his friends were around.... Interesting.
2007-12-07 15:06:45 · answer #11 · answered by Sammi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋