Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

They rejected me before i was born and don't want anything to do with me at all. I've tried fitting in with them, and they hate me. They only give my sister birthday presents and not me they exclude me from all of the get togethers. They harass me a lot and are very cruel people.

2007-12-01 03:10:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Don't you think she was wrong to do this. The question was what is the most feminine thing your husband has ever worn. She say she answered in the spirit of the party and that it was my fault for deciding to wear her nighty and panties. Most of the wives teased me the rest of the night, I just hope they forget today

2007-12-01 03:10:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have a 19 year old brother. He live's with my step mom and my dad. He works with my dad and makes good money. He dosent want to pay for any gas back and forth to work. My father makes him pay 50.00 a week which isnt a dent in his pay check. MY brother is into the whole drug using thing and likes to spend his money there. My parents would like to know what yall think of that. And half the time he dosent even pay rent. His rent covers food,power,ect. he wont help out anywhere that my dad needs help. what would yall do>?

2007-12-01 03:07:23 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley W 1 in Family

ok in all honesty i no i am a really nice guy. sure i can be an *** (and when i do somebody ends up getting hurt) sometimes but more than often i am a really nice guy. but lately it seems that every girl seems to be blowing me off cause im a nice guy. im just asking is everyone becomeing anti-nice or do girls just not like nice guys anymore?

2007-12-01 03:04:06 · 15 answers · asked by Phil 3 in Singles & Dating

If you meet a guy and you and him really click and like 4 days later you and him have sex and he is still into you. Is this wrong?

2007-12-01 03:01:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please Help!!! I was married in a church, by a Priest. I just found out that we are not registered in the state of WA. They have no records of us being married. We figured that the Priest who married us didn't send in our marriage papers that we had signed before he married us. Legally, are we married? Legally, would I need to file for a divorce?

2007-12-01 02:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by Mochi E 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had an arranged marriage in 2003. On honeymoon my husband had a heart attack. He underwent angioplasty and was hospiitalized. I took care of him. when he came back froom the hospital he was a changed person. The entire family blamed the heartattack on my stars ( he is an alcoholic and a chain smoker). His mother constantly found faults in me and ridiculed me. He never took me out and used to find an excuse that I am fat ( i have been plump always) .His mother used to constantly tell him how bad i was .The actual reason was that his mother had actually wanted money out of this marriage. My father was supposed to gift me a car on my marriage which they refused since they had two. After marriage they started asking for cash. I was pregnant at that time and I came back to my dad since I could not digest that they married me for money. I went back after I had my girl thinking things will improve. they didnt. I came back.. its been 8 months now..he is not bothered to know how his child is.

2007-12-01 02:54:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When sending out invitations do you hand write the persons address or do you type or print each address on the envolopes?

2007-12-01 02:53:44 · 6 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

and how much did you actually end up paying? i have gone over my budget already and i'm still not finished! please dont answer if you would rather not say i wouldnt like to offend anyone!

2007-12-01 02:51:37 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well...Im 13 years old.Im thinking about sex.I dont want to have it but I wonder what it's like.Umm....how do I get rid of peer pressure when a boy asks me to have sex with him.I want to say no,but I dont want him to hate me..Help!

2007-12-01 02:49:17 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

let put it this way...say a woman gets divorce becuz her husband cheated on her. She has biblical grounds to remarry. Ok..what if this happens again? Can she keep getting married over and over?

2007-12-01 02:43:42 · 15 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cousins husband commited suicide wed. night. She has two boys 6 and 3. They need help for christmas. The father was real depressed and in my opinion very selfish. They do not get insurance benefits because it was a suicide, and All the money they saved for christmas now has to be used for funeral expensise. It is sad enough that they have to cremate him becuase that is all they can afford, and quite frankly both familys are paycheck to paycheck people and will not be able to do much as they are already helping with the left over expenses of the funeral. We have one charity (church) that has offered to help to some extent but most have already been assigned to others in the community which i might add is a very small poor community, so whatever donations they do get are very few. some people here suicide and don't even call back. i relize suicide is very unforgivable and selfish but it is not the family's fault. any one would like to help or know help, i have/will give proof is real

2007-12-01 02:43:21 · 6 answers · asked by a mom of two 2 in Family

and got away with it? Not trying to judge..just looking for statistics.......

2007-12-01 02:42:45 · 23 answers · asked by S i r i 1 in Marriage & Divorce

now its like ill be at a party or something and i dont even care whos there for girls...even it this hot girl walks past me..like ill not even look at her...whats wrong...am i normal

2007-12-01 02:40:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok today i am doing a shopping party w/ my friends. At 3:00! & this is the time i want to buy gifts for christmas. I need to buy one for my mom, my dad, my sister (15), my other sister (14), my little brother (7), my brother (17), & my mom's aunt (senior)!!! What should i buy. By 3:00. I will be checking my yahoo for answers!!!

2007-12-01 02:39:38 · 3 answers · asked by comedian6 1 in Family

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2007-12-01 02:38:19 · 30 answers · asked by •чσυ'яє [[ςρє¢ιαℓ]]• 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I stop them from freezing over, if it's even possible?

2007-12-01 02:34:22 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have any real family close to where I live. I don't really have any close friends either. I can't stand my husband because he's cheated on me, lacks ambition and lets me pay all the hefty bills. Would you leave your husband under these conditions?

2007-12-01 02:27:05 · 18 answers · asked by sweet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18. I have a crush on this really cute and sweet guy from our class. We are good friends and I always thought that he will like me as a gf sooner or later by the way he used to talk. Everyone teases him with my name and vice versa. Today he told me that he likes some other girl from my class and he was praising her a lot. I am so depressed...He considers me as a good friend but never had other feelings for me. Even my friends ditched me. They are saying that I'm a very bad person etc etc. I am so depressed. I'm not able to study these days. I don't want to say anything abt my feelings to that guy, I just want to see him happy. It's ok if he likes someone else. He shares everything with me. And I guess he is really crazy for that girl. Whenever he talks about that girl I feel sad and a bit jealous. I really like him. But he considers me just as a good friend. How should I stop having such feelings for him and remain his good friend?

2007-12-01 02:20:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just started a new job, which means my husband and I don't see each other as much as we used to. When we are together I don't feel the heat that used to be there, don't get me wrong I love him more than anything in this world! It just seems like he's getting bored with me....is that feeling normal?

2007-12-01 02:19:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other

2007-12-01 02:16:15 · 15 answers · asked by phil 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, so apparently my dad stole MY money, from MY room, without even saying anything. Then a few days later he told me. I'm SO mad! He went in my room without asking. He went in search of money, looking through my things. He took like 10 dollars in quarters. Now my piggy is almost empty... What should I do? I'm really freaking pissed!

2007-12-01 02:14:53 · 7 answers · asked by Ellen 4 in Family

to try and save our relationship and work it getting on with the mother

2007-12-01 02:13:51 · 6 answers · asked by nicnat 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

(this is for someone else)

The wife has been divorced for several years and has recently met a new man and has been seeing him for roughly a year. He has been residing with her for said time and the ex-husband is attemping to take away allimony. The ex says that the wife is simulating a marriage by having the man live with her. Can the ex do this?

2007-12-01 02:11:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby made out and kissed another married woman that we are both friends with apparently. I found out about their session from a common source a few months ago. Anyway I have not told my hubby that I know about them. I found out that all they did was kiss and make out on the sofa one time, and they called it quits...but it seems like my hubby told her that he really likes her, finds her attractive, but cannot do anything anymore or see her. She agreed. But few weeks ago, when my hub and I went to her place for this garlic fest, i casually wanted to see what my hubby would do if i asked him to do thing infront of that other woman Sarah and her hub Jeff. Anyway, we were watching tv this one evening and I told Jeff that I was ready to have ice cream. My hub and Sarah said they didn't want any. i asked my hub, he said he didn't want it. then i asked him to come sit next to me and Sarah..he looked down, smirked and said no...because Sarah was sitting next to me. Anyway, i was

2007-12-01 02:05:07 · 22 answers · asked by toralm1 1 in Marriage & Divorce

It's not that I'm a rebellion in the family. I'm prefectly a good girl with good moral backgrounds,
My whole family is going to church every single morning,
And I'm just lazying at home, which I like, I get my privacy.
Not that I hate church, I hate the people there.
People there just go to church for going to church sake,
Not for God. Just to say that "I go to church".
How fake is that? I can't handle it! I can't be with a bunch of fakers (no offense)
The pastors are just repeating the previous pastor's sermon, the sing-song group is just singing, no life in the singing,
People are sleeping in church for goodness sake!
So, I'm running out of ideas how to refrain going to church,

Now my aunt is FORCING me to go to church, and it's not going to make me more holy or anything...
How can you force someone to go to church? It must be a free will thing right?

Please answer seriously.... I know it's bad, but seriously, I hate that place.

2007-12-01 02:02:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband and i have done very mean things to each other. He ignored me and his daughters when he went into military. No calls maybe 3 in 4 months. I wasn't invited to basic training graduation. I was really hurt because i made it possible my family told me he used me for a greencard and i believed it i reported him. i talked to him the other nite because he was in town he said when i called and asked about the money amount thats when he got mad but i didn't complain but the sargent i think made it look that way he claims thats why he treated me bad If this is true this could be a big missunderstanding we talked about it in a hotel the other nite as he is in town. It was sad because he said he missed me and i told him i did too and wished we could work it out he said he can't trust me and i can't trust him either what if he left and ignored me and my daughters again? I think he is embarassed to his family now how can he go back with someone that tried to get him deported?

2007-12-01 01:45:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Been having a very dry dating spell lately. I'm over 30 and haven't gotten beyond kissing since the summer. I'm starting to feel like an awkward teenager.

Any advice from you awkward teenagers? Or better yet from some older folks too.

2007-12-01 01:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Panks 2 in Singles & Dating

ok..I went out with this one guy awhile ago. he asked me out and it really did seem like he was in love with me. we didn't go out for very long when I broke up with him. I did it mostly because I felt like I didn't care for him as much as he did for me.

we are still friends and I think we may even have gotten closer as friends than ever. now I think I am really falling for him. BUT he is going out with someone else. ever since I broke up with him he has skipped around a couple girls. the girl he is going out with now..she's nice but she really isn't attractive. yah I'm jealous but that isn't affecting my [shallow I know] judgement of her. she isn't popular at all.
I have been hanging out with him more frequently lately but should I be the one to make a move? because if I do and it gets out i'm afraid people will hate me. but if I don't make a move..chances are he won't because he has no idea how I feel about him and he probably thinks I like him only as a friend.

opinions?

2007-12-01 01:43:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately my husband wont touch me any more when we go to bed. Every thing else is the same, we talk the same act the same. He says that there is nothing wrong, and before you say it he is not having an affair he does not have the time due to working in his vineyard all day.Help!

2007-12-01 01:43:18 · 25 answers · asked by wildcougar33 2 in Marriage & Divorce