Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

Last month i broke it off due to him not being there for me.
I mean...he's a great person but his priorties weren't straight.
He would choose to get a XBOX 360 game before making sure we didn't need anything. Now he's texting me talking about he knows he messed up. (Let me tell you...this wasn't the first time we left each other for things in that nature), he has a horrible attitude, doesn't trust me, doesn't like to communicate about situations (he rather go at the mouth instead of talking) and i basically fell out of love. I put more than 50% in this relationship and felt like i got 20%.
I just want him to understand i am okay alone and that i can do it. (Basically i was) and that i want him to just leave me alone.
I have texted him this already and he is very persistant. Please help.

2007-11-13 03:39:34 · 6 answers · asked by ♥Miss Self-Sufficient 5 in Singles & Dating

I have this boyfriend and we've been dating for over 3 years and I really love him but sports are a big part of my life and I love watching football, basketball, whatever it is, and my boyfriend hates watching sports. I know it sounds stupid but sports are a big part of my life...... what do I do?

2007-11-13 03:34:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so i am a pharmacy tech and i don't really make a lot of money and my husband makes 94k a year, i always wanted to kind of keep our money seperate because i think i should provide for my own personal needs. However, i drive a 93 civic and my husband is insisting that he buy me a new car because im pregnant and he thinks my car isn't safe enough. He really wants me in a BMW or an Acura because he says its safer. however, he drives the same 91 gmc p/u that he bought in college. Im afriad that if i get a car, he will and we will just end up on a spending spree and get in debt.

2007-11-13 03:32:07 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When you start dating a new girl when is it appropriate to have the relationship status talk? When would it be too soon for her to bring it up? Just to figure out where it's going, are you exclusive? Wait a couple months, around how many?

2007-11-13 03:30:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with this guy for four years now, and we both really love each other. I would like to think that he's THE ONE for me, but I am having second thoughts. Are you supposed to just know when he's the one, or is it normal to be having doubts? Like I really love the guy, and I know how much he loves me, but I'm confused. And I don't wanna just break up with him (in case he is the one), but at the same time, I am prolly wasting my time if I realize a couple years from now that I don't wanna spend the rest of my life with him.

2007-11-13 03:29:01 · 22 answers · asked by Doll♥. 3 in Singles & Dating

hi,
i'm a 25 year old woman, engaged to a 42 year old man, we both were married before, now the question is, we are getting married, but he does not want a wedding, he just want us to go to court alone and be married and that's it nothing special, but i want a wedding, although, i want it to be very very simple, any dress it doesn't even have to be white, a little cake, photos for memory, and i'd like our very close family like parents to be there, is it ok, or is it because i was married before, and i had a huge over the top wedding, then i'll look ridiculous to have another wedding?

2007-11-13 03:27:12 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Girls notice the problems with the relationship faster than boys and they understand better sometimes to. I dont get that

2007-11-13 03:27:05 · 42 answers · asked by top_notch_sagittarius_chic 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got into a MAJOR argument with my husband about this very issue. He says that I do not trust him. This behavior started up again about two months ago. Two weeks ago we have just had our 12th anniversary & we have two children. We spent that weekend arguing because he was gone the WHOLE day (not working, just out with his brother). We have only been back together for about 20 months after a year long seperation. I feel as though NO married man should be out that late. I would not do that to him, hanging out with my sister, BFF or anyone. My parents have been married for 35 years and my Dad went to work EVERYDAY ( save Sundays) and came home EVERY night, come Hell or highwater. Am I just overreacting?

2007-11-13 03:25:48 · 32 answers · asked by Zinzah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The guy has been dating his girl for 5 years. He really enjoys when my children and I all hang out togther. He seems to be a really nice guy who goals in life.

2007-11-13 03:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Just asked 1 in Singles & Dating

What quality is it that when a certain woman walks in the room, everyone just pauses? Other than physical beauty?

2007-11-13 03:21:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My MIL is already trying to "claim" x-mas day for us to go there, and I haven't even spoken to my side about their plans.

I thought it would be good to have it at our house (since we have never done it b4 and both families can "have us"). but how should i tell her, she is like a tempermental child about stuff like this.
And both fam's do get along w/ eachother.
Any suggestions hw i should talk to her? I need to do it quick!

2007-11-13 03:20:37 · 22 answers · asked by Elisheva 4 in Family

I dont wanna look deparate so i stopped greeting him on messanger. He greeted for a while, then i greeted for a while as well but he never greets now and i dont wanna greet in case i look desparate. We haven't spoken in ages should i break the ice this time and see if he greets the next time? But then again i greeted the last few times. What if he doesnt greet the next time, id be so sad!

i dont wanna give a bad impression of myself to him but want sumting to heppen esp cos its long distance.

NOTE: this is NOT anonymous, I know the guy...he moved so thats why we chat online

2007-11-13 03:19:34 · 9 answers · asked by Blair Waldorf 5 in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship with a man who is 14 years older than me (im in my 20's). Anyway I have never felt this way or been treated this good. Is anything wrong with the age differences and what are some of your age differences in relationships or marriage?

2007-11-13 03:14:46 · 13 answers · asked by j.j.l 1 in Singles & Dating

whats the best way to flirt without not looking desperate because apparently my method isn't working.... so whats the best way to flirt and get your attention? please help

2007-11-13 03:14:00 · 27 answers · asked by jisby13 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 and have a wonderful son, I've met someone who I feel I can love and will accept my son, The only thing....I barely have 4wks out of the realtionship. I will like to be serious with this person but at the same time I'm 21 and I feel like i'm now just starting a new life.This new person is 31 yrs he has everything any women would want, a house, a career, great family, the looks, smart, and so on. So do I.....should i give in? or just wait and enjoy life right now???

2007-11-13 03:05:08 · 24 answers · asked by yoanacancino 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you have twins, triplets, quadruplets, etc.? We just have two sets of twins (cousins) in my family.

2007-11-13 03:04:21 · 9 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Family

dad-he is not into sports or power tools so i am going w/ a shirt
mom-bath stuff (or) and staitonary
baby brother and sister-a little toy or something there 10 monthes
4 year old sister-a little prject or kit

i got my dad his shirt from marshalls it was 10 bucks so i am going to target for everyone elses gifts




is that good

2007-11-13 03:03:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My wife is throwing her life away right now....drinking all day and night and is making poor choices. She does not want to be a mother or be married anymore. she is meeting guys online and falling for them easily and wants to meet these guys. She has an alcohol addiction but does not think she needs rehab. Last night she drank a 12 pack by herself in her room from 9pm to whenever she went to bed. Can I get her commited somehow?

2007-11-13 03:03:17 · 8 answers · asked by Javi 5 in Family

Ok, Our wedding date is set for June and I'm trying go around and get costs of stuff we are going to need. We are planning on 150 people maybe a little less. What would the cost of alcohol be? like for a few types of beer, wine, champange??
I dont want to break the bank over it but I still would like it there. (both families are drinkers)

2007-11-13 03:03:16 · 15 answers · asked by ♥Angie♥ 3 in Weddings

2007-11-13 03:00:37 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I seem to enjoy sex alot more than most women and some men. I think it about it constantly and am always horny. After sex I always want more and can keep going. Any suggestions?

2007-11-13 02:59:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A guy virtually chased me to get my phone number and then calls me to arrange a date, but says he'll phone back with the arrangements for time and venue etc. Then he doesn't phone.

Then 4 days later calls me again to request that I go to meet him where he works that night (he's a bouncer) as he'd like to get to know me better!!!! before taking me on a date. I refuse coz 1) that's the whole point of going on a date and 2) I don't fancy trying to talk to someone whilst they're trying to work and 3) I'm not dropping everything at the last minute to go out with anyone, so he agrees to take me on a proper date but then wants to know if he can come back to my house, which I refuse point blank, so he agrees to take me out for a drink, but says he'll call back to make arrangements.

Amazingly, I haven't been holding my breath waiting for his call, as something tells me that it's not coming, but what is he up to?

I mean I'm finding his behaviour really, really bizarre and bemusing.

2007-11-13 02:58:53 · 19 answers · asked by Louise H 3 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has been married four or five times. Could it be fear of commitment or something else?

2007-11-13 02:56:31 · 43 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I was in a relationship which my ex bf controls me.. a long distanced relationship.He wanted me to promise him not to talk or look at any guys, dress decently ( no short skirts, no tight shirts, no sleeves with big holes), & not to swim or play basketball. He said he was worried about me and he didnt want other guys to look at me.He even told me to dress as ugly as possible. He told me to wait for him and he'll be back to marry me.I did all that for him but in between i broke few promises. We quarelled but eventually we got over it. Then, we broke up when I only complained that he has no time for me. The reasons are I don't understand him, his family will never accept me for my character. What did I do wrong? I did all that he said & report whatever I do through sms every minute of my life. I cried for a year and now he has a gf but why did he contact me & still flirts with me? He makes me feel bad about myself when he ignores me or put me down.I still love him. Should I stay or leave?

2007-11-13 02:53:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would a guy that I was talking to and dating for 2 months make me a hit it and quit it the first time we had sex? He answers all of my text messages and the morning after we had sex he sent me a text saying he had a nice time with me last night and that we're still cool. But, everytime i ask him to hang out, he says he has to watch his son, which is a typical response from him even before we had sex. Help! What does this mean???

2007-11-13 02:53:15 · 10 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my parents. But they are relying upon me too much.

I still live with my parents. I am 32 years old. I have been sick for a long time. I have suffered from OCD all of my life. But in the past year or so, I have gotten well enough to start working. Before, I couldn't even hold down a job.

My step dad is a nice guy. He is thoughtful. But he is not going to work many days. He stays home because he is "sick." He is depressed. He has dealt with many deaths in his family. He is basically all that is left. He has a sister, but she is not close to him. She seems to be avoiding him.

My Mom is sick. She is disabled. She is capable of working part time, but she keeps staying at home and sleeping. Our kitchen is dirty- borderline filthy. I try so hard to keep the kitchen clean, but my parents don't do a lot in terms of cleaning the kitchen/house.

We have had a lot of financial problems lately. I keep having to loan them money- many many thousands of dollars. What can I do?

2007-11-13 02:51:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have been with my baby for 6 months...... he is a wereslter and he goes away to wrestle and i joke around with him about being with other girls and wanting other girls that are prettier and skinner than me. he isnt cheating but would that make you want to cheat on your gf and would that push you away and possibly runin the best thing that has happened to you? how does it make you feel and what would you say to your gf if she kept doing that?

2007-11-13 02:48:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a strong feeling that my boyfriend of 8 months has been playing me.. However, I can't prove it because he's such a good liar and he's really good at covering up everything.. he lies to everyone about little stuff that doesnt even matter (compulsive liar).. He got a new job, but its kind of far away.. i dont know which girl he's cheating on me with but i think its either of them below:

1. his sister's bestfriend (who is still in high school.. he's 20 and the bestfriend is 15/16) *this is who i really think he's cheating on me with*

2. this girl.. a "friend" from church who's "friendship" he has been hiding from me..

3. his ex (he said she cheated on him), whom i happen to know txtd him at like 3 in the morning.. and he ended up calling her and they talk for like 3 hours..

4. this girl from work that he eats lunch with.. he claims they are just friends

I have absolutely no idea how to prove it, to catch him, before i break up with him.. any ideas???

2007-11-13 02:47:39 · 35 answers · asked by aloha 2 in Singles & Dating

title says it all
iv got loads of friendsa great social life but it just has never happend for me

2007-11-13 02:43:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but you go to see him in hospital and the chick he swares he aint with is sittin there holdin his hand (she has also said they arnt together) but why would she be holdin his hand and it sounded like she'd been there all day (i had to work)

2007-11-13 02:40:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating