Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

I really like this girl that stays in my dorm, she stays like 5 feet away. I met her studying, and thought we hit it off. Then the next day I see her studying and talk and ask her for her number, I said this

" Look I think your really cool, and I was wondering if i could keep in contact with you, I'm not going to call you soon cause finals are picking up but i have this way that if i don't talk to someone every now and then Ill never see them."

She said " I'm on your floor, if you want to talk to me just knock on my door in right next door to you, I'm going to be here next semester so your going to see me all the time, just stop by.

I don't know if she was just saying that to say that, to be nice, because people do visit other people i guess, or she was saying knock on my door.

I saw her last night she was staring at me, i act like i didn't see her cause i thought she rejected me, did she...I said hi to her today on the elevator.

Did I get rejected, should i visit?

2007-12-01 07:28:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I see this trait in just about all the women I know. Then they get upset when thier husbands wants to hang out with his friends. Shouldn't marriage be a continuation of one's life with combining that of the one they love. Obviously, you can't keep the same level frequency of hanging with your friends..but women seem to drop it completely.

2007-12-01 07:27:06 · 11 answers · asked by Cubsfan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this guy.
He's very athletic as well
I see him stare at me and then smile to himself sometimes but I act like I don't he's doing it.
I also think athletic guys like athletic girls.
for example one day, he ran 10 laps and I ran 8.
I would like to become just as athletic as him or better so I could impress him.

2007-12-01 07:26:31 · 5 answers · asked by alien child. 3 in Singles & Dating

i am young, only 26. my parents still want me in by midnight...that is cramping my style with the men if you know what i mean! :)
i want to do what i please! they also want me to get a job and are threating to cut off my allowance. they are so cruel! $200. per month is crap...i can hardly pay my bar tab on that...i am reduced to asking men to buy my drinks! should i "get back" at my parents by running away? really, maybe just spend a few nights with friends ? that would show them! as for a job, there is nothing out there for me! anyone else have difficult parents??

2007-12-01 07:25:49 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-01 07:24:48 · 75 answers · asked by Catwoman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married 11 years ..
My husbands family , is very self centered , cynical , egocentrism , They pretty much think there sh!% don't stink...
They do not talk to me , they treat me like i dont exist , and when i have tried to talk to them , they talk over me ... My husband acts like , im imaging it , i think he actually see it now , but he wont admit to it , he just try to keep me company , when we are around them ..Im so sick of these..i stay away from them as much as possiable , when i am around them , i actually get sick to my stomach now

2007-12-01 07:20:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

42,172,000 so far. that a lot more that traffic accidents! That is the world we live in. Depressing is it not?

2007-12-01 07:17:29 · 18 answers · asked by j_emmans 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is joining the army and i dont want him too i told him and he said that he was going to anyways.

2007-12-01 07:16:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all, do you know what tremor is? She has described it a desease like parkinson and basically people like me can not have babies or healthy babies!! She has said it runs in our family.My mom and dad have 4 kids and my sister has 3 beautiful children. We never had any problem and I do not even know this desease. My soon to be ex wife's sister is a nurse (also divorced) and probebly it is her dignosis.Her both sisters are divorced. My wife is a control freak, we went to 2 diferent counsellors and she did not show up the second session. She says I am smart and educated and I do not need to go to the Shrinks. It is only because consellors wanted us to change some habits but she thinks she is perfect. I accept my mistakes but for her it is her way or highway!
I know at this moment I should not listen the these BS but it really hurts! Thank God I am very healty and I always have been. She tries to tell our friends that I decieved her and hide my desease from her.

What shoul I do?

2007-12-01 07:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by mazyar m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my mother had cancer removed from her lungs.supposedly all went well.my brother than flew to another state to be with his son(he lives with his mother) who was having surgery done on his heart.all went well.but my brother is not coming back home until monday.he has been a mental wreck.after he left,we found out our mom lung cancer had spread to her brain.should we tell our brother over the phone or wait until he gets home?

2007-12-01 07:15:31 · 10 answers · asked by mojo569 4 in Family

I'm getting married in March and am looking for wedding pranks! Either for my fiance and I to play on others or for me to play on him....any help would be appreciated! Thanks.

2007-12-01 07:13:38 · 16 answers · asked by sunshine91105 2 in Weddings

me and my boyfriend split up, but right after he started dating my worst enimy what can i do to make him jealous?

2007-12-01 07:11:26 · 4 answers · asked by Hot C 1 in Singles & Dating

Like when they say they love you then they say your an ugly you know what but then they accept you i just don't get it..

2007-12-01 07:10:43 · 5 answers · asked by Jillian*# 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is a bit long, but I do wish that you read the whole thing before you answer. Most detailed answer wins. Well, I have had a crush on my best guy friend for over two years now, and recently I have gotten this feeling that he might like me back. I told him a long time ago I had a crush on him. He said he was flattered and told me I was very pretty and talented and such, but he did not say if he liked me or not. About a month or two afterwards, I got a call from my best friend saying that she got him to admit that he liked me. I don’t know if she was just pulling my leg…but she has never lied to me before, as far as I know anyway. About another couple months down the road, all 4 of my best friends and I were up on our favorite hill playing a good old game of “truth or dare”. My friend called on my crush, and he picked truth. She asked – “do you like Evelyn as more than just a friend?” my crush looked at me, and the two whispered a few words that I couldn’t hear. After waiting a few moments, I asked what his answer to my friends’ question was. He looked at me and said, “Do you really want to know?” I nodded, and shifting his gaze to the other direction, told me the answer was no. My friend claimed that he was lying. I didn’t think he was. Then, quite a while later something I didn’t see coming happened. We were talking, and he told me that he had this dream he had to tell me about. He said I was in it. He told me the beginning of his dream, and then he said – “Now here is the weird part…in my dream, you and I were a couple.” I really didn’t know what to say at that point, nor did I know in the least way what to think. Do you think he likes me? Is it possible? If you could give me your opinion, and tell me some signs to look out for, that would be awesome. Thank-you for your time and consideration! I know my question is a bit long, and I do apologize for that. Oh, and if it helps any to know, I am 15 years old…and so is my crush.

2007-12-01 07:10:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before we met, my husband was obviously taking care of himself. He exercised and watched his weight, and brushed his teeth. He was and still is a very handsome man (facewise). We've been married for 5 years, and now his BMI is considered obese. I keep telling him that he needs to do something about his weight because his family has a history of health issues and I don't want to become a widow. Recently, he said he is fed up with me telling him that. So, now I guess I am stuck with a man who's going to keep getting bigger and probably will die before me.

Of course I love him, but the things he's doing are just carelessness. It's not like he can't help himself. He doesn't even brush his teeth and I don't even like to kiss him anymore. What's worse is that now when we have gatherings where one brings his/her spouse, I feel reluctant to bring him because of the way my husband looks like now.

Some of you will say for better or worse, but what if he can control those things?

2007-12-01 07:09:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One time three years ago when they were dating, I was helping them with a class assignement at college, and while my cousin was distracted writting on the computer she rubbed her breast on purpose against my hand while I was holding a book dictating to my cousin.
Then, on another occasion, my cousin and he were in the front of the car and he was telling ehr that his family wanted to meet her, i was sitting in the back with anothe friend, then she turned around and held my hand caressing it, and said: "there is nothing more important to me than my passion" and smiled. i was dumbounded and chose not to say anything and let it slip.
Later when they got married I was his best man, i never told him anything. Now as married couple, one time she started changing her clothes with the bathroom door open so i could see, and my cousin had to tell her that we could see her.

Advice please, what the heck do I do? Do i tell my cousin, or do I keep playing dumb and save their marriage?

2007-12-01 07:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-01 07:07:27 · 5 answers · asked by foxy123magenta 3 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i started dating on halloween and i think today is our month 1 annisvery is that correct we're been together for 1 month??

2007-12-01 07:06:24 · 3 answers · asked by snookie 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Utah and he has to go to California for a few months.
It's been five years since he spent his Christmas w/ his family and he usually spends it alone. It's our first Christmas, and we won't be together. I'm thinking of sending him a dvd of me saying how much I love him and such, but what else could I send him so he won't feel alone this year too?

2007-12-01 07:04:56 · 8 answers · asked by and so it begins... 6 in Singles & Dating

MY wife and i have been fighting for some time now. I realize that we need councling, but would like affection from my wife. Because of all the fighting for so long I've forgoten how to earn it from her. I have missing the intamacy and sex, what are some simple things that I able to do to get that back from her?

2007-12-01 07:04:41 · 16 answers · asked by sec8_cm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my first bf

we r both 14 in 9th grade

should i tell my parents about him?

my mom says no bf until 18

my dad hasnt mention the subject

the thing is
they are number 1 in

overprotectivness and

embaressment

if i do tell them how shuld i do it?

i waant to tell them seperatly help plz!

2007-12-01 07:04:29 · 5 answers · asked by Mimi 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my partner for 12 years and i am considering ending it we have 4 kids, i feel like he does not put me and the kids first, he is always putting his friends before us, he says it's not like that but i think it is. i have tryed talking to him but he does not get it, i am at the end of my rope and i don't know what else to do i am physically drained and emotionally unstable. please can someone offer me some advice on what to do i can't afford a therapist but i am willing to take some good advice if anyone has any

2007-12-01 07:03:52 · 7 answers · asked by babyplease 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my ex bf were in love and had the best time of our lives together, because we were BEST FRIENDS before!! now sense we broke up we dont even talk anymore. he said he wanted to break up cuz he just wasnt interested anymore, so i agreed to break up so it was mutual. Now i miss him and i want him back!!

how do i get him to want to get back together with me?? i know this is wrong, but i really want to get him jealous! im usually not this type of person but i just want to do this so he can realize tht he rlly does love me and want me back and misses me.



soooo...
how do i get him jellinnnnnn????? lol

2007-12-01 07:02:33 · 20 answers · asked by meredith 2 in Singles & Dating

What would be your reaction if someone told you they had a dream about you?

2007-12-01 06:59:44 · 13 answers · asked by blue 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering what age did everybody get married and enganged?

2007-12-01 06:59:30 · 19 answers · asked by Mommy! 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i lost my virginity almost a year ago but im parents dont really like him and i dont think they will let me see him anymore but i love him and i dont want to lose him!

2007-12-01 06:58:41 · 19 answers · asked by bre 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm gonna have a niece soon and i want to make 7 little stuffed monster things that symbolize something important in life. I have thought of like love and inspiration but i really want to have key ones sooo open up your brains and help me!!!!!! thanx

2007-12-01 06:57:10 · 8 answers · asked by idontremember1106 2 in Family

her ex texted her randomly when he was drunk saying he know she still loves hi, then she texted him calling him a psycho and she never loved him. then he called her a dirty c u n t with a smelly box, then she actually tried to call him to fight with him, but he didnt answer and she continued to text fight with him.wtf

2007-12-01 06:56:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's my problem:
My cousin is getting married in March 2008 in Pakistan. But, I am a sophomore in high school, taking very difficult classes in America. So, it would be very difficult for me to get up and leave the country for a week or two (because I'm not just going to fly all the way across the world for just the one day), becaue I would miss way to much for school. I really want to be at her wedding, because she and I are really close. Do you think it would be selfish for me to ask her to change her wedding date?
Plus, I have already missed five days of school due to Eid (Islamic holiday) and sicknesses, so I really can't afford to miss any more this year. What should I do? Am i being selfish? And how should I convince her to change the date?
Please help!

2007-12-01 06:56:29 · 33 answers · asked by ..::Leila::.. 3 in Weddings

There was alot of bad on both sides. I tryed to have him deported took back a truck that i payed for ect. He ignored me after he went into the military didn't help me when i was sick went to strip clubs. This all happened in a 4 months span when he was in the military after 3 yrs of marriage. We are getting divorced the other nite i called him he was desperate to meet me other times he is rude and screams and tells me how much he hates me ect. I'm not liking him so much either. Well we ended up talking and i miss him i'm sure he does me too. we slept together he said we still are getting a divorce and hope he didn't confuse me by sleeping with me. It was very sad and started to cry I could tell he felt bad He later ask me before we left the hotel that we could do this till we get divorce meet for sex but we will still be divorcing this has broken my heart is there any chance he loves me or is this discusting? why wouldnt he do this with someone els?

2007-12-01 06:52:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce