Family & Relationships - 1 December 2007

Long story short, longterm bf and i broke up about 6 wks ago (both 25) and haven't talked since last wk, when he called me saying he missed me, how hot I was, how much fun we had, wanted to start seeing me again, etc. I'd heard he had a new gf and called him out on it. He said they were nowhere close to being official and just hang out. Turns out she was out of town for Thanksgiving and I haven't heard from him since she got back.

Saw them togehter at the mall today, and he stopped me to say hi. Then he said, "Hey are you dating anyone? I have a buddy I want to hook you up with." I was hurt & angry, so I said, "You know I'm not dating anyone. You're funny... why would you try and hook me up with your friend when just last wk you were calling me to tell me how much you missed me and wanted to get back with me." They were both shocked. I said bye and left.

I honestly feel horrible now. It is not like me to be bitter and vindictive like that. Should i apologize to him?

2007-12-01 06:45:59 · 33 answers · asked by Leah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend's sister doesn't like me, she never has, she is always talking behind everyone's back (even her mom's).. she is so messed up that she went on a diet and when she found out i went on it too, she stopped talking to me.. when my boyfriend bought a new car, she (she's 28) stopped talking to him for a while too.. today is her daughter's 6 yr old b-day party and she send me an invitation that i didn't feel very sincere.. i had an argument with my boyfriend (been with him 4 and 1/2 years, i'm 22, he's 25) about the situation last night and he said there's nothing he can do about it.. what should i do? should i go? (party is at my mother-in-laws house, where my b/f lives) i wouldn't stand my b/f been at the party by himself, probably dancing too..

2007-12-01 06:45:31 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 4 in Singles & Dating

okay so me and my "wife" went to the court house to get a marriage lic. we got it and arainged to get married by the judge two weeks later, we did! we took home a marriage certificate and the judge told us we would be recieving the OFFICIAL certificate in the mail- its been 8 mo. does that mean we are not married?

2007-12-01 06:43:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-01 06:43:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have seen him watch porn movies without our family knowing! and he smokes every night! but my mom and brother dont know. he keeps it a secret but i know becuase at night when i cant go 2 sleep im hungry, so i go downstairs {that is where the kitchen is..!} and see him smoking, drinking beer, WATCHING GIRLS GONE WILD!! he did not see me, and he does not know that i know. please help me tell him to stop without making this ackward!!?!?!??! and how can i tell my mom?!?!?

2007-12-01 06:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm new and I have no friends.
I just moved to an itsy town.
So my friends aren't too smart.I'm now
relying on yahoo.But I can't
find a place to meet NEW friends.
What should I do?

2007-12-01 06:38:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My daughter and granddaughter seem to feel this is normal behaviour for their family. My daughter is a "collector" and never cleans house. Cannot throw anything away and both parents ignore their 17 yr old daughter completely. I want to help them by intervention, but don't know how to do it.

2007-12-01 06:32:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

We're both 30 years old.

I was matched with a guy on eharmony 2 weeks ago.

We're just like the couples on their commercials. As odd as it sounds, we are like 2 halves of the same whole. We're so perfect for each other that it would only be natural to wind up down the isle.

What was your experience with meeting your fiance/ spouse online?

2007-12-01 06:32:44 · 24 answers · asked by kayte_claire 1 in Weddings

Do you feel it is okay for a wife to do certain things without asking permission from her husband?
Specially things that related to her parents and siblings. Knowing that your husband does not like your family side that much.

2007-12-01 06:29:13 · 6 answers · asked by ein 2 in Family

My friend made a confession to me a while ago. To make a long story short, I have a friend who cheated on her husband and got pregnant. Her boyfriend said he wouldn't take care of the baby unless she got rid of her husband. She pressed spousal rape charges on her husband. He was convicted and she's moved on with the new guy.

When she admitted it was a lie, I felt bad that he was convicted, but he was a pretty bad husband. He was even abusive at times. That's why she cheated. But he's innocent of the rape charge. What can I do? Should I tell someone? I don't have actual proof and it might just make it worse. It would definitely end our friendship. Should I mind my own business?

2007-12-01 06:29:08 · 42 answers · asked by Aileara 3 in Marriage & Divorce

right now I hate him, we have the same arguments over and over. he is irrational , too jealous and speaks to me as if I am working for him. I cannot handle it any longer. and no I give him no reason to be jealous, I am fat but I have good business sense and get along with everybody. I have tried to change the roles...but then I get the "silent" treatment...how do I change him for the better of our relationship...how do I get to love him again? I just don't like spending time with him anymore...should I leave...that is how I feel. what about our business, we have a 50/50 partnership

2007-12-01 06:28:14 · 9 answers · asked by wife in South Africa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My dad died August 19, 2007, in a motorcycle accident. He was 43. After he had been in the hospital for a day. The Dr's came to me and said he wasnt going to make it and because i am 20 yrs old and he wasnt married that i had to make the decision to pull the plug. I made the call knowing he would want to be hooked up to machines, so I sat in the ICU and watched my dad give his last breath. It has been the most difficult thing ive ever had to deal with. I cant eat, i cant sleep, Im drinking to much. I dont talk about it to anyone, my mom, family friends, even my girlfriend. I dont know what to do. If i ever had a question he was there to answer them. I didnt get to say goodbye. Im lost without him. I dont know how to accept the fact that i will Never see, speak, touch, hug, or laugh with him again. How can i move on from this?

2007-12-01 06:27:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How should they be dealt with? There are a LOT of single mums that have an inkling or know for a fact that their new man is sexually interested in/molesting their children and turn a blind eye, because " they love him" or they want his extra income, a man about the house etc etc.
I think if it is proved and or admitted that the mother did know about it and failed to stop it or report it. The children should be taken of her and she should serve a custodial sentence of at least 10 years.

2007-12-01 06:27:13 · 6 answers · asked by raggyann 3 in Singles & Dating

OK, I have a 2 month old baby boy, my boyfriend and I live right next door to his parents...his dad is nice...but his mom drives me nuts, I mean I'm not the type to hate anyone, but she is horrible, I mean she comes over and is always telling me what to do with my baby, or how to do it, she thinks she knows everything, not only with the baby but she's nozy, wants to know everything about our lives, tells us how to do things.. She's a busy body, has to have her big nose everywhere, before I had the baby, I could handle her but now that I have him, she seems to be worse, I hate people telling me what to do with my baby, I know him more than anyone!!! My bf knows how I feel and I told him that I can only take so much, I'm afraid that one day I'll snap and it'll cause a big thing...anyone have any sugggestions? how can I handle her? Also, when you talk to her , it seems like sometimes it goes in one ear out the other.

2007-12-01 06:24:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I wonder how common it actually is. It is all taboo but seems to go on all around us. Have you cheated?

2007-12-01 06:22:59 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We're both 30 years old.

We were matched on eharmony and have been emailing for 2 weeks. We live a 2-3 days' drive apart. I really like him and he seems to have the same feelings for me.

We want the same things outta life (settling down, getting married, having a baby [specifically a girl]...)

How do we keep this going? I've never had an online relationship before.

2007-12-01 06:21:07 · 6 answers · asked by kayte_claire 1 in Singles & Dating

i don't practice the religion she does and nor does my dad or my sister only practices it a few times a year.i really have a problem the fact that she practices her religion which i don't like because i am not.i feel i am too different from my mom because of that religion.what can i do about this.this is causing me to worry so much.i am 13 years old.should i leave my mom because of this.

2007-12-01 06:18:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i ran away in january!and my sister tokk her 4 month old baby bwoi to the father to look 4 me...The father got Extremely drunk whilst looking after the babyand was watching football...Someone was Banging on the front door like crazy and his football team lst..he beat the **** out of the baby!!!!from that day The baby is in foster care and ihavent seen him since!Hes getting Adopter the 10th of this month and then imight never seehim again!My parents went to adopt him but my sister has stuck with the father!and my sister told some very vicous lies about my parents,ect..she sadi my dad made her stand in a corner when she was 10 with her period blood dripping down her leggs!which is lies!!!with the stuff she has sad about my family i have disowned her!she is engaged to the dad!ma parents have been argueing non stop1!!!and i think one of these days there going to split!what can i do to stop my self feelinh guilty!i keep being told its not my falt but i dont know!

2007-12-01 06:16:30 · 1 answers · asked by Becca T 1 in Family

Should i still be her friend?

2007-12-01 06:15:58 · 19 answers · asked by Princess13 1 in Friends

but she will not commucate with you only when she wants you too

2007-12-01 06:15:11 · 16 answers · asked by scott n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

it hurts and i get to the point were i am balling by the end. Which just6 makes her more mad. what can i do to block her out and not let it get to me?

2007-12-01 06:13:47 · 7 answers · asked by heartbreaker 1 in Family

What the divorce stastics for the united states in the past years?

2007-12-01 06:11:06 · 8 answers · asked by robibf@sbcglobal.net 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met him on a forum and he had shown a picture of him to me. So he asked of a pic of me so I said no and he said "Chill. It's not like im gonna come to your place!". So after awhile I sent him a pic of me, and i'm kinda scared of him now! He knows my screen name and I don't want to make a new one, should I block him?

2007-12-01 06:10:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

suggestions on song to dance the first dance with my future hubby.....also wat was urs??

2007-12-01 06:06:47 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

What are you fighting over.....
Is it worth it?

2007-12-01 06:05:37 · 30 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has gained about 115 pounds since highschool. I love her, and when she comes to me for weight loss advice (I weigh the same that I did in highschool and have had children) I ALWAYS give her all of the help I can, but she doesn't use it, and complains about her weight. I haven't seen her in about a year and she posted some pics on her website. The other night she kept referring to herself as a "fine looking woman" and so on, complaining about how her husband isn't interested in her. When I saw her pics, I didn't comment on them because she's not trying to lose weight, and she doesn't look as good as she thinks. I don't know what to say. This may sound shallow, but I'm being truthful. When I met her she weighed 105 10 years and 0 kids later she weighs like 215. She often comments about certain foods and how good they are, and then complains that she can't lose weight. Should I tell her what I think or just hold my tongue for the sake of our friendship?

2007-12-01 06:04:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This woman, has two grown up children, and was divorced over a decade ago from their father. who has sice died. She no longer associates with her daughter or even acknowledges that she is alive, even though her daughter has had 4 surgical operations in the last two years.

2007-12-01 06:03:20 · 26 answers · asked by ξήĢŁĭŞĦ ŗǾşξ ©® ღஐღ 7 in Family

is it possible to love someone, yet not like them?

2007-12-01 06:02:30 · 5 answers · asked by ibelieveinlife 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Before we got maried he showered everyday, brushed his teeth, and was generally clean. We have only been married 4 months and ever since he has become disgusting! I mean he won't shower for days! He never brushes his teeth! His breath will wake me out of a dead sleep! I am not kidding! I have asked him, begged him but he he always has an excuse, like he is too tired. He smoked when I first meet him and I thought that would be the main disgusting thing, but this it killing me. I have with held sex, food, and scream and yelled till he took a shower. I know this sounds extreme but I am at my wits end. I love him so much, I just want the clean man I marred back! If anyone has any ideas please help!

2007-12-01 06:00:55 · 22 answers · asked by sharnajax 3 in Marriage & Divorce

here is an example of what he likes: http://www.tracycastle.com/images/cake-gallery2.jpg

here is what I like: http://www.fairydustcakes.com/images/mad-hatter-whimsical-kellie1001.jpg

any ideas on how to

2007-12-01 06:00:51 · 28 answers · asked by flutterflie04 5 in Weddings