this is a long story so brace yourself.
right i used to hang around with these ppl they seemed nice so i talked to them at break and stuff then all of a sudden most of them got all boring and mean like yesterday 1 of the girls she scraped my face and made my EYE BLEED!!! i hate her soo much and im the only 1 out of the group that does cos she is always sucks up them acting all shy and stuff, its all a show, anyways, the rest of them became all distant and now we have nothing in common im a mosher and where band wristbands and stuff they they are bacically chavs,
theres only 1 person that still wants to talk 2 me and we have been friends 4 nearly 8 years or somethin and ive been talkin to another group of ppl they have alot in common with me like we like the same music etc and im sorta stuck now cos i really want 2 get 2 no these ppl cos they r really nice but my old friend still wants me to hang around with her and her friends but they normally ignore me or just take the piss HELP
2007-11-13 07:40:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Dump the psychotic wench and her sheep like a bad doner kebab. Keep the one who has been friends with you for eight years (people that stick around that long are hard to find) apologize if its required, she will try to understand what you went through.
Good luck
AC
2007-11-13 07:51:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of life is change. If the dynamics between you and your friends change, let it. Fighting it will be more stress than it's worth. Trust yourself that you won't lose the friendship with the one girl; make sure she understand that the lines of communication between you two are open and free.
If you've found yourself disconnected and an opportunity comes to reconnect, DO IT! You will change and grow for the rest of your life; opinions you hold strongly now may not mean a single thing to you in three or four years. Don't fight the changes you will be put through or the discovery of who you are. If you've 'grown out of' a group of friends, (or, they've outgrown you - it is a two way street), you shouldn't feel guilt or condemnation for finding more appropriate relationships to cultivate.
Trust who you are; you're the only one that knows what you're doing!
2007-11-13 07:49:08 · answer #2 · answered by arows1faith 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been friends with this girl for nearly 8 years then she should understand that her friends really arn't your thing and shouldn't get hurt if you want to hang out with a new group of friends.
As for the one who scratched your eye... I've met a fare few of those type of girls they think they're the big I AM but sooner of later everyone will see through her and she'll be left the loser.
2007-11-13 07:52:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 41 and this is something I exprienced when I was in school, but no one was physical with me. However, I hope what I have learned in my life recently will help you.
1) You need to be OKAY with YOU. This means not NEEDING anyone to accept you because you need to accept you for you. So, if someone does not want to talk to you, you must say (in your head) "I am okay with me". Once you say this often enough to yourself (even do it in the mirror at home), you will eventually break the habit of needing acceptance of others regardless of your interest in getting to know them. The best thing about this is God accepts you for you.
2) Don't be down on yourself or be too hard on yourself. It is not your fault or responsibility how others react or act. Just be responsible for yourself and your actions.
3) Associate yourself with ppl who are positive, like you. Ppl who are there for you no matter what. Hang with those who are comfortable with you, and you with them.
Hope that helps you.
All the best!!
2007-11-13 07:50:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with your friend, say that as much as you love being with her, her friends are not yours and that you need your own group too. You can still hang out with her but this way you dont have to hang around with what sound like a group of idiots if a girl hit you.
2007-11-13 07:44:35 · answer #5 · answered by becky w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what is the problem here? Hang out with the new crowd & hang with your friend of 8 years once in a while too.
2007-11-13 07:44:46 · answer #6 · answered by Jennield 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say move on and hang out with the other friends...yeah so what you been hanging out with the other group...its time to get new friends...well thats what i think on that matter...its really up to you and what you really want to do...just think about this do you really want to hang around ppl who just ignore and act like you are not there or do you want to hang with ppl who have common things with you and are cool to hang around with...
2007-11-13 07:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-24 04:20:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people just change, you may have been in a faze where they were fun and now there not. It's always ok to have different friends and if you have been friends with this girl for that long, you should be able to have separate friends and still have your own friendship.
2007-11-13 07:49:51 · answer #9 · answered by lambertj68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for the new ones - why would you want to hang out with ppl that ignore you n e way - if your one friend wants to hang out with you so bad - she will divide her time between your old friends and new friends
2007-11-13 07:45:09 · answer #10 · answered by Kalli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋