Does he like me?

Question

I know this is a bit long, but I do wish that you read the whole thing before you answer. Most detailed answer wins. Well, I have had a crush on my best guy friend for over two years now, and recently I have gotten this feeling that he might like me back. I told him a long time ago I had a crush on him. He said he was flattered and told me I was very pretty and talented and such, but he did not say if he liked me or not. About a month or two afterwards, I got a call from my best friend saying that she got him to admit that he liked me. I don’t know if she was just pulling my leg…but she has never lied to me before, as far as I know anyway. About another couple months down the road, all 4 of my best friends and I were up on our favorite hill playing a good old game of “truth or dare”. My friend called on my crush, and he picked truth. She asked – “do you like Evelyn as more than just a friend?” my crush looked at me, and the two whispered a few words that I couldn’t hear. After waiting a few moments, I asked what his answer to my friends’ question was. He looked at me and said, “Do you really want to know?” I nodded, and shifting his gaze to the other direction, told me the answer was no. My friend claimed that he was lying. I didn’t think he was. Then, quite a while later something I didn’t see coming happened. We were talking, and he told me that he had this dream he had to tell me about. He said I was in it. He told me the beginning of his dream, and then he said – “Now here is the weird part…in my dream, you and I were a couple.” I really didn’t know what to say at that point, nor did I know in the least way what to think. Do you think he likes me? Is it possible? If you could give me your opinion, and tell me some signs to look out for, that would be awesome. Thank-you for your time and consideration! I know my question is a bit long, and I do apologize for that. Oh, and if it helps any to know, I am 15 years old…and so is my crush.

Answer 1

Wow, this is a long question, but you write very well for a 15-year-old!

I think your guy friend is unsure of himself (many boys and girls at that age are). He probably doesn't know himself whether he likes you in a romantic way or not. As difficult as it may sound, don't try to be TOO interested in him. I know that's hard if you are, but if you actively pursue him, he'll apt to run away from you. Instead, play little mind games with him. Pretend that you like somebody else . . . maybe his best friend or some older boy. If he shows signs of getting jealous, then you've hit the jackpot. But under any circumstances don't be rude or bitchy. Always be nice to him, and everybody else around you. But just don't appear too available--that'll only come across as desperate. Not a good thing. Act like you like him as a FRIEND (or like you've given up seeing him in a romantic way), but like now you like somebody else in a romantic way. Maybe he'll start pursuing you then! Boys are like that, very competitive. Wish you good luck, anyway.

Answer 2

oh evelyn--how wonderful that you have a best guy friend! it sounds like you two have known each other for quite a while which is a good thing. it sounds like your guy friend has had a few opportunities to tell you if he would like to be more than friends. it seems that he has chosen to continue to be your best guy friend & not your boyfriend. this isn't a bad thing. he has thought about it (dream revealed this but he termed the idea as "weird".) he is very happy being your guy friend after many months of you wanting more than that. 15 is still young for boyfriends (you have MANY years of having boyfriends...) i would continue to be his best gal friend and hang out. part of the reason for successful relationships is that both are friends & enjoy each other's company. i know you might be looking for a "plan" to make him your boyfriend but it takes two to tango as they say & it sounds like you are dancing solo. giggle, laugh, & do things with a group where he is included. you will enjoy the time together & who knows? he could see in a year or two that you are the coolest girl he knows b/c you both get along so well...a great place to start being a couple.
good luck!

Answer 3

Will my dear,since you are both 15,you both are still expermenting.
I would say if this guy is your best friend,and you like him alot,I would suggest enjoy your friendship together,and live your life.Go out on a few dates with other men.If this man likes you,he may get jealous,and see how many men are attractive to you,he than may want more than a friendship.Until than,go and live your life the way you want to.If you two only remain freinds,remeber friendship lasts longer than any other relationships,unless you`re married,
I hope this helps,and be who you are.
Take care.

Answer 4

probably. maybe he is shy around you. he could be scared about asking you to a dance or maybe even asking you out! my bf kept on flirting with me and then he told me. maybe he doesn't want you to go and tell everyone. if you really want to know, well, ask him. do you like him? if you like him, and you think he likes you, well tell him you like him. it's normal to be scared. if he knows you like him (that is, if he likes you), well.... he'll be a little less nervous to tell you that he really likes you. follow your heart, it know right from wrong. ♥

Answer 5

No, get over him. You are too young anyway!! Geeeeeez!!

Answer 6

honey, i dont think he does. hers what to look far: if a guy stares at you, or if he teases you, or if he looks confused or acts weird