trouble at home?

Question

My sister and brother really, and I mean really don't like me. It's not a little kid thing because we are all grown, I‘m sure, by now. For example they ask to borrow my stuff and just take things from me, when they wouldn't do the same in return, and I'm always the one left around to clean the house like some stupid little housekeeper to them! And when we are walking and just doing stuff out in public they always distance themselves from me, leaving me to walk alone but I don't really care about that. I just wants some thoughts or opinions please.

[you can use one of my old questions I asked as a reference though it's now quite the same as this one]

I mean not that grown just young adults around 17 and my bros 18.

Answer 1

If you are still living in your parents' house, you need to take steps to get out of there. Get a job, get graduated, and see about some kind of career training in community college or university. This activity alone should take you away from that house most of the time.

In the meantime, you need to put a keyed lock on your bedroom door and use it to keep your stuff intact.

Everyone should be picking up after themselves at this point.
Quit coddling them. If your parents say something to you about it, just spell it out to them. Everyone is old enough to take responsibility for their own messes and everyone should be pitching in around the house. The less you are around, the more the messes will be theirs.

Answer 2

Why would they behave this way? They may have some reason to be angry at you, or you may have a sick family system in which one person gets maltreated. At any rate, I agree with the above poster- it's probably time to move out.

Answer 3

If you are a grown woman, you don't need to live at home or with your siblings. Find your own friends and leave your sibling to the occasional family function.