My husband and I have not been getting along for quite some time. I b**** alot about little things and get jealous for no reason always think my husband is cheating when he is home most of the time and doesn't like clubs. I know I need help but when I get angry I get crazy and can't control muself. I say hurtful things and throw things. But it's also that hes been waiting for his business to start for 4 months now so for 4 months he has not given me any money for bills.but never once I thought of leaving him because of money problems. I'm under alot of stress . We do love each other very much each time we fight he leaves to his mom's house for couple days. Lately thing have been getting worse. A month ago I lied to him about going to a club he was gone for 5 days I had to beg and beg and beg then he came home. 2 days ago I told me he had invite this girl to our house to watch a fight along with his boys. This girl is supposedly a close friend of his familys but I was upset he
2007-12-07 15:18:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he didn't ask me first and I hardly know the girl I said if she comes I will leave we had a big fight he said I was being rediculous and that he couldn't leave with me anymore he packed all his stuff and left what should I do
2007-12-07 15:20:07 · update #1
Most of your problems stem from inside yourself.
Realize this and take charge of your life.
Good luck.
2007-12-07 15:23:45 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not the end of the world. But you do have to look at why you are so jealous. It's not a healthy emotion and can drive a non cheater to cheat just because if he is being accused of it he might as well be doing it. She may have just been a friend, a friend that he was interested in getting to know better or it could have been nothing but no matter know. I think the stress about the lack of money and starting his business along with your constant jealousy and nagging has finally gotten the better of him. It won't change if he comes back. Guess you can't really do any thing to change things but to let the situation ride itself out.
2007-12-07 23:28:06 · answer #2 · answered by Time To Go 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You kind of need some therapy. You have some serious control and jealousy issues. You should have never left because he invited 1 girl over and a bunch of guys. If something was going on with her, he wouldn't have invited her to your home. She might have been interested in one of his guy friends and he was doing a little matchmaking or maybe she was around when he invited the guys so he felt obligated to extend the invitation to her as well. You are being immature about a lot of things. If you're always accusing him of cheating and treating him as though he is, what's to stop him from doing so? You're pushing him away and that's not good. Go to counseling together and separate. Get some professional advice.
2007-12-07 23:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by dumbrowski31 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LINA first off i have to commend you for being honest and giving the true story, its so hard for people to admit when they need to improve on something and we tend to give half the story and your not doing this so thats the first step in finding the solution is admittingyou know you need to impove on yourself and self worth. email me this may be long.
take care
2007-12-07 23:28:03 · answer #4 · answered by laylajai74 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need serious help honey. Get yourself some counseling and figure out why it is you're so insecure.
2007-12-07 23:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by Kathy R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Counseling...couples counseling is a must here.
2007-12-07 23:27:52 · answer #6 · answered by Talkstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋