ok in all honesty i no i am a really nice guy. sure i can be an *** (and when i do somebody ends up getting hurt) sometimes but more than often i am a really nice guy. but lately it seems that every girl seems to be blowing me off cause im a nice guy. im just asking is everyone becomeing anti-nice or do girls just not like nice guys anymore?
2007-12-01 03:04:06 · 15 answers · asked by Phil 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Keep being a nice guy - i used to date a**holes - then i met, dated and married a nice guy - best decision i ever made!
2007-12-01 03:06:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nice guy are definitely first in my list. But, it's like with some men, they want to be around a Marilyn Monroe type to have fun and end up with a Jackie Kennedy to get married. Same thing with some girls, a "bad boy" to have fun, and of course a nice guy to have something serious, who in their right mind will choose a bad boy knowing that he'll get bored soon into a relationship and start to find some fun somewhere else.
2007-12-01 11:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by Lulu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teenage girls are attracted to the guy that stands out and that tends to be the jerk. I would keep being nice if I were you only because once these girls get older and realize what they want there will be guys like you out there (if they're not too late). Be advised though not to let these mean girls walk all over you because you're nice or because they have been treated poorly in the past. Just stay true to yourself and eventually you'll get the girl you've been waiting for.
2007-12-01 11:11:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
For some reason, girls are just attracted to naughty boys :B
But, in the end, they realize all they want was a nice guy, someone who will fall asleep while hugging them, and, when theyr're talking, the guy will listen and not wonder what the girl looks like naked XD
So they'll come around. Patience.
2007-12-01 11:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Abooboio B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i happen to be a nice guy as well, and ive never been blown off bcuz of it, i only get compliments of how they wish every guy would treat them the way i did, and if there is any girl who wants an @$$hole then, they are prob no good anyways. keep being a nice guy thats the only way to find a decent girl
2007-12-01 11:09:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Poople are capable of loving and being attracted to real people. People who are happy at times, sad at other times, interested at times, disinterested at times, angry at times, helpful at other times, afraid at times, courageous at other times. All the things that make up real human beings.
When you hide all this stuff, you're doing both you and the other person a disservice. You don't get the deep connection you want because you're never sure if that person would like the real you because you never give it to them. You give them the version you think they want. And they don't get a real person to love. They get an incomplete one, one were some things are missing.
I think nice guys hide a lot of themselves becuase they feel the real deep down them would never be accepted. I also think "nice guys" try to take aloof women and turn them into warm, loving women. The niceness is really manipulation to try to force a situation. They do this because they're still trying to unlock their mother's hearts. And they feel that if they can somehow take this girl and turn her around that they can find the key to their mother's heart.
2007-12-03 16:58:34 · answer #6 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I think nice guys are the best. My advice is to stay nice talk to girls and become their friends then go for it. You'll find somebody someday.
2007-12-01 11:09:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its always the nice ones that hurt us. usually a guys niceness if cus of a whole diff reasons (user) but that depends on if u act fake nice. its really hard to explain but stay nice. youll find someone
<3
2007-12-01 11:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i think im pretty and only go for the nerdy type, or the shy type. im very outgoing and need a balance.
girls who had a troubling childhood or whatever go for hostile guys because they feel protected in some way or dont even know nice guys exist.
2007-12-01 11:08:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dunno
depends on your age really
when younger girls dont always like really nice guys, sometimes it's kind of boring
some like to go out with "bad guys", cause its always different suppose, and a challenge, but they'll moan about him still.
stay nice
just dont be a clingy kind of guy
2007-12-01 11:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋