1 of the reasons has 2 be because im not getting pregnate fast enough combined with him just not being able to be with just 1 woman,i dont agree with this and im seriously considering leaving him,but i love him,what should i do???
2007-12-01 03:17:23 · 15 answers · asked by nay-nay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviosuly leave him. You both have different goals/desires on life. Unfortunately, he is not just happy being with you, he wants to upgrade you.
Regardless of you loving him, why would you WANT to stay with a man who doesn't love you enough to be happy with just you?
2007-12-01 03:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by kiki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love Smove! Leave his @***. He sounds barbaric and sounds like nothing but a common cheater who can't keep his d*ck in his pants. There are hundreds...no thousands of couple who want to have kids and they just don't conceive as quickly as they has hoped to. NONETHELESS, the husband does not go and seek a second wife. Regardless of culture, I just fell that if a man(even Muslim) is in love with his wife and respects the vows of marriage then there should never...ever...EVER be talk of another wife. You shouldn't have to share your husband with another woman or be put through the mental anguish of knowing what they are doing when he is not with you. Imagine how you would feel inside, in your heart, if she conceived his child. Could you handle seeing the man you married having this experience with another woman? His beliefs are not only ancient but selfish and completely self serving. What's worse is that he is trying to make you feel resposible for all this. Find you a great attorney and divorce his butt! It will hurt but you will get over it. IT WILL NOT HURT ANYMORE TO DIVORCE HIM THAN IT WOULD TO HAVESHARE HIM W/ANOTHER WIFE!
HE is lucky he has you for a wife and not me becuase I would have exploded on him with a rage like he had never seen. Good luck.
2007-12-01 04:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by whatshername 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about the idea of sharing your husband with another woman? Will YOU be happy?
If the answer is no, and you decide to leave him, remember that there are MANY, MANY, men out there who will love you and be with only you - you are capable of finding a man who will not need to be with another woman and who will not leave you because you aren't getting pregnant fast enough.
2007-12-01 03:44:01 · answer #3 · answered by Walking on Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Brush your hair usual for 2 minutes. also it your hair may be falling out with the aid of products you employ. attempt to discover an all organic shampoo and conditioner from the well being foodstuff shop. also no you're not any more being punished, Muslim women can decrease their hair, I do exactly not imagine they could shave their heads?
2016-10-25 06:12:05 · answer #4 · answered by labarriere 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am muslim too, and if my husband ever wants another wife i will leave him in the matter of seconds. leave him, he doesnt treat you with respect
2007-12-01 04:59:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ladyofdubai 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know enough about the Muslim culture, but I do know that women should be treated as more than "brood mares" in any society. Do what you have to do, but keep your self-respect.
2007-12-01 03:40:25 · answer #6 · answered by bjstree 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him if you can have another husband
second choice
if you are not good enough for him.......then leave him
please don't make a man make you feel less of a woman
2007-12-01 03:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by Babygurl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you do not love him
when you are truly in love
you do not allow yourself to be hurt
and as such you have no idea of what love is
as love has self respect
and you lack that
leave him
and being muslim is no excuse for such things
2007-12-01 04:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are u still confused???
oye!!
have sum self respect!!
these men ruin the name of islam! dey use the religion according to their whims and condition!
islam will not allow him to marry again if u (his first wife) wont give him permission...
he is a grade A *******!
im sorry.. but i cant have Stupid ppl using religion to their needs.. it haram..
2007-12-01 03:34:05 · answer #9 · answered by chaos_infinity1982 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. He would just cheat on you.
<3
2007-12-01 03:22:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋