Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

I have come to realize upon looking at the calendar that there are a lot of days in spring (especially May) that can be a holiday. By that I mean those holidays that change date each year like Mother's Day and Memorial Day.

What I am wondering is, did you choose your date so that it would never fall on one of those holidays, so that you would always have that one special day for the two of you? Or did you not let that influence your decision?

Also, did your birthday influence your date choice? In other words, did you try to plan your wedding to be a significant amount of time away from either of your birthdays?

2007-11-13 07:41:32 · 25 answers · asked by Galaxie Girl 6 in Weddings

we have been together for a yr and some change. there was cheating and lieing b4 :both of us:but we have been working through it! Thngs were realllly good latley. But he texts out of know where for me to delete all the guys n my phne!!! and that its ****** up when i say "dnt controll me were not married" even tho he does want to get married and start a fam. WHY is he sooo controlling and insecure??? he neeeeeverrr ever was like this b4!! he was a awesome guy who was super secure with himself! now he says ive chnged him! and i hate it!!! he wont let **** go!WHY cant i have guy friends? is it wrong to be friends with a guy and be dateing some one?? HELP how can i make it to where he isnt so insecure and can trust me? im not doing anything wrng! i love him to death!

2007-11-13 07:40:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is a long story so brace yourself.
right i used to hang around with these ppl they seemed nice so i talked to them at break and stuff then all of a sudden most of them got all boring and mean like yesterday 1 of the girls she scraped my face and made my EYE BLEED!!! i hate her soo much and im the only 1 out of the group that does cos she is always sucks up them acting all shy and stuff, its all a show, anyways, the rest of them became all distant and now we have nothing in common im a mosher and where band wristbands and stuff they they are bacically chavs,

theres only 1 person that still wants to talk 2 me and we have been friends 4 nearly 8 years or somethin and ive been talkin to another group of ppl they have alot in common with me like we like the same music etc and im sorta stuck now cos i really want 2 get 2 no these ppl cos they r really nice but my old friend still wants me to hang around with her and her friends but they normally ignore me or just take the piss HELP

2007-11-13 07:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is it ok to have a 16 yr old dating(no sexual contact) a 24 year old? they both agree not to have sex till she is 18 and he is very respectfull and mature and she is a extremely intelligent and very mature girl

2007-11-13 07:39:55 · 43 answers · asked by jamee981 2 in Singles & Dating

I just want to know what your opinion is.

2007-11-13 07:39:42 · 23 answers · asked by R.D. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 07:39:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Pray for me i have high bills i cant afford a 2 bedroom apt for me and my daughter and we cant live where we are anymore.
my boyfriend has found someone else. thought all was good

2007-11-13 07:38:08 · 30 answers · asked by jennie s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So about a week abo my girlfriend was going through my breifcase while I was out. She found a bundle of pages stapled together, they were printouts from "Mystery's" guide to "Open" conversations with woman.

Now let me frame this. I've been with this girl for 18 mths. I'm faithful but for the first 8 months of our relationship I did on-and-off date other girls, one to three dates, no big deal. We are both divorced and in our late 30's so we are adults.

When the show "the pick up artist" was on VH1 i wondered "who is this "mystery" guy and what makes him so special, so I went on www.vht.com/vspot and got to his website, just at home alone one night bored...so I register on his site and start getting weekly email sent to me beucase I guess I was interested in what they had to say - I was curious....i never read the emails, but when getting ready for a long airplane flight decide to print and read them (i didnt) so now she insits I'm a cheater and liar - am i wrong to print those

2007-11-13 07:38:07 · 8 answers · asked by SillynSanClemente 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 07:36:41 · 1 answers · asked by Soroush 1 in Friends

Help! I have a family member who has conveniently decided that she and her fiancee have decided to get married this weekend. It was so last minute (they planned this last Friday), and now she wants everyone to drop everything and be at her wedding. It is AN EXTREME inconvenience for me and I don't see why I should feel obligated to go. I want to tell her, but I know that she is going to be upset. So should I stay or should I go.

2007-11-13 07:36:22 · 9 answers · asked by peaceandlove3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 07:36:17 · 9 answers · asked by piscesbabyblue24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We seem to have alot of people asking questions about costs for things so I'm curious about how much all of you are paying (or paid) per plate for your reception.
Aside from price, what did you have (dinner, lunch, sit-down, buffet, etc), where was the reception (state or region), what day of the week, and what were the charges for tax & gratuity.
I am looking in Central PA for a Saturday and am finding lower prices around $40 per plate and looking up to $60 per plate, tax is 6% and gratuity ranges from 17% to 21%. I'm encountering same prices for 1 entree sit-down or 2 or 3 buffet options.

2007-11-13 07:36:03 · 20 answers · asked by nova_queen_28 7 in Weddings

If you wait until marriage to lose your virginity, particularly if it's the two of you, will the sex life be much better?

2007-11-13 07:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by airforcewolf 4 in Marriage & Divorce

my daughter is 3 months old...

should i stay with her dad so she grows up with both parents even thou i think of and want to be with another man and am miserable in my relationship?


or will she be a better off child with me being a happy person even thou i'm not with her dad?

2007-11-13 07:33:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't mean family members or your kids thats just obvious.

2007-11-13 07:28:55 · 17 answers · asked by louise d 6 in Friends

2007-11-13 07:27:42 · 3 answers · asked by Lena W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

heya yahoo answerers!
this is the repost with the link!
somethins been gripping at my mind for a minute now..

that one qwuestion everyones scared to ask these days..

AM I UGLY??

all me life my family has told me "oh your so handsome!" and "got a girl yet son?" lol and im just wondering why NO GIRLS have ever said it. and i know that if a girl thinks u look good, they will tell u (thts how it is in my high school)

but no one has ever even brought up looks when it comes to me. i havent had a girlfriend ever and its kinda puzzling that if im so handsome and stuff why dont i have one..

just to clarify: IM NOT ONE OF THOSE OBVIOUSLY GOOD LOOKING PERSON WHO JUST WANTS SOMEONE TO TELL THEM THEY LOOK GOOD. i have a purpose lol

brutally honest comments accepted. =P

heres a pic

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=8fud4s9&s=1

2007-11-13 07:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was thinking about having the guys come into something like Men in Black and the girls maybe beautiful girls or something...suggestions welcome! However is it more traditional for them to walk in with who they walked down the aisle

2007-11-13 07:26:19 · 7 answers · asked by just me 4 in Weddings

Im talking catwalk size zero models.

2007-11-13 07:25:35 · 37 answers · asked by нαωαιιαи ιcє♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

So there is this guy that Im dating, we have been dating for over a month now and he is older by 15 years. I have always liked/dated older men. So we have another date coming up Sunday night and I have been putting off having sex with him. I want to have sex with him but then I dont want to. He says he wants us to have sex Sunday because he has been waiting too long and he doesnt want to play games. I asked what happens if we dont have sex on Sunday and he said he will look elsewhere for another gf.

Are all men like this?? I mean whats a girl to do? Sex changes everything.

2007-11-13 07:25:32 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 07:23:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A female friend of mind recently drove me and another friend up to visit our buddy at another university since she was visiting a friend of hers at the same university too. My buddy got really drunk on the way up and was really obnoxious, and he had never even met the girl before. I feel awful, because I think she wanted to stay longer, but I had to get back to work (she knew this in advance).

She is a good friend, and she lives in a sorority house. Id like to get her something to thank her for taking us up, and putting up with my friend. What should I get her and how do I give it to her without looking like I am trying to date her in front of her whole sorority house (which will inevitably tease her like crazy if it does look that way)?

2007-11-13 07:23:28 · 26 answers · asked by joey k 2 in Friends

2007-11-13 07:23:18 · 10 answers · asked by Mary O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in the process in getting married.I am about to start school in Nursing and my Husband to Be wants to be a rapper. He has been on the grind for a while now, should I let him know beforewe get married that he needsto have a fall back plan:? He does have a 9-5 job, but thats his DREAM! Should I tell him to go back to school? I dont want him to think I dont believe in him because he is REALLYYYY good. Let me knoww!

2007-11-13 07:19:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 07:18:27 · 5 answers · asked by zeekandthefam 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 07:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it better to let a man screw up and then bring up his mistake afterwards - or - stop him before he screws up?

I think a guy would feel worse if it's thrown in his face afterwards. But, I also think if it's brought up before hand, he'll just brush it off or get offended for a woman even thinking he could screw up.

2007-11-13 07:14:00 · 11 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 07:11:44 · 5 answers · asked by milky way 3 in Friends

lace are leather. silk, to wear for christmas for my husband

2007-11-13 07:11:22 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont answer the phone and then when he comes over i turn the tv and what not off and act like nobody is here. the only time i will deal with him is if my husband is home from work. does this make me a really bad person?

2007-11-13 07:09:02 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce