Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

When i first met my boyfriend he was slender,(he wasn't my boyfriend at the time)looked really awsome, very gorgeous baby face, then he started working out n doing steroids, he had gotten so big. He had stoped for a while after we started datin n got really nice lookin again his baby face came back, but now he says he's too small and want to go back on steroids again. I don't really want him too... What should i do?

2007-12-01 03:43:05 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this guy i like, and he's rather

1. playing mind games with me
2. or letting me walk all over him

how do i tell wich one he's doing?

2007-12-01 03:42:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 03:42:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Even when he is just kissing me, or feeling me up, is this normal?
were both 16

2007-12-01 03:41:25 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have shared my opinions on old men hitting on younger women. This man was different, very well off, asked me out for a coffee and he was really quite interesting and had a sense of humor. I'd rather he be my age but he's not ... we gave eachother our emails and he's sent me an email everyday and even sent flowers and chocolate to my office (receptionist) What to do?

2007-12-01 03:40:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay i like this guy hes really great..but hesshy when it comes 2 girls..my friends asked him out 4 me without me knowing, and he sed no...they said he looked really nervous...now he keeps lookin at me and checkin me out..and hes lke gettin REALLY close to me like stickin his cheek on mine when hes talkin 2 some1 else...duz he like me or not???

2007-12-01 03:40:18 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am soo depressed and i don't want to like see a shrink or n e thing but i am gay and not out of the closet and i REALLY like this guy at my school and he is straight and i cannot come out of the closet because of where i live soo i dunno what to do the guy is currently mad at me because of something some girls did that i had nuttin to do with and i am practically in love with him and i am having other problems and i am soo depressed

2007-12-01 03:37:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know I do I might even love her I went on a school trip overnight thursday and I couldn't stop thinking of her and seeing her again she wasn't at school the day before but the day that we left I was talking with her I love talking to her by the way she has a beautiful spanish accent and she not like all the other mexicans in our school u know with the name brand clothes and stuff to me she's not normally exactly like me but we have diffrent intrest too for the fact I like soccer and she don't but I digress I am a Junior now in school and I known her for over a year she is my best friend but now I want to spend my life with her but we don't go out so anything worth trying I asked before but she said she wasn't ready for a bf but she knows I like her and she is spending a little more time with me should I ask again or wait for her because I can't stop thinking of her and she's not at home right now so I can't talk to her does a man love so deep at a young age or is it just me.

2007-12-01 03:37:43 · 5 answers · asked by mexia555 2 in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my fiance. My mother flew in to confort me. At first it was good, but now it's getting annoying.

I am kind of seeing this guy, but not really because we went on one date and now we call and IM and e-mail. My mom needs to know who I call and why I am. I was once with my 22 month old daughter and the phone rang. My mom answered it saying "This is Taylor's Mommy, how may I help you?" I was so embarrased!

She also pinches my cheeks and my kids' cheeks(facial i mean). It's so annoying. She acts like I'm 4 years old. HELP!

2007-12-01 03:36:09 · 10 answers · asked by Jasmine 4 in Family

2007-12-01 03:36:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont know if there is a santa but i always seem to get what i want......;)!!!

2007-12-01 03:35:29 · 51 answers · asked by *SIMPLY ME* 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 03:35:25 · 27 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Singles & Dating

Does it also mean that the woman should be a whore to him even when he does not treat her like a wife (I mean if they are married).

2007-12-01 03:34:15 · 32 answers · asked by suerone 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-01 03:34:11 · 14 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Singles & Dating

and he and this other guy make fun of the white girls who are in either grade (he is i think 14 and is friend 15) and I'm 13 and in 7th grade they haven't said anything mean to me but still and yesterday he asked me " do you feel left out because your not Hispanic?" i really like him but i don't really think he would like me because I'm white but i don't act like the other girls I'm not addicted to Hollister or Hot Topic or anything like that I've never been to any of those places! i like rap and hip hop which i don't think they know about. he talks to me a bit but he can more relate to my friend because she is Hispanic his friend doesn't really talk to me but he talks to my friend and i do feel left out sometimes and i just realized i started going off topic! O_o PLZ HELP!! thx in advance:D

2007-12-01 03:33:16 · 9 answers · asked by ~♥~Blue~Eyed~Girl~♥~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 03:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

both of my parents are alive and all of my grandparents are alive but unfortunetly my aunt died at the age of 27 this past summer

2007-12-01 03:26:03 · 10 answers · asked by Hammad Khan 2 in Family

i know that a guy likes me,,,i like him too....but he is talking to everyone except me....what should i do??

2007-12-01 03:25:38 · 9 answers · asked by Kiki P 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-01 03:23:49 · 3 answers · asked by Ms thick 1 in Friends

Yes or no.

2007-12-01 03:22:55 · 38 answers · asked by Paranormal I 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister and brother really, and I mean really don't like me. It's not a little kid thing because we are all grown, I‘m sure, by now. For example they ask to borrow my stuff and just take things from me, when they wouldn't do the same in return, and I'm always the one left around to clean the house like some stupid little housekeeper to them! And when we are walking and just doing stuff out in public they always distance themselves from me, leaving me to walk alone but I don't really care about that. I just wants some thoughts or opinions please.

[you can use one of my old questions I asked as a reference though it's now quite the same as this one]

2007-12-01 03:21:56 · 3 answers · asked by Lakishia 3 in Family

Ive been talking to this girl for a few months now and we have gotten to know eachother pretty good. She told me recently that she REALLY likes me, but is not sure if she should like me because she is worried about something happening to us in the future. I really like this girl....what should I do?

2007-12-01 03:21:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My SO and I have been together for almost 17 years, we own a house, cars, bills and all that goes with a long term committed relationship. ATM we have a lot of bills and because of everything from my job to the price of gas the bills are out of hand. I know from past conversations that he doesn't like to talk about money, but stupid me opened that can of worms last night.
so the question is, how much do you tell your mate about something they don't want to hear about? our money effects us both, but it seems I'm the only one to worry about it, how do I get him to talk like an adult about something he don't want to talk about at all.
I should note, he doesn't blame me or my job for our woes, we don't fight about anything, and even this wasn't a fight, but I left the conversation feeling like it was my fault and that I have to face this issue alone or listen to his rantings
how much does one have to carry alone to keep the peace?
just thinking outloud this morning

2007-12-01 03:19:12 · 11 answers · asked by vjustmehere 3 in Marriage & Divorce

1 of the reasons has 2 be because im not getting pregnate fast enough combined with him just not being able to be with just 1 woman,i dont agree with this and im seriously considering leaving him,but i love him,what should i do???

2007-12-01 03:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by nay-nay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I do sales work and another guy in the office sells the same type of jobs and projects that i do. He is very jealous of me and doesnt like the competition. He has back stabbed me, turned some employees against me, has physically threatened me,and has invited me outside. He is also hateful to me and very unfriendly and doesnt speak unless it is to insult me. He out weighs me by about 80 lbs or more and is a couple inches taller but he is older and out of shape, while I am in great shape. He is about 60 years old and im mid 50's.
Should I just confront him and take him outside like he wants, talk to the boss, get an attorney, or quit? If i quit then he achieved his goal. By the way, the guy is a hard worker, sells lots of work, and althought the owners have even critized him and assured me that everyone knows how he is, they put the mighty dollar first and dont do anything about him. what do i do?

2007-12-01 03:16:59 · 10 answers · asked by rudy the bobcat 1 in Singles & Dating

she yells at me for the stupidest things, like asking if i can go to my friends house or to the mall, and she yells at me if i try to compromise or something. she always has to have it her way, and if i disagree she yells at me and then i lock myself in the upstairs bathroom and cry because if i close my bedroom door she screams at me. i told her that punishing me for a bad quiz grade doesnt do anything because it's not going to do anything for me because everyone does bad on a test every once in a while and she knew i was right and still screamed her head off at me. i honestly think shes got something wrong with her because she yells at me for everything and i cry like once a day because of her. she picks on my mistakes and CONSTANTLY reminds me of them. and i didnt want to go to dinner on thanksgiving since i was sick and she didnt believe me, and this other event was coming up and she said, are you going to make sure you have a stomache ache for that too? is she verbally abusive?

2007-12-01 03:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've always been shy and not the best looking. I've never asked a girl out because I assume she'd say no. And if she said yes, that'd be harder, I dont think I can keep a girl interested/happy/impressed for very long. I guess I'm a boring person. I think people make fun of me for this, so I avoid even talking about relationships with people.

How do I come to terms with this? I dont think I'll ever date. I feel so embarrased and ashamed I haven't already.

Whats wrong with me? I feel like I'm being judged all the time.

2007-12-01 03:13:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i spend alot of time at my kids school and am around alot of moms all the time and am friends with all of them, i have noticed that alot of them while talking to me will get touchy by rubbing my arm or rubbing my back, like yesterday a mom came up to me excited about her new job and she started rubbing my arm and back as she was telling me, what does this mean,

2007-12-01 03:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by MR MOM USMC RETIRED 3 in Family

if you had a girlfriend and then your mom or dad and here mom or dad got married..

would you stay together? when you break up do you stay friends or go to being brother/sister

no its not happening to me! just would like to see what people say

2007-12-01 03:11:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know this is an extremely personal question and I probably won't get many responses from girls but it would be interesting to hear from people willing to answer this question.

When I say intimate I mean how many people have you had intercourse with.

I'm 24 and I've been with 71 people. Not something I'm too proud of but I have nothing to be ashamed of.

What's your age and #.... I want a solid number, none of this "About 12 People" or anything like that.

I know this question has been asked before but I'm looking for fresh answers....

2007-12-01 03:10:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating