Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

My fiance really wants a poker game after our wedding reception (same place) and since I also play poker I figured it would be fun. But it seems like that's all he's focused on. The reception is outdoors, it's this Saturday, and I think it'll be too windy and cold. But, he has his heart set on it. I'm afraid of many things... of cards flying off into the dark, people shivering, and mostly of myself being left in a corner once I'm busted. I also think they'll end up having it at the usual place (his friends house) and my fiance will end up spending the evening playing poker than spending his wedding night with me. What do you all think? Men, would you ever do that?

2007-11-13 05:16:08 · 18 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Weddings

for the last 12 years i have bought my husband guns for christmas well today he came in and told me that were he put the guns to hide them and that they where not there he told me someone stole them well sense the where in my name (im the one that actually purchased them ) i called the police to report them stolen not evena half an hour later the cop calls me and asked for me and my husband to come over to the police station he wanted too ask us some questions we get over there and he takes my hussband to a different room and then the come out and my husband tells me that him and my cousin tookthem and sold them i need advice on how to handle this we have been together for 13 years know and married for 12 we have raised 3 adopted kids and have 2 children of our own to still raise and yes i bought them for him but he sold them without telling me and then lied to me and made me file a false police report. what should i do. ADVICE PLEASE

2007-11-13 05:15:52 · 25 answers · asked by sissyj25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Been married for 8 years (2 kids ages 8 & 6). I've known my husband has been cheating on me with different people but I didn't do anything about it. I just figured it was me with the problem. This made my self esteem drop. About 2 years ago I decided it was time to put myself first. I started jogging and taking care of myself. I had/have a whole new outlook. Then I had an affair myself. Nothing too serious although I would like it to be and the other guys doesn't (thats a whole diff. issue). I kicked my husband out of the house and filed for divorce. My husband is crushed and I feel guilty. He's the one who began this whole thing by having numerous affairs and broke me down to nothing until I finally got back to my true self. We've tried councilors but we cant get rid of ill feelings toward each other. I can't stand him. He plays games and is very controlling. How do I stop him from constantly hurting me? Threating me, following me, accusing me of things that are not true?

2007-11-13 05:14:01 · 28 answers · asked by toobusy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I said to this girl that i like, that she has to dance with me to a specfic song and she said she will dance with me. Is this a good sign that she may be interested in me?

2007-11-13 05:13:05 · 1 answers · asked by Bobby 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I both work, me fulltime and him part time and going to school I don't go to school. We live together in an apartment, both 20. Needless to say, we have to keep our apartment clean somehow! Now, I grew up being made to do the dishes, and I HATE it. I've asked him to do it, and he used to be okay with it, but now he won't anymore. That's really the only thing I ever ask him to do, aside from taking the trash out sometimes. We take turns cooking dinner and things like that. I clean the rest of the place, wipe down counters, clean the litterbox (we have 2 cats), vaccuum, clean the toilet and shower, do the laundry, etc. I'm not trying to make myself out to be a saint here, because I don't do everything every day. Nor do I expect him to. But I think asking him to do the dishes 3-4 times a week isn't asking too much...but he does. He seems to be under the impression he should come home and sit on his computer all night (see details for more information).

2007-11-13 05:12:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This grl I like A LOT texted me this morning because she needed a ride to school because her car door wouldn't close. Despite being about 30 min from where she was I drove down and picked her and her friend up. They both sat in the back seat which made it seem like I was a taxi driver:( I really like this girl and she knows it. I feel bad though because when I picked her up I thought I was just driving her to school but we ended up driving around for a while. I didn't mind it, but finally because I didn't want to just drive around wasting gas I said I didn't feel like driving anymore, she said she wanted to be dropped off at her car and despite the door I guess they drove her car to school. I said sorry in a text after I left but she didn't respond:( We have been friends for 2 years but ever since she turned 18 and got a car things aren't the same, she barely ever calls me anymore and I don't see her much anymore:( Did I screw up this morning by not wanting to drive anymore?
thx

2007-11-13 05:12:22 · 7 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to figure out what to buy my 14 yr old neice for xmas?
I have no idea what teenage girls are into, besides all the things I cannot contribute to. I am 39 and a little out of touch here.
Mike...

2007-11-13 05:12:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I never knew my biological father and just today I met my real father's sister (my aunt), and her daughter (my cousin). I am just shocked at how we met by coincidence. I started thinking about my life and who my real father is and am wondering would my life be happier if my bilogical dad was involved. I always wanted to know who he was and never met him in my life. Was wondering on people's opinions? People who have been through what I"ve been through and do u think my life will change or would have changed if he was in my life?

2007-11-13 05:10:16 · 15 answers · asked by Txgirl23 4 in Family

A co worker and myself were involved in a conversation about his ex girlfriend. The conversation was coming to an end when he asked me, When are you going to leave your boyfriend? I was shocked. Is this a way for him to plant himself in my thoughts or a way of making me think about my life choices. We have a great relationship, we like each others company and can talk for hours.

2007-11-13 05:07:22 · 11 answers · asked by bobby_love_kali 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has told me several times that he would love to see me give another man oral sex. I know this is a common fantasy, but I don't understand what the pleasure would be. Curiosity? I'm hurt because I want him to have the attitude of "she's all mine", but he says that is not the issue and he knows I'll never leave him. Can anyone explain why this would turn him on?

2007-11-13 05:06:29 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met him online. We have been talking for almost a year and half, I like everything about him, He is so perfect to me, I don't kow why but he intrigues me and makes me smile, even when I am so sad I cry. I get excited when I hear form him and I dream of him sometimes, I haven't met him or heard his vioce, All I see is his writing and one picture, I think I am going crazy, I don't want to tell him but I really want him to know, Just in case he feels the same way, But I don't want to scare him off, What should I do?

2007-11-13 05:05:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i've never bn to a strip club b4 and my boyfriend claims he han't neither,,so i told him i wanted to go and i was gonna buy him a lap dance...and he got really dissapointed that i would do that....anywayz so my ? is girls:would you take your boyfriend to a strip club????would you buy him a lap d..???

Guys:would you take your girl to a male strip club???would you let your girl buy YOU a lap d...(in a female strip club ofcourse =)?????would you buy your girl a lap dance(in a male strip club)

2007-11-13 05:03:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in a relationship with a married man. It just started. To make matters worse he’s my boss. He says he’s really not happy, never wanted to get married, and is not in love, but he wanted to do the right thing when she got pregnant, but now he wants out and it hasn't even been a year for them. I feel bad for liking this man. I feel bad for his wife. But when we are together, feeling bad is not what’s on our mind however, we never have had sex. We go out in public together, we kiss and hold hands in public and he just doesn’t seem to care about her. Should I end this to be the bigger person and for the sake of his marriage?

2007-11-13 04:59:55 · 78 answers · asked by THe T 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 04:56:36 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's been a long time...just curious.

2007-11-13 04:56:13 · 19 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Singles & Dating

my friend got married 2 days ago but no blood came out when he had sex with his virgin wife..does it mean she is not a virgin?omg

2007-11-13 04:54:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am desperate to figure this out. a girl in a kickboxing class I take is wonderful and I'm very into her. I get very good vibes and she talks, smiles and shares with me. But.. she mentioned having a BF weeks ago indirectly.. saying she wouldn't be in class on such an such a day because she needed to get her BF from the airport. Then never hear a word about him again. She likes when we work together and gets a little forgetful and giddy when we do things. When our eyes meet, in all honesty, it's like magic and I know she feels it too.. I'm sure of it. ok, my problem is that I don't want to ask her out in fear of making her uncomfortable if she really isn't interested. I talk to her briefly after classes for a couple of minutes about stuff like her school, job etc.. but never mention BF or anything. what should I do, I'm a grown man and feel like an idiot, but I don't want to blow anything if there is a chance and there might not be.

2007-11-13 04:51:38 · 6 answers · asked by chinesemetaldog 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i had this dream that i was at my mother in laws house and i was with my sister in law and we where talking we where sitting on the couch in the living room and i know we started to argue but i dont know what about lol. then she punched me in my face and well i went crazy at her, i was punching her in her face and pulling her hair.
WTF??? seriosly this is really wierd.

Not im my dream: But lately shes been changing so much shes bad now, and well the last time we where talking i remember we where sitting in the kitchen and i was like man im tired (me and my fiance went to a casting for my son it was a long drive and to look for parking, and too look where in heck was the casting we where running around all over the place it was crazy) and she was like why are you tired but she asked me like really rude, and i was like why are u mad and she was like because my mom grounded me and i was like well thats not my fault and not my problem, get mad at your mom not me.

2007-11-13 04:50:50 · 8 answers · asked by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥ஜღMRS.STARღஜ♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 5 in Family

We started out as friends, started messing around and then he dumped me for somebody else, told him we could still be friends though. Was really hurt, but got over it. We were both pretty passive during the 5 months we were seeing eachother. Talked everyday from the moment we became friends and when he started seeing this other girl he just stopped calling me out of nowhere. When I asked why he stopped calling and if he met somebody else, he told me. After that he did contacted me a few times asking for stupid favors, but when I contacted him he stoped calling, agian. Never returned my last message. Then out of no where, a month later texted me asking for another favor. Should I return his message? Hes my neighbor too.

2007-11-13 04:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by Hun 3 in Singles & Dating

A year and a half ago i purchased 3 acres of land from my sister for 30,000.00. this was the same piece of land my parents GAVE to her. included in the deal was that she would give 9,000.00 cash back to me to pay for my divorce and she would heep the remaining 21,000.00. needless to say i never got my 9,000.00 she walked away with 30g and basically said too bad. on this piece of land was a small storage shed with a bedroom set in it. i gave the bedroom set to my 3 year old son. i have not spoke to my sister since this happened. now she calls and says she wants the bedroom set that was left in the storage shed. i told her i would sell it to her for 9,000.00. now both of my parents are upset with me?????????? am i nuts or????

2007-11-13 04:41:49 · 20 answers · asked by hhhmmmmm?? 2 in Family

I'm 25, husband 28, married 3 months. He's TOTALLY not into sex- once or twice a month at most, and I would much rather more often. He says he can't get turned on by me b/c I don't listen to him, but I think that's a crock. His sex drive has been almost nothing for almost two years now, and he likes to tell me that I'm unusual for wanting sex as often as I do. Which, btw, is two or three times a week. Started a huge fight the other day because I realized he was masturbating in the shower while I was waiting for him to go out. I'm very pissed that he has a sex drive for his own hand and not for me....any advice?

2007-11-13 04:39:51 · 44 answers · asked by lovebluenfluff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

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Plez plez help
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2007-11-13 04:38:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-13 04:37:43 · 9 answers · asked by Luv-Yarn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been living together for 7 months. I have 2 kids from my previous marriage and he has grown children. He doesn't want to take care of children because he has already raised his kids. My kids live with their dad and I have them every Saturday evening and every Sunday afternoon and during school breaks. He complains about the visitation schedule. When they are over I work hard to make sure that my kids don't bug him. I feel like I am leading 2 seperate lives and I am being torn in two pieces. I bend over backwards to make my life fit into his busy life. Why can't he just give me this one thing so that I don't feel guilty? When does this get to be about me?

2007-11-13 04:37:23 · 63 answers · asked by southernfocus 1 in Family

My sister in law and nephew moved in 2 months ago because of some lifes mysteries. Wife told me that it would tempory, but i say it is time to go. they have only given money for 1 month been living this month as to what i consider free. Now the nephew has his girlfriend staying over to late at night. Is it me when i sya its time go or i am just being selfish?

2007-11-13 04:37:12 · 4 answers · asked by REBEL 1 in Family

2007-11-13 04:33:15 · 21 answers · asked by texasmuisc 1 in Singles & Dating

I have all of the outfits, such as a schoolgirl outfit. I have tons of them, do you think that my man would like it if I dressed up in them for him?

2007-11-13 04:33:00 · 18 answers · asked by Brittany 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 04:31:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you ever been got checking out a younger male? Either in the workplace or in a public spot? What happened?


I'm 6'1 235 athletic built - age 25 latino

2007-11-13 04:30:12 · 6 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you keep your nails done and long if your boyfriend really liked you having them ?

2007-11-13 04:29:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating