Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

2007-11-13 01:49:31 · 20 answers · asked by denveremail 1 in Marriage & Divorce

take a family photo with my brother and myself? They have been divorced 8 years and the last family photo I have is my high school graduation. Though they are divorced they are still both my parents and they will eventually have to see each other again at my wedding in two years but my dad is moving back up to illinois from florida in a couple weeks and I excited to finally have them both close to me again. I figured they could stand on the outside and my brother and me on the inside. oh and my mom is remarried but he sees he ex constantly because they share a 11 year old daughter together. Do you think they could possibly come together and take a picture so I can have a family photo or is that being selfish?

2007-11-13 01:48:13 · 13 answers · asked by myraxellenxamos 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone tell me why after my husband has hit my noise and squeezed the back of my neck. why i'm the one lookin for answers why he's doing this when he thinks it's b/c i nagg him on to hitting me. why am i the one still searching for his love and affection. he blames me b/c i should know that he's getting mad i should leave him alone so whatever h appens after it's my fault. but why am i so stupid to still try and understand this.

2007-11-13 01:46:30 · 21 answers · asked by Mrs. H 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do i tell my fiancee that i dont trust his best friend. His best friend is still friends with my fiancees ex and still talks to her all the time. One night he texted my fiancee to hang out with him. Then I found out he also asked my fiancees ex to hang out on the same day. To me this seems like a ploy between the friend and ex to see him again. She is totally obsessed even after not talking to him for 2 years. I know she still wants him back but the ***** needs to understand she isnt going to have him back. What do I do about the best friend though?

2007-11-13 01:46:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Just curious to hear some HONEST answers!

2007-11-13 01:42:43 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my parents, but sometimes I worry what if I don't cry what does that mean? I'm very weird, I don't cry much nor have feelings much....anyone else worry about this or feel this way?

2007-11-13 01:41:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Jeremy and I have been together for 3 years, and engaged for 2. We moved out last month, to start our life together. We had been fighting here and there, nothing to major. So I came home from work last night and he had packed all of his things and left me. Im absolutely devastated. I want him back, and want to make things work. There is so much i need to change within myself to make it work, and i know that. I just dont know what to do. Has anyone been in my situation? Did he realize what he had and come home? Did he come back to you? Any advice would be great right now. Im here, alone, I have no one. Ive been up 24 hours already. I cant sleep, I cant eat. Please help.

2007-11-13 01:40:19 · 11 answers · asked by BrittBritt212 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In the movies or on television, it seems the wife or girlfriend is always wearing a cute, silky nightgown to bed. Most women I know only wear a nightie to bed if they are trying to impress their man. Any ladies wear a nightie every night?

2007-11-13 01:38:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It is said that love entails passion, intimacy and commitment. I was just wondering if a Marriage would last even if the couple is not having sex or any passion for sex at all?

2007-11-13 01:37:01 · 22 answers · asked by CyPlans 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i miss him so so much and i have no one that can help me and everything. is there anything that helps you keep going on even if something hurts you very much. can you share that with me... please
he was my boyfriend and soon to be husband. yeah he was a few years older than me but i still loved him with all of my heart. he was 22 and i am well 16. please dont say anything about the age thing i no all about it he was to old and me to young i have heard all of that. i just want something that will make me feel better on this sad painful day of memories........

2007-11-13 01:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by Rebel Cowgirl 10/13/07 1 in Friends

my wife and i have separated - she still controls my entrire wages each month, and the new car, office cell phone, and has even asked me to let her know when i want to come and collect my things to see if its convenient for her which it rarely is. she still arrives at the office and uses it as her base and expects me to come down to the office car park to open the gate to allow her access while she is in town to save her paying parking fee's. Even when i offered her the house she still was not satisifed as she wanted me to pay half the costs of any repair work that may need done in the future. At present i'm living off my my new partner and have been for a number of months. any advice would be appreciated. ps ex wife is 15 years older than me and quite dominating.

2007-11-13 01:35:12 · 12 answers · asked by wings 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cell phone recently broke for the last time. I asked my husband a month ago if I could get a new one, he said, "next week" every week. now our house phone is shut off, becasue the bill was unpaid. He went to the grocery store for us, becasue I'm nine mos. preg. w/ back pain, and didn't get any foods for lunch. I mentioned yesterday that he left us here with no phone and no money for lunch foods. He seemed defensive because he has done this to us...10 times at least inthe last 6 mos. I'm unsure what to do. today, and when this happens again, becasue If I leave it up to him I know it will.
Help!!

2007-11-13 01:31:36 · 22 answers · asked by tenpointsgirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I havent masturbated in two weeks. Are there any benefits / drawback to continuing to do so (or not do so as the case may be). It's not that I lost my desire to do so, I just feel like "holding back" so to speak.

thx for your time.

2007-11-13 01:30:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What's the one thing you remember he or she said to you that just warmed you up inside?

2007-11-13 01:30:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 01:29:33 · 3 answers · asked by shadownurse 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 01:29:24 · 14 answers · asked by 1919 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are seperated. We have been for a month now. The dovorce was a long time coming. He was physicaly and emotionaly abusive we tried counsling and every thing but he just got more angry.

My question is I have started a relationship with another man. Nothing serious, we are just friends for now. But there is talk of something more. I feel a tad guilty about this though. My guy friend has been there through the whole process and even encouraged me to leave my abusive husband. Now you can say we are "seeing" each other. Is this too soon after? We are not even divorced yet. I feel guilty for being happy.

2007-11-13 01:28:05 · 25 answers · asked by M Rina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a boy friend that I have been with for six months. He is my first boyfriend he gave me my first kiss, took me on my first date, and he is really sweet.
1) There has been a rumor that he is gay, but I have been looking and have not seen it at all. People have said that they saw a video of him sucking dick.
2) Yesterday I told him what my mother really thinks about him and he is pissed AT ME. My mother told me that the only reason that she let me go with him is because I "wouldn't have to give up anything" because she said he is gay. I told him that I love him and don't think that he is gay but he does not listen.
3) Also yesterday he got a belly ring. Which i am okay with.
4) He has come around me with hickeys and lied a bout them.

Should I dump him and forget the relationship or should I try to bring it back from the dead.

2007-11-13 01:27:45 · 39 answers · asked by Ariella333 3 in Singles & Dating

THIS WAS MY ORIGINAL QUESTION:
Men.......lads night out & jealous girlfiend??
Just wondering....
Men how often do you go out with your mates drinking? ...........and why do you feel the need to see them so much......do you have lads nights as you want to be able to get away from ur girl or u just wana see your mates??

Does your girlfriend get mad/jealous? If she does how does it make you feel??
and if she doesnt does that mean you feel you can get away with cheating or you really just wana see your mates??

Pls inpart from experiences on me as i need the advice/perspective.......

LADIES:
Just wondering your perspectives?
How often do ur men go out? do you mind? do you feel like ur planning around them or they'd rather see their mates??
AGAIN ADVICE NEEDED xx

2007-11-13 01:27:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you guess correct you get the points...

need food and a drink please...

2007-11-13 01:25:07 · 18 answers · asked by Maximus_Decimus_Meridius 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 01:24:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of two years, and my soon to be husband, is 23 years old and STILL sucks his thumb! Its drving me crazy! And it seems like the more I ask him to stop, the more he gets mad and does it more. He said that he would stop once we got married, but I dont think I can wait that long, I've already been waiting for two years. So what are some helpful advice that you guys can give me to help him stop? They tried hot, nasty tasting stuff when he was younger and even that didnt work. Should I just get over it since I have already agreed to marry him, and just except it? Only serious answers only! I didnt use 5 points for smarta$$ people looking for an easy 2 points! Thank You!

2007-11-13 01:23:54 · 10 answers · asked by MayMay 4 in Family

I have two sister in laws and the three of us threw our cousin a baby shower. Our mother in law gave us $100 to split up between us. I let the other two girls just pocket it since they spent more and I hardly spent anything as I was only in charge of tableware. Well, one of my sister in laws is pregnant so my other sister in law and I threw her a party. Again our mother in law gave us $100 to split. Though this time my sister in law did not mention the $100 nor did she ask about receipts as she did the last shower. So I asked her how we were going to split up the cost of the shower. She gives me her list and costs of $185! What on earth did she buy for that much money is beyond me! I gave her my costs of $66.65. She said okay let's just call it even. Without saying anything about the $100. So since she overspent on who knows what, I don't get any of the money. I bought the stuff I bought thinking I would get reimbursed with some of the $100. What should I do?

2007-11-13 01:22:27 · 4 answers · asked by Loves Dogs 5 in Family

guys what traits do u find attractive bout girls?? name a few and tell me the best ttrait a woman can have..

2007-11-13 01:21:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will u break the relationship? or will you continue loving her since no one is perfect.

2007-11-13 01:19:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 01:18:51 · 15 answers · asked by Mullet Master 5000 4 in Singles & Dating

I have a horrible habit of snooping on my husband via the internet..I constantly search his screenames and email addresses thru search engines I have no reasons to do this to him..I have never found anything bad but I continue to do this.. I have read that the only way to stop this is to just STOP, but I get this strange kind of anxiety if I dont check or.. Prior to my marraige to him, I caught my ex cheating on the internet which is probably why I have this insecurity,.. I sure this has alot to do with my insecurity.. I dont want to do this anymore.. He doesnt deserve it..Any suggestions??

2007-11-13 01:18:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

want to take her in the back, have her get on her KNEES, and RETURN ALL OF THE FAVORS SHE OWES ME ORALLY. What do you think.

2007-11-13 01:18:28 · 17 answers · asked by Jake B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband & I got married 5 years ago after I got out of an abusive marriage.I had three little kids ,he was great and so forth.He used to be 162pds.now he's 282 and he's huge!!It's so embarressing,we go out & people look at me & him,I'm all dolled up,I'm 115pds.,long blonde hair and we get the oddest looks like 'what the heck!When he gets home from work(he's a builder & just stays on the phone all day supervising work)he plops on the bed & DOES NOT MOVE OFF OF IT except to eat dinner.I do EVERYTHING.Laundry,dinner,kids homework,bathtime,housework,yardwork,EVERYTHING.He says,"DAGGONIT he brings home the bacon THAT"S ENOUGH!Physically attraction wise he makes me want to vomit.His feet are scaly,he leaves feet crust & dried boogers in the bed and did I mention,he's HUGE!!He expects sex ALL the time!!For a man so big he has the most huge sex drive ever!!What do I do?He still stays he looks good!He only gives me food money when he's happy with me and he refuses consuling and won't listen

2007-11-13 01:16:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am a Christian woman and when I began to date my husband he was a strong Christian man. He had some down falls in life, loosing a job and not finishing up with school. And began to change. He began drinking and becoming abusive physicly and emotionaly neglectful. I do not feel he is the same person any more. He has renounced him belifes in God and says he dosn't condier himself a Christian any longer.

I have been going to counsling, yet he refuses to go with me. He says we don't really have any problems. I am afraid to talk to him. I am afraid to leave him because of the abuse.

We have only been married for 2 years. We are both in our mid 20's and have no children. I know Biblicly the only grounds for divorce is audultry. But nothing is working. I've been praying so hard and we've even tried a seperation and it was a failure.

I find myself starting to notice other men. And I feel terably guilty for that. What should I do? Is divorce ok? Will God curse me?

2007-11-13 01:15:04 · 20 answers · asked by M Rina 1 in Marriage & Divorce