i have seen him watch porn movies without our family knowing! and he smokes every night! but my mom and brother dont know. he keeps it a secret but i know becuase at night when i cant go 2 sleep im hungry, so i go downstairs {that is where the kitchen is..!} and see him smoking, drinking beer, WATCHING GIRLS GONE WILD!! he did not see me, and he does not know that i know. please help me tell him to stop without making this ackward!!?!?!??! and how can i tell my mom?!?!?
2007-12-01 06:41:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Is it just Girls Gone Wild? That is not porn, per se, but disgusting to know your dad watches it, all the same. Especially because I'd wonder if he enjoys your "assets". Does he have any respect for women? Certainly not the barely legal ones! I don't see how your mom couldn't know about it, smoking and drinking make a person stinky and they sleep together, right? Doesn't your house stink like smoke, too?
If I were you, I'd sit on this until you need it. It can be a good deflection the next time you're in trouble. But I think your mom probably knows already. And anyway, your father is an adult and everything he's doing is legal. But still, nasty. I feel for you. Keep covered up around him.
2007-12-01 06:51:54 · answer #1 · answered by PontificalPape 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You've "seen him watch porn movies"?????
Believe me, honey.....this is weird. If he has alcohol/cigarettes in the house or on his breath, your mom KNOWS....maybe she just chooses to ignore it.
MIND YOUR OWN BUSINESS. He isn't hurting you or anyone else, is he? Stop being a little sneak.
2007-12-01 06:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by lady_phoenix39 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are your mom knows but doesnt say anything.Tell your dad what you think of those things and ask him if he doesnt want you to be like one of ht e"girls gone wild" and he doesnt want you to smoke, shouldnt he quit approving of those things by watching and doing them?
2007-12-01 06:48:28 · answer #3 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe write him a letter expressing your concern and give it to him if you are uncomfortable talking to him about it.
2007-12-01 06:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by me 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
find the movie and give it to your mum.
2007-12-01 06:51:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋