she yells at me for the stupidest things, like asking if i can go to my friends house or to the mall, and she yells at me if i try to compromise or something. she always has to have it her way, and if i disagree she yells at me and then i lock myself in the upstairs bathroom and cry because if i close my bedroom door she screams at me. i told her that punishing me for a bad quiz grade doesnt do anything because it's not going to do anything for me because everyone does bad on a test every once in a while and she knew i was right and still screamed her head off at me. i honestly think shes got something wrong with her because she yells at me for everything and i cry like once a day because of her. she picks on my mistakes and CONSTANTLY reminds me of them. and i didnt want to go to dinner on thanksgiving since i was sick and she didnt believe me, and this other event was coming up and she said, are you going to make sure you have a stomache ache for that too? is she verbally abusive?
2007-12-01 03:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok...no offense but you're only taking my moms side because you are a mother. if you could just see how she treats me you would think differently.
2007-12-01 03:33:09 · update #1
Hard to tell without hearing her side of it. But from what you wrote, you aren't taking responsibility for your mistakes and more than likely are stressing her out.
You could try not excusing yourself for bad grades by saying everyone else does it. You are her kid, she doesn't care about everyone else. Getting out of going to a family event because you are sick isn't appropriate unless you are visably ill, and apparently you weren't. You could have gone, and just not eaten but been with your family on the holiday.
You can fix some of these things, try that before you accuse her of being abusive. Being a mom of a teen comes at a huge price, and not everyone is prepared for the transition. While you can't control her behavior, you can certainly control yours. Try helping her out and take away some of her stress instead of causing problems.
2007-12-01 03:26:26 · answer #1 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think she is i mean i dont know her or you but my sister does that to me and tells me what to do. Yells at me for something i didnt do or she'll yell at me for something she did wrong. I know how you feel my parents just got a deverice and i am in the middle of all of this and my mom and sister give me **** mostly my sister so just hang in there if you need anything conact me coca-colacars@hotmail.com please so i can help.
2007-12-01 05:41:29 · answer #2 · answered by Runnin' Freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your mom might have some problems, but you might too. Talk to your school counselor about what is going on. They can help you determine the best course of action.
2007-12-01 03:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel, but my mom is psycically (sp) abuse, too.
If she asks me where I'm going, and I say to the bathroom, my mom screams at me and beats me over it. :/
Sucks, doesn't it?
2007-12-01 03:31:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my moms the same exact way
and i hate it
2007-12-01 04:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋