it hurts and i get to the point were i am balling by the end. Which just6 makes her more mad. what can i do to block her out and not let it get to me?
2007-12-01 06:13:47 · 7 answers · asked by heartbreaker 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well you need to grow up step up to your mom she should be grown up enough to be able to hear what you have to say. If she doesn't listen move. Even if your underage there's allways somewhere to go, if you don't have a job your gonna need one. and your really gonna need a car if you don't have one, but if you can't stand up to your mother your not gonna go far that's the first obstacle in life.
2007-12-01 06:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Sparky 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
um, okay 1)dont write a letter
2)dont wait for her to make any changes
i have the same situation. You have to find the humour in the situation, and physically keep smiling while u guys are fighting. Now i knoe there is no "humour" in this situation but u have to find that "Itis actually HILARIOUS that you are so yelling at me when IM not the one doing anything" let her know that. Talk about how ridiculas and immiture her actions are.
and when shes yelling be like "You need to calm down." in a realy calm yet bitchy voice. If she yells at you even more leave the house. not permanantly maybe just an hour or so. Go shopping, walk to wall mart browse things, go swimming if there is a swimming pool near your house, or libraray or something/
when she asks you where you are going say "I seem to be having some difficulty living in this situation. I willl be back once i calm down, which frankly, Mother, im not how long it should take" and come back after a few hours.
it may take a long time but hey, its my system, and it works fine for me. Remember calm, bitchy, smart *** voice. talk quiety, but not too quietly like just how u would talk to a random person on the street.
2007-12-01 06:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her to place where u know she wont cause a scene but where u can also talk to her and stuff and tell her that she needs to lay off on you a lil...if that dosnt work talk to ur dad or someone else like maybe ur grandmother or something...maybe she is hurt by something or her mother yelled at her at the same age as u or something and she is doing to u...just try talking to her and get some help if u need help talking to her....i hope u can and the best of luck
2007-12-01 06:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell or write to her how you fell. when she yells, stop yourself and write down what youwant to say or count a while nad say calmly talk.
and about yelling at you. ask your mom what you did wrong. if it's chores then both work on fitting that in. try telling your mom to tone it down. your just a person
2007-12-01 06:34:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you want to live with your dad, and tell her why.Tell her the same things you told us and that you think she just resents you and doesnt love you anymore(Im sure she does love you), this will make her think unless she is just a bad mother.
2007-12-01 06:26:37 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my mom is the same way i just don't listen and just try to tell her how this makes you feel hope this helps sorry
2007-12-01 06:25:58 · answer #6 · answered by D: 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down I write her a nice letter letting her know how you feel and why.
2007-12-01 06:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋