2007-11-13 04:31:23 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
unplug the TV
2007-11-13 04:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by searching for friends 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do what I did and I guarantee success:
When my husband got home, I was not there. When I did arrive, I was in a GREAT mood, smiling, happy. He kept asking "What are you so happy about". Then I went and took a shower and got all dressed up. At this point, I don't think he wanted me to leave the house:) I looked damn good. So then I said I was going out to run some errands. He must have called me 10 times while I was out. I came home all happy and excited and talkative. I swear I have not had a problem with his attention since then!!
So the lesson is that sometimes we just take for granted and ignore what we have. Sometimes a little reminder that we are still wanted, and attractive and fun to be around will do the trick. Try your own version of this, its fun to see their reaction.
2007-11-13 04:41:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I agree with Laladore's response. You need to tell him you feel he is is not giving you enough attention (do it in a way that doesn't sound whiny) and talk about things you can both do together to change things. By running around naked, etc. like other people suggested, you will get attention, but it will only be for that moment and won't solve the problem.
2007-11-13 04:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Bears Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the book The proper care and feeding of husbands by Dr. Laura.............Men need the 3 A's Attention,affection and appreciation. and lots of sex. He will soon give you attention before you know it.
2007-11-13 04:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cook for him something special on sunday.He will tell you that he loved your cooking.Then tell him what you will cook on monday or maybe he would like something els.
Then at night have some special dish before he goes to sleep.Serve it ,wearing a special dress and use a good perfume.Remember you are his soulmate.You know what he needs.Be selfconfidence
2007-11-13 05:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by sol 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
I told my husband and he didnt realize he was paying less attention to me.
bring it to his attention
Dont play games.. this is a real relationship...
commuicate your feelings
2007-11-13 04:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by loladoreen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get involved in something he likes. I love Football and my gf is starting to watch Football with me. She wants to understand the game... now when something bad happens to the team that we want to win she is jump up and down getting all worked up and I love that we share something as easy as watching Football. It can be anything just get involved with something he likes. That doesn't work... try going nude. lol. Best of luck.
2007-11-13 04:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by L A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You give yourself more attention and become a little more interesting. Men like the chase. Why chase what they already have. Change yourself a little and let the new chase begin! :)
2007-11-13 04:49:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Walk around naked. That gets more attention than anything. Also, talk to him and tell him you need more attention. Words are sometimes better than actions. And actions can speak better than words. (wink)
2007-11-13 04:35:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about paying him more attention? He will return the favor.
2007-11-13 04:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Fishgutts 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously most women here think the only way to get a mans attention is sex, i guess they assume men dont have brains and dont like to be challenged with intelligence or conversation. sad how really very dumb some women here are.
2007-11-13 04:48:57 · answer #11 · answered by not this way 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋