i lost my virginity almost a year ago but im parents dont really like him and i dont think they will let me see him anymore but i love him and i dont want to lose him!
2007-12-01 06:58:41 · 19 answers · asked by bre 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I would not tell them you lost your virginity. It will only make them sad.
2007-12-01 07:00:56 · answer #1 · answered by frogskin13 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They probably have good reason for not liking him. If your bf hooks up with someone else just because you aren't allowed to see him, instead of waiting for you to turn 18, then he doesn't really love you to start with.
Also, why are you having sex when you aren't ready to be a parent? Only when you are able to support a child should you be having sex.
2007-12-01 07:19:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should be able to tell ur parents almost anything, if not, everything. they brought you into this world (with a lil help) and they care about you, alot. if they didnt, they wouldnt care who you date. they just want the best for you and you may not it that way all the time.
i think you should tell them, but just let them know that you understand how they feel about him, but you do love him and you have been wanting to tell them (obviously) from the start but you thought that they wouldnt understand. love conquers everything though... no matter what.
hope this helps.
2007-12-01 07:06:46 · answer #3 · answered by _CåЯißßєåи_Gєm_ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Is this something you think they really need to know? The bigger question here is why are youhaving sex with him? Do you think you have to have sex with hinm to keep him? IF so, that's a BIG mistake - especially if you're young enough to be asking this question. Maybe you need to think about about why your parents don't like him - and why you do. Then you need to consider your age and your goals for your future. IF you're old enough to lose your virginity, you're old enough to take responsibility for yourself. Just what are you doing to your life ?
2007-12-01 07:04:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
for one it's none of your parents buisness at all. after the age of 18 you kind become more like friends with your parents...or atleast I am with mine. at any thing, live outside of there house before you say that stuff to them. Parents are very different.... all around this worl you have a wide spectrum of things that can happen
2007-12-01 07:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by Brandon G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd keep that on the DL (down low) unless you are pregnant. Then you'd kind of have to say something (I mean they would know at some point if you were pregnant that you had lost your virginity).
2007-12-01 07:02:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How old are you two?I was 16 and my BF was 21.They wanted to have him arrested for Statatory Rape.Kepp your mouth shut if this is your situation.Buy a "promise ring" and tell them you are keeping PURE.Think they'll buy it?But make sure you double up on any protection(BC).You don't want mommy to take you to the dr's with a STD or a Baby!!!
2007-12-01 07:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Any guy you have to hide from your parents isn't worth the trouble. You should tell them because now you need to be checked for diseases and have someone explain to you the risks you are taking with your life. AIDS is not a pretty disese to die from let alone the thousands of other noncurable sexually transmitted diseases.
2007-12-01 07:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It really depends on your age. Remember that honesty is almost always the right answer except when to do so would injure us or our friends.
2007-12-01 07:05:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think if u have a close relationship u should but with me i didn't tell my parent's especiaaly my mom because i'm scaerd of her but it's what u think is best.
2007-12-01 07:05:41 · answer #10 · answered by freaky girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋