me and my ex bf were in love and had the best time of our lives together, because we were BEST FRIENDS before!! now sense we broke up we dont even talk anymore. he said he wanted to break up cuz he just wasnt interested anymore, so i agreed to break up so it was mutual. Now i miss him and i want him back!!
how do i get him to want to get back together with me?? i know this is wrong, but i really want to get him jealous! im usually not this type of person but i just want to do this so he can realize tht he rlly does love me and want me back and misses me.
soooo...
how do i get him jellinnnnnn????? lol
2007-12-01 07:02:33 · 20 answers · asked by meredith 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Do not try to get back together with him. There are so many more men out there. You broke up for a reason, don't go back, otherwise you will both be miserable.
Let the relationship go. Move on.
2007-12-01 07:08:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i wouldnt make him jealous if i were you.... id make him miss you. i got an ex back that way.. heres how:
what are specific things you did or acted like that he thought were cute and are specific to you?
like..
-tell stupid stories about your day
-find amusement in really minor things
-just your general mannerisms, but exageratted
do what you know he thinks is cute in front of him and around him, not always directed at him though. this will make him think about you. then, as the last step, is the jealousy.
after i knew i was on his mind, i told him i was thinking about having sex with a friend but wasnt sure if itd be a mistake or not, and wanted his advice. he asked if he could call me and i said yes and he asked for me back again right then and there
good luck =]
2007-12-01 15:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by li 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think the breakup was really "mutual" if you think he made a mistake by breaking up with you and that he really does love you but he just can't see it.
Making him jealous is not the answer. If he was interested, he'd try to talk to you. Since he is not, you should move on.
2007-12-01 15:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by CAITLIN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will never be as good as it was. you are headed down a dark destructive path, in which you will end up with the same thing you came in with, nothing.
in the first place, "no longer interested" usually translates into "interested in fresh meat"
if you want to make him jealous, go directly for the heart, tell him that somebody else is a better lover, or attack at his weakness, ie small dingy, lack of courage, something that will make him want to act...
if you are looking to make him jealous, you are only looking for attention, not looking to make the relationship work again.. so get every satisfying spiteful bit out of it you can, make the boy hurt, make him hate you
if all else fails, tell him you that he needs to get blood tests done right away. when he asks, just tell him to do it right away. he will be frantic, you will be frantic with delight
2007-12-01 15:08:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
it might be hard to accept but seeing you with other guys is not likely to make him jealous, he did break up with you after all, if he wanted to be with you he would still be with you. Do yourself a favor and move on, nobody is worth demoralizing yourself for, no matter how much you might love them, sometimes it just best to let them go...
2007-12-01 15:18:10 · answer #5 · answered by NYguy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay...
He dumped you for a reason. MOVE ON. Quit wasting your time, and find someone that's worth it. If he dumped you, I doubt anything you could possibly do would really make him "jealous". You'd probably just end up looking really stupid.
2007-12-01 15:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get to know someone that goes in your class ( high school or college) and then say you like him and then tell him to follow you where you ex bf is and then kiss the guy (not the ex bf)
2007-12-01 15:09:39 · answer #7 · answered by kkkkkkkkiii 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't if he isnt interested in you then he is probvably happy you are hugging random men because he will see it as if you let go.
2007-12-01 15:12:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be mature in this breakup and go on, by making him jealous makes you inmature. Its somebody else out their for you, forget him.
2007-12-01 15:10:15 · answer #9 · answered by dbrh_soto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that i would try to look drop dead gorgeuos the next day and show him wat he cant have!!!!!!
if u really want to make him jelous in the most immature wayy...
just go out with another guyyy
or hug TONS of guys wen hes around
of u could just kiss a guy?
right in front of his face!
2007-12-01 15:13:51 · answer #10 · answered by Lidia A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋