i am young, only 26. my parents still want me in by midnight...that is cramping my style with the men if you know what i mean! :)
i want to do what i please! they also want me to get a job and are threating to cut off my allowance. they are so cruel! $200. per month is crap...i can hardly pay my bar tab on that...i am reduced to asking men to buy my drinks! should i "get back" at my parents by running away? really, maybe just spend a few nights with friends ? that would show them! as for a job, there is nothing out there for me! anyone else have difficult parents??
2007-12-01 07:25:49 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
why is everyone yelling at me??? you all have made me cry! i am upset to begin with. my life is a mess. hey...i help out my mother...i did the dishes last week. as for my father, i cleaned up all my mc donalds bags in his car! i'm doing the best i can!!!
2007-12-01 07:37:34 · update #1
My mom is just as difficult. I'm 56 and living at home. She always puts on this old lady front to try to pressure me into doing unreasonable things like cutting firewood and taking the trash out.
When I was 50 she threatened to stop paying me my allowance ($400 per month - I'm older than you so I need more money). I took her to a lawyer and made her give me power of attorney, so now I just take the money directly from her bank account on pension day. Have you considered this?
I bring women home all the time and my mom is always unreasonable. Like when I kick the woman out of my bed once I'm done, my mom always refuses to drive them home (she says that I should pay for a cab - what a nerve!). The women have to walk home. I'd feel sorry for them, but they just had the experience of a lifetime with me, so they still win.
Be prepared for your folks to do really underhanded things - my mom has taken to drooling and wetting the bed - but don't cave to their pressure. They're just playing mind games with you.
Good luck - your parents don't know what a gem they have.
Ps: do you live within walking distance of my house?
2007-12-01 10:13:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
are you an alcoholic???
serious question I'm not trying to be rude.
or is this like a joke question??
Well if you are being serious. I should tell you that you're parents are kind of being nice to you still. They are giving you allowance! That is crazy crap! Mine have never given me allowance, ever in my life. So you are lucky.
You are lucky they are even letting yu still live in their house. I know that mine wouldn't kick me out but truthfully my sister still lives at home, she is 19 years old and she still has a time to be back home also.
But then again she also works, and has a car she pays for,including insurance and she does almost everything else by herself.
I think yuo may need to rethink things over. Start working a lot on getting more hours in your job so you can pay for more things. Dont go to the bar but once or twice every week.
Does this help at all??
2007-12-01 07:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kaylani 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief! What is wrong with these people? Your parents should worship the ground you walk on for staying home to take care of them. Most 26 year old women these days are so effin' selfish that they won't even talk to their parents unless it's to borrow money. Perhaps a little time apart is needed.
Here's what I would do. Get their credit card, purchase an all inclusive vacation a couple of weeks in advance, go and party your *** off. Make sure you are on the plane before the credit card statement comes in so they can't cancel.
Once your gone for a couple of weeks, they will appreciate you more.
Hope this helps. :-)
2007-12-01 09:45:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
mimi don't do anything you will regret later. Your parent love you they are showing you tough love right now. You don't know how good you have it. $200. a month is allot of money remember the tools I gave you about the bar. Use them to your advantage. I can help you budget in your MC Donald's and bar tab. As for the men pick some that you know your parents will like. Your dad is great in bed and I know for a fact he is very persuasive he could talk the pants right off any man who you brought home. So if you raise you bar a bit they may show you some slack. Now go have dinner with your parents. Your mom told me earlier that she is making your favorite, fish sticks with tarter sauce. Now go tell them how much you love them!
2007-12-01 08:28:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you need to go out, get a job, be responsible, and start living your life outside of your parents. You are acting like a teenager. You are 26! If you are still living with your parents and they are giving you money, they have every right to implement certain restrictions and guidelines. It is their house. When you have your own house, then you get to make the rules. Geeze...grow up and learn what it's like in the real world! It's not all partying and staying up all night when you have to pay the bills.
2007-12-01 07:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is this question a joke your 26 you should grow up in a hurry you have alot of catch up to do you should have your own job and be paying your parents rent. YOu are unappreciative of all that they are doing for you. Why do you want ot get back at them they are being so kind to you! You should appologize to them they obviously love you very much.
Here is a wonderful Idea that completely slipped your mind
DO SOMETHING NICE FOR Them for a change.
YOu should not bring men into your parents house. COme on. REally
2007-12-01 07:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE 26 AND YOU STILL LIVE AT HOME. you are getting an allowance and not a real job? who runs away at 26. really go get yourself an apartment, live in the real world and maybe youll grow up.
*even if you make 200 a month you should be saving to get out of your parents house and not wasting it at the bar. you really are worthless
2007-12-01 07:30:06 · answer #7 · answered by surfcarolinagurl26 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are 26 and you still live at home, goodness girl isn't it time to let your head go and be a grown up. It's not healthy for a girl your age to live at home. Ironically $200 per month is chickenfeed to what it will cost you.
Get a job, be a woman. About running away, face it sweety it will be normal if you just move out, if anyone runs away it should be your parents lol.
2007-12-01 07:32:51 · answer #8 · answered by heardcrombie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
an allowence @ u'r age is quite bad u need a job thats the only way u'll gain u'r parents rwespect. im not even allowed out. im 16 and get £1 per week (if they remember) running away would be rather irrasponsable. so pleaze dont do it. i want 2 but my bro hitz me an i get yelled @ all day
hunny most of us isnt yellin at u. we're just tryin 2 state that u need 2 sort u'rself out. b4 its 2late. some volunteer work could help loadz 2 gain the skills u need. great way 2 meet caring considerate guys 2;)
2007-12-01 07:31:34 · answer #9 · answered by xxxxxtenthousandtearsxxxxx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself a job, get yourself a car, and move out. Parents seem to play favorites with their children and to them you are trash and not a daughter. If you have not got your drivers license, start studying for it and also start applying for jobs out there. That way when you start working and get paid, you can save up and buy yourself a car and move out to college or whenever you want. You are going to be 18 in a bit, that's already adulthood. Yes, I agree all teenagers need to go out and have fun because youth does not last forever. They have to understand and I am sure that when your parents were your age, they partied like crazy. Now, try not to make more mistakes so that your parents stop trashing you and start to take you in consideration.
2016-05-27 03:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are old enough to be on your own. You need to start thinking about what you want to do with your life. If that is what you are doing while you are under your parents roof, then you definitely need to get a direction. Have you thought about college? You will definitely need a job. Trust me. Move out! You will feel much better once you feel independent and your own person. I kind of wonder if you are serious.
2007-12-01 07:31:55 · answer #11 · answered by dat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋