Been having a very dry dating spell lately. I'm over 30 and haven't gotten beyond kissing since the summer. I'm starting to feel like an awkward teenager.
Any advice from you awkward teenagers? Or better yet from some older folks too.
2007-12-01 01:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Panks 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Bro' Panks:
You are over 30, single & NO Dates?
Well ........
according to 1,000's of posts HERE~
* YOU DO NOT EXIST !! All of us are
apparently named "Elvis" & we have
ALL Left The Building ! :-)
Believe me bro'! There are many
available "needy" women looking!
You need to have a higher profile.
You are a mature, available male.
Get your butt out the door & be your
charming self. Most women like the
idea of "winning" you over. Do NOT
come on too strong. Be Sophisticated!
Dress sharp & clean & women will
FIND YOU! Consider Networking with
friends & family. Many nosy people
are always around to try & "fix-you-up"!
Consider joining a Large Church
Congregation's Singles Group!
They plan many Quality singles activities!
Do you ever go Marketing for food?
Approach available women in the
market. Ask them how they select
veggies & fruits.
Go to Art/Photo Galleries or Poetry
Readings. Coffee Shops! Women are
looking for YOU! Help them find YOU!
You are like me. You have a career &
are a mature Un-Married Adult! You are
Secure & have many qualities women
are searching for.
If you are having difficulty getting past
the kissing phase, consider changing
Strategies. Do NOT appear too "needy"!
Make the women "Work" to win you over.
Do NOT continually compliment them!
If anything~ leave them with the impression
that you care NOT for them. NEVER tell
a female you have ONLY Kissed~
lately. Be Mysterious! ProvidingToo much
Info will ruin your chances to Bed Down!
Does any of this make sense to you?
Good Luck!
You have MUCHO to Offer To Women!
Go Get Um~ Tiger!
Have FUN & Be Positive~ Panks!
2007-12-01 02:17:40 · answer #1 · answered by LedHead 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are already over 30 there could be 2 problems....your not putting yourself out there to meet other people...or there is something wring with your personality.
u havent given enough info about yourself but dont be a jerk or a player or whatever...
dont rush into things because u know u havent gotten anthing more than a kiss for a while....
and go to different places....travel and im sure you will find someone....everyone does...whether it is in the most unusual place or in the perfect place....everyone has someone out there that they have yet to meet...
email or IM if u need anything else
2007-12-01 01:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by Caitleen R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I go through my awkward times too (granted im an "awkward teenager" as you like to put it) sometimes its good to go through those times. I found it to be kinda refreshing to be able to have a break from that kind of stuff that way i didnt lose my want to go past any of that. that and it made it better ;) when i did get past it! lol. but it should pass soon =]
and it may also help if you changed up where you go looking for girls...like the others have mentioned clubs..thats where i always went when i wanted to be "picked up" lol
2007-12-01 01:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Leesha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many fish in the sea. Just kidding everyone goes through dry spells and it has always seemed to me that the longer and harder i look for a girl the more impossible it is expecially if your main goal is SEX. And just after i throw in the towl a girl falls in my lap. You know why girls can sence desperation they don't respond to that very well but if you are confident in yourself the girls will see that and confidence is an atractive trait in girls and guys alike.
2007-12-01 01:54:39 · answer #4 · answered by gss352 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop waiting for the world to come to you and start going out there and putting yourself on the line a bit more.
The only way to meet more potential partners is to get out there. :) Good luck.
2007-12-01 01:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by Beb B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good things come to those who wait. Maybe you're looking in the wrong place. Personally, I'm a big fan of the grocery store...
2007-12-01 01:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The more you wait, the best you get!! Fruits are always sweet to eat once they are riped propoerly. So, just wait for some more time...you will definitely get a very sweet result!
2007-12-01 01:56:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow
That is kind of.....odd
so like, you are definitley good looking? Or not so much?
is there a girl you have ur eye on?
look, just go for SOMEONE! dont just
stay
blaeh
boring
and un-dateable
2007-12-01 01:54:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advice I can give you brother is, build up some self confidence, hit up a club and pick up chicks. If you pick up enough, eventually you'll get one that will give it up. oh and remember, if she smokes she pokes.
2007-12-01 01:49:55 · answer #9 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋