ok..I went out with this one guy awhile ago. he asked me out and it really did seem like he was in love with me. we didn't go out for very long when I broke up with him. I did it mostly because I felt like I didn't care for him as much as he did for me.
we are still friends and I think we may even have gotten closer as friends than ever. now I think I am really falling for him. BUT he is going out with someone else. ever since I broke up with him he has skipped around a couple girls. the girl he is going out with now..she's nice but she really isn't attractive. yah I'm jealous but that isn't affecting my [shallow I know] judgement of her. she isn't popular at all.
I have been hanging out with him more frequently lately but should I be the one to make a move? because if I do and it gets out i'm afraid people will hate me. but if I don't make a move..chances are he won't because he has no idea how I feel about him and he probably thinks I like him only as a friend.
opinions?
2007-12-01 01:43:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wow way to make me feel low guys. u_u
2007-12-01 01:52:32 · update #1
ok ok ok. you're probably right.
I'm just overly confused in my mind.
thats why I asked for outside opinions in the first place.
plus we are like best friends and I shouldn't do anything to ruin that.
if it was meant to be then things will work out and if not then...yeah.
<3
2007-12-01 01:58:34 · update #2
thats pretty tough. well either you swallow your pride and tell him exactly how you feel, or...
you just knock the other girl out of the picture.
haha no im kidding. but seriously.. i think you should tell him how you feel. ask yourself if you'd rather risk him not ever knowing how you feel? or risk letting people know that you made a mistake in the past, nd you're doing what you believe in. is being afraid of what other people will think more important to you then never having to let him know how you feel about the guy you love? ask yourself that and you'll find a way. good luck (=
& oh i wasnt joking about knockin the other girl out of the picture, i mean.. literally knock her out.
but that wouldnt solve anything. =D
im kidding. happy early holidays!
2007-12-01 01:48:36 · answer #1 · answered by Riley 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
who says he wants you back anyway you dumped him right i wouldent give you the time of day after that as a matter of fact i woulden't even hang out wit you. I think you sould leave this guy and his new girl alone and find someone else. You say you aren't shallow but the most shallow thing is to want something back you pushed away and is no longer avaliable to you.
2007-12-01 09:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by gss352 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're interested in him because he is with someone else. You are not falling for him. Don't be selfish and leave him alone. Let him be happy with someone else. For the way you talk seems like you feel superior to her...but HE IS WITH HER, HE SAW SOMETHING IN HER.
2007-12-01 09:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by C6 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Quit taking social advice from MTV and act like a real person. What I mean is, forget what other people think and do what is right by you and your conscience.
2007-12-01 09:53:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If he has a girlfriend it's a no-go area. If he becomes single again, then fair enough, but at the moment it's not fair, either to him or his girlfriend. Just my opinion.
2007-12-01 09:48:25 · answer #5 · answered by the_happy_green_fish 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't start something you are only going to get tired of as soon as you have re bagged him. You sound more like you are jealous than attracted.
2007-12-01 09:48:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him alone....all girls do this...when he wants you ..you dont want him...now that someone else has him you want hi back...and the FACT is you dont really want him...you just want someone to want you...your a sad, shallow little girl...and i hope you do try a move and the ugly girl bashes your face in ..then you can match
2007-12-01 09:48:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel and listen to his response. He might dump her for you.
If not forget it!
2007-12-01 09:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Dymond 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋