2007-12-01 03:35:25 · 27 answers · asked by softkisses4707 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear softkisses:
What have I Learned?
*My TOP 10 "Values" LIST! :
1) Date 4-6 years to really get to know
a person effectively.
2) Never enter into a Marriage Contract
until one is OVER 25 yrs. old & mature.
(Our Brains are NOT developed until then)
3) Possess "Emotional-Intelligence"!
4) Have a Realistic Marketable Job Skill!
This ensures a firm financial foundation!
5) Seek out Pre-Marital Counseling to est.
a Firm Foundation of Communication.
6) Seek out counsel from your Clergy.
7) Meet with an Attorney for a Pre-Nup.
Have a WILL & Life Insurance on file!
8) Utilize BC Methods! NO Babies until
you are over 30 & have Money Banked~
& OWN a House & new car!
9) NEVER live with a Lover!
Establish Independence! Live Separate.
10) Never "Live in Disney-Love" !
Live in REALITY & be Mature!
Life is NOT A Fantasy!
Do 1-9 ABOVE!
Does this answer your question~
Effectively?
Good Luck~ softkisses
2007-12-01 04:04:04 · answer #1 · answered by LedHead 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
never stay in a bad relationship longer then a minute. never let someone tell you what to do. let them make their own money if they want a job. help around the house. respect eachother. listen to eachother and never cheat on the other. life is to short to not be with the one who makes you happy. move on ,learn from your mistakes and always try to do your best .put the other one first and before you do something that your questioning is right or wrong,think of how it would feel if it was happening to you.
2007-12-01 03:42:30 · answer #2 · answered by marilynfsmgm 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I learned that I can love freely. I learned that men and woman can be friends and sex does not have to come between just because. I learned that I have More in my life than I thought.
There is so much I will not put it all here if you want more. e-mail me
Live Long Live free
2007-12-01 04:37:28 · answer #3 · answered by The answer guy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've learned to always trust my instinct and generally what people tell me about the person has also been accurate. So listen or at least make sure of everything.
2007-12-01 03:37:56 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmmmmmm
I learned that women can be very mean, and we should always be very careful of them.
I used to think they are just soft nice creatures.
They are meaner than men usually I think. And WAY smarter about feelings and relationships. Men always thing they choose women when actually women (and thier friends) choose the men.
2007-12-01 03:40:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maximum generations (and that i say that with a grain of salt) regularly improve over each previous era. The issues which you dislike approximately your mothers and fathers will subconsciously (for the main area) not be in contact with the elevating of your own infants. as an occasion, in case your mothers and fathers have been 'dismissive', you isn't in the direction of your own little ones. for my area, i've got self assurance in spending somewhat some time attending to comprehend who you're as a single guy or woman. What you like and do in comparison to, what your values are, the way you take care of others, etc. those issues will reflect in the way you take care of your own infants as quickly as you have them. the terrific thank you to "fee" a dating earlier having infants of your own, is to spend an inordinate quantity of time with your self first. as quickly as you experience tender with who you're, you will draw the variety of guy or woman into your existence who shares the comparable outlook.
2016-11-13 03:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I learned to love myself before i could love anyone else!!
2007-12-01 03:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by *SIMPLY ME* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be happy with what I've got. If I know deep down I'm wrong, don't do it. Smile & Appreciate.Don't moan, dont be clingy, dont push x
2007-12-01 03:37:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*I learned that if they are irresponsible when you meet them...they will remain irresponsible.
*Mama's boys suck.
*The other persons credit, criminal history and driving records are very important as they can decide your future if you get married.
*What you see is what you get! Do not try to change them.
*Having children will not make them love you.
2007-12-01 03:42:00 · answer #9 · answered by no name 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe a word any woman has ever said
2007-12-01 03:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋