If you meet a guy and you and him really click and like 4 days later you and him have sex and he is still into you. Is this wrong?
2007-12-01 03:01:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
not always. ive been there and it wasnt really a bad thing.
2007-12-01 03:06:09 · answer #1 · answered by April M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Onya, I am not one to judge a person for their life choices but all I would say is to be very careful. This is a good way of getting yourself a bad reputation as an easy girl. And although it may seem like fun at the present, when you are a little bit older it may come back to haunt you. There are lots of guys who really, really enjoy girls that are so easy, for a couple of weeks or so. But when asked if they want to have a long lasting relationship with someone who gives it up so easy they are not interested in them for the long term. Besides if you give it up so easily for this one fella he may very well wonder how often this happened before he came into the picture. Be careful and try and act responsibly.
2007-12-01 11:10:08 · answer #2 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so,4 days is not enough time to get to know this person.Now you have to get to know the real him!Do that like now because later on down the line, the two of you may want to go out to dinner and you find out that his table manners aren't up to part.Or discover that the two of you are not compatible.Start off any relationship being friends first.You don't want the guy to think you are easy.When you do that you make it easy for him to make you a hit and run!
2007-12-01 11:13:28 · answer #3 · answered by crissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think? I imagine you already know, thats why your asking. But in asking your hping people here reinforce that "its ok, your normal, your human".... I imagine your looking more for comfort in your bad decision than a truthfull answer. Yes he lost respect for you. They just polled a group of guys 16-25 about what they really want in a woman they would plan to be with and marry..and what was the biggest turn on, suprisingly they said PURITY. Why? Because guys use easy women and respect those who have respect for themselves. In his mind now he thinks.... "if i did her in 4 days, im sure other guys have..." Is that losing respect? Of course. He will never admit it, because of course he still wants to have sex with you and doesnt want to hurt the chances of getting more, but the damage is done.
2007-12-01 11:09:48 · answer #4 · answered by thisisalex_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might not be reason being is because he now see how quick you have given your jewel up. was there really a connection between the to of you or was it just about giving each other up but if you really like him and he feels the same then he could be still into you but i honestly think you should have waited longer than 4 days. if you are going to do something make sure you use protection and double up if you're not sure reasons are AIDS STD and haviong a baby youre not ready for so think about it.
2007-12-01 11:17:10 · answer #5 · answered by purplewoman 86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems pretty soon. You should got to know the guy a little bit more before taking off your pants. I don't know if this guy just want a booty call or what, but be careful and not let your emotions get in the way.
2007-12-01 11:16:11 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is totally wrong and unprofessional.It like you dont care about yourself and your future.
2007-12-01 11:06:13 · answer #7 · answered by lszondi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not wrong for him, but he may think you gave it up too easy
2007-12-01 11:06:11 · answer #8 · answered by Grandpa Shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont have sex till your married
2007-12-01 11:11:04 · answer #9 · answered by kodak moment 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-12-01 11:04:59 · answer #10 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋