A co worker and myself were involved in a conversation about his ex girlfriend. The conversation was coming to an end when he asked me, When are you going to leave your boyfriend? I was shocked. Is this a way for him to plant himself in my thoughts or a way of making me think about my life choices. We have a great relationship, we like each others company and can talk for hours.
2007-11-13 05:07:22 · 11 answers · asked by bobby_love_kali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is just testing your dedication to your boyfriend and see if he can go deeper into your relationship given the fact that he is single. you have a boyfriend and you have to stay faithful to him, if he can see that you cannot stick to your man given a little temptation, what impression would give him? I maybe wrong, maybe it was just an innocent question, ask him next time "why are you asking?" the next time he ask, see if he can give a good answer, good! if not, well dont bother it at all. you are not even sure of what he feels about you.
2007-11-13 11:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by Krizia ^_^ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously likes you. He does not see your friendship as a standard friendship. It sounds like you guys are emotionally intimate and he has developed feelings for you. I think if you look at your relationship with him objectively you can see why he would feel this way.
If you are in a committed relationship, you need to be very careful with the type of friendships you develope with the opposite sex, or you are just asking for trouble.
2007-11-13 13:14:15 · answer #2 · answered by potus37 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was an half *** attempt at a joke, with the possibility of trying to see if you are a faithful person to your B/F. So Just take it as a lame try at a pick up line.
2007-11-13 13:12:07 · answer #3 · answered by steven c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a boyfriend & what this guy was trying to do is because he's singlwe he thinks everyone should be. But you two get along, so he figures if your both single, you could be together
2007-11-13 13:12:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made a pass at you, unless you've been expressing problems with your relationship that would cause him to believe you are making bad life choices.
2007-11-13 13:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What it means is the fact that hes into you enough to gamble, and ask you that kind of question. Because of the connection you two have. Good luck
2007-11-13 13:15:04 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos de La Vega 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well id have to ask you did you tell him something about your bf to make him think you should leave him ?! if not maybe he was trying to strkie up more convo w/you or maybe being funny but i don't think this means anything else..don't read too much into things!
2007-11-13 13:13:43 · answer #7 · answered by Joy'Cee's Mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh! typical co-workers. ever heard about not including personal life with work?
and also, are you happy with your bf? cos it shouldn't matter what your co-worker said.
2007-11-13 13:14:18 · answer #8 · answered by sweetsurrender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just an idiot thats all if you have a good relationship be happy
2007-11-13 13:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Hirako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
step up... start hanging out with him... if you like his company... now beware of the friend zone
2007-11-13 13:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋