and he and this other guy make fun of the white girls who are in either grade (he is i think 14 and is friend 15) and I'm 13 and in 7th grade they haven't said anything mean to me but still and yesterday he asked me " do you feel left out because your not Hispanic?" i really like him but i don't really think he would like me because I'm white but i don't act like the other girls I'm not addicted to Hollister or Hot Topic or anything like that I've never been to any of those places! i like rap and hip hop which i don't think they know about. he talks to me a bit but he can more relate to my friend because she is Hispanic his friend doesn't really talk to me but he talks to my friend and i do feel left out sometimes and i just realized i started going off topic! O_o PLZ HELP!! thx in advance:D
2007-12-01 03:33:16 · 9 answers · asked by ~♥~Blue~Eyed~Girl~♥~ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he isn't a jerk he's actually really nice to me and bigneems go to hell ok!
2007-12-01 03:40:07 · update #1
I'm not bothered by it but i thin he might be and i only see him on the school bus because of the age different and the fact my school is huge there are 1,700 kids!
2007-12-01 03:52:12 · update #2
First of all, guys at 14 or 15 are trying to get attention from girls that they like. For instance, they have been making fun of the other white girls and so far you have not been a victim. That tells me they like you in someway. If the guy that you like is talking to your friend that you should make yourself a little bit more distinctive than the rest of your friends.
If he asked you that question again, then tell him why is he making a big deal out of the skin color?
If I were you, I would go ahead and tell him that you like him, but do it where you can at least be secretive about it. Make him a letter and put it in his locker or something. That way he knows that you are interested and then he will leave you alone and maybe he will stop making fun of your friends.
Tell him that you are interested in him and would like to get to know him better.
Having friends doesn't need to look at skin color, neither having a relationships.
2007-12-01 03:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Lord_Benjew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely agree with Juan Pablo. The fact that he's hispanic doesn't have to mean he likes rap or hip hop and not all white girls necessarily have to like Hollister.
It is one of the silliest things I have ever read to think that people can't get along because they look different or that they have to like certain things because of their race.
I have attended international schools all my life and I have met and become friends with people all over the world. I never stopped to think about their races! Grow up girl.
2007-12-01 03:41:20 · answer #2 · answered by LU 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your white and he makes fun of white people then its a big duhh you shouldn't like him. Thats just what we need in this country a hispanic knocking up a white girl. There are plenty of other nice (white) guys out there that would rise to the occasion to be with you. In my school all the hott white girls go out with the black and spanish only. But if you want to have a caramell colored kid then try being with him.
2007-12-01 03:42:53 · answer #3 · answered by mapizrap 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're needless to say insecure and are hoping white females are as jealous and smitten by you as you're of them. such countless black human beings those days (not all however) have this fixation with white human beings's seems jointly as white human beings do not think of approximately you as intensely in any respect. And lol @ y'all attempting to crap on females as an entire so which you would be able to sense greater advantageous. men are notoriously jealous creatures yet in ordinary terms women are hated for this.
2016-10-10 00:14:33 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he'd be bother if your skin is white, b/c in hispanic countries we have whites too everywhere. Maybe b/c u dont have nothing in common to talk about, the culture. Where i used to live we were all white. Try to say something in spanish that will be fun for both of them and he'd be thrilled i would be/
2007-12-01 04:06:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a jerk. Forget about him. That comment he made is ridiculous, and he put you down. Why would you be attracted to someone who thinks he's better than you because you're white?
2007-12-01 03:37:40 · answer #6 · answered by Lydia H 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i'm italian and married to a puerto rican, run the other way girl
2007-12-01 03:36:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
race means nothing in a relationship and neither do stereotypes
2007-12-01 03:36:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It will never work out. youll end up getting pregnant and he will end up in jail
2007-12-01 03:37:09 · answer #9 · answered by Nick 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋