One time three years ago when they were dating, I was helping them with a class assignement at college, and while my cousin was distracted writting on the computer she rubbed her breast on purpose against my hand while I was holding a book dictating to my cousin.
Then, on another occasion, my cousin and he were in the front of the car and he was telling ehr that his family wanted to meet her, i was sitting in the back with anothe friend, then she turned around and held my hand caressing it, and said: "there is nothing more important to me than my passion" and smiled. i was dumbounded and chose not to say anything and let it slip.
Later when they got married I was his best man, i never told him anything. Now as married couple, one time she started changing her clothes with the bathroom door open so i could see, and my cousin had to tell her that we could see her.
Advice please, what the heck do I do? Do i tell my cousin, or do I keep playing dumb and save their marriage?
2007-12-01 07:08:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I mean, i must be honest, she is hot, but I am also not gonna do something to hurt my cousin, plus: I am married too now!!! This i think is going to create a problem for me in the future.
2007-12-01 07:12:44 · update #1
Don't let it slid anymore because that is giving her the impression that you are interested. Pull her to the side and tell her that you feel she is hitting on you. Then tell your cousin and if he doesn't beleive you then find a way to avoid contact with her. She is only going to do what you allow her, you keep letting her do these little gestures without saying anything then she is going to continue what she is doing
2007-12-01 07:16:00 · answer #1 · answered by Tenga M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just try to ignore it. If you tell anyone your cousin, and your wife will probably be pissed at you. Just let her act like a cat in heat, it sounds like her husband might notice it already.
2007-12-01 07:31:41 · answer #2 · answered by Nidda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You simply need to avoid the hell out of her.
Anything less and you seriously run the risk of coming out the bad guy in this whole mess.
Good luck.
2007-12-01 07:17:49 · answer #3 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her
or talk 2 her in private about y she is doing what she is doing
u dont want your cousin to start hounding u
2007-12-01 07:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your cousin that his wife is a freak.
2007-12-01 07:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe stay away from her would be a good idea, just do things with your cousin alone....
2007-12-01 07:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by jerry kaye 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋