Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

My bf and I have been togther for a long time, we live together for 3 yrs with his parents & his other 2 brothers. Him and i love each other very much, but his father hates me, in fact he always swears at me, screams, pushes me around. If i cook something he will appreciate me for 5 min and than go bk to his old habits. He doesn't respect me, he says i don't do mch around the house but i study and work all day long and so tired in the end, that i cannot stand on my feet at the end of the day. My bf says that his father is just like that all his life, and i shld simply comply and always say "yes" while being obidient. For now he says we cant move out, we shld move out later in about a year and have all the probms solved. Our mutual income is $10000CAD but he says we can't afford to live on our own. I am not sure if he is protecting me or he is never ready to move out. I feel misarable infront of his dad, but he says i have to cope. I askd him to talk to his dad, but he says it's useles

2007-11-13 06:22:22 · 6 answers · asked by Kate V 1 in Singles & Dating

right my friend was not nice to me but that is forgotten now but now she is doing it again she does not ask me if i want to go out or have a sleep over or stuff like that she goes of with this girl not in school though out of school but i get the feeling that the girl does not like my friend but likes me better. some people do not like my friend she does't even look nice but that has nothing to do with it .she thinks seh it it when she is clearley not so what can i do i need help !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-11-13 06:22:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

or there is always a hidden sexual interest ?????

2007-11-13 06:21:43 · 12 answers · asked by ....................... 7 in Singles & Dating

Me an one of my ex's have been broken up for a few months now and he never really contacts me ever..And the wierd thing i had a dream about him that he changed and was maturing... at first i started to contact him... but i decided not too... so i spoke to his mom and his mom let me know he was doin well and told me that he wasn't envolved and any serious relationships and that he wasn't getting married and she was Glad then to my surprise the same week he emails me asking how i was doin and said luv ya and god bless... and that was strange for me cause he never emails me... and he hasn't used the words luv ya in a sentence at all since we broke up so my question was i wanted to know if you thought he was thinking about me and possibly had some romantic feelings towards me? and the strange thing is i wrote him back telling him how i was doin and to close the letter i only put god bless instead of luv ya and god bless and he didn't reply.... what do you think?

2007-11-13 06:21:04 · 29 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Singles & Dating

Need a country song to dance to... but not well-learned in country music. Just starting to get into it. Any suggestions of recent hits that would work, or old ones that aren't too mushy?

2007-11-13 06:19:38 · 42 answers · asked by Avelyn 4 in Weddings

2007-11-13 06:17:18 · 49 answers · asked by Scott 1 in Singles & Dating

I am new to this school and have her for a class. i have walked her to a couple classes. Recently one of her friend that doesnt know me just started being nice, probably because she told her. so I would like to know if she told her friends that she likes me and that why they are being nice

2007-11-13 06:15:03 · 20 answers · asked by junior 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a 4 year old daughter and her father is in jail for stabbing someone and wants to see her and share joint custody!! he was never much of a father to her and he has been gone for 3 years and 6 months!!!! im not with him and i dont think he should be able to see her! its was his choice to go to jail not hers!!!! she doesnt even know him!! she calls my boyfriend of 3 years daddy!!! what is the best choice here?

2007-11-13 06:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by wnzlncl 1 in Family

2007-11-13 06:06:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not gonna go into too much detail as its in my other questions....if your gonna answer you need to know the background so read them.

Anyway tonight when I got in from work 2 of my b'friends mates were in and I was so tired that I blurted out I was pregnant! I thought they would completely back off and leave me alone but it has made no difference. In fact one of them said well at least we can't get you pregnant then my b'friend came in and it starts all over again...

I'm now havin a drink most nights too as this makes me feel better and I even enjoy all the attention then but am sure its down to alcohol?

2007-11-13 06:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married in a few months and recently decided it would be fun, personal and cheaper for my mother and myself to make my cake.

so I have a few Questions:

1. what flavor/type would you reccommend?
2. when you go taste testing at shops, do they charge you? would I be able to go taste testing and then write down the flavor and research the recipes?
3. are cake decoarting classes expensive &/or worth it?
4. if you made your own cake--di you regret it and whatwould you recommend?

people answering who have personal exp would be great--thanks for the help!!!

2007-11-13 06:04:52 · 12 answers · asked by CaliGirl760 1 in Weddings

but when he found out she was leaving him he said he was just trying to hurt her, she says she doesnt think she is staying with him but doesnt know and wont till he gets home from iraq tonite.he has always done thesekinds of things to her what should she do?

2007-11-13 06:02:55 · 20 answers · asked by Texas in my soul 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 06:00:24 · 17 answers · asked by Amy G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My exbf's girlfriend keeps calling me on a private number. She's leaving threatening voicemails, and even though I ignore her phone calls she continues to call and leave rude voicemails.

I have done nothing to this woman to get these phone calls. My exbf obviously still has my number stored in his phone, but I haven't heard from him or even spoken to him in the past year.

Out of nowhere I'm receiving these threatening phone calls from his girlfriend.

How can I find out the phone number, even though it shows up as Private? I'd like to report her. I've saved the voicemails and documented each one.

Any suggestions as to what I should do?
Thanks for your help.

2007-11-13 05:54:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 05:54:21 · 19 answers · asked by mirrorbee 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 05:52:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex 6 months ago, I have been trying to be nice to her for the whole time. But latley shes been dissing me so now I totally ignor her, I don't even look at her when I walk by. Will this eventually get her to talk to me, ask me why I am acting that way? (Yeah it could take another 6 months)..what do yo think?

2007-11-13 05:52:04 · 14 answers · asked by Latin G 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 05:50:32 · 1 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

My mother in law drives me crazy. She has caused many problems between my husband and I and has dragged my name through the mud. My husband and I have been on the rocks with our marriage and we are deciding to work things out.. Because of this - i want nothing to do with his mother.. she is a major player to our problems so i want her away from me. Friends are telling me i am selfish because the holidays are coming up and i will not allow her in my home because she has caused me so much aggravation... am i wrong?

2007-11-13 05:49:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-11-13 05:49:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

thanks!

2007-11-13 05:46:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If someone used a training program to increase their intellgence would that be cheating or using another resource?

2007-11-13 05:44:24 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

they have 2 children together and i think it's just strange. He assures me that it's normal for them but I don't like being friendly with her. wth right? relationships are hard enough, but knowing she will always be in the picture and that he expects us to all get along, is just random. I'm ok with saying hello and stuff, but it sucks being stranded next to her at whatever event we happen to be at.
On top of that, he seems to get kinda irritated when I mention not wanting to "hangout" with her at those events. Like I'm wierd...?
am i being insecure?

2007-11-13 05:42:47 · 7 answers · asked by cales_042 1 in Singles & Dating

you know what sucks? i have been sexually active for 3 years and noone has been able to give me an orgasm. does anyone else feel my pain? this is so embarassing and i feel like some sort of freak.

2007-11-13 05:36:42 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 05:36:04 · 23 answers · asked by doinitright6 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just out of the blue I want to Arrive With a Present For MY Wife... No Birthday, No Anniversary, No Holidays, Nothing Special.. Just Out of the blue/Out of My heart Gift!

What would a woman Like?

2007-11-13 05:30:57 · 62 answers · asked by MrRight 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 28 and am literally physically ill over a break up. I've never felt anything so painful. I thought that was supposed to end with the teenage with the teenage years.

2007-11-13 05:28:23 · 20 answers · asked by Anton 3 in Singles & Dating

why do guys cheat on girls why not just break up with the person.

2007-11-13 05:27:42 · 33 answers · asked by heart_scar 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok so here's the deal- My son's father and I have been togeather for 3 years, since I was 15, he was my first everything and I love him sooo much but in the last 6 months or so we were having some problums. I came back to Jersey (where all our family is) from Michigan (where we's been living for a couple months) just for a week to see my family. Well half way through the week I found out I'm pregnant with our second child ( we have a 9 month old son) and I called him to tell and his responce was to tell me that he's in love with someone else and that he started seeing her right after i left and that he didn't want me to come back! Anyways about a month went by and then last weekend he came down here to see the baby and he told me he's moving back here and that he loves me and that it was the biggest mistake and that he was just upset. I still love him very much and I know it sounds stupid to take him back and i love him and miss him so much and have been so depressed since he left!

2007-11-13 05:20:46 · 20 answers · asked by Baby0219 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Let's say a girl doesn't like oral. How can she be convinced that it can be something good for both parties?

2007-11-13 05:20:02 · 2 answers · asked by Charles M 2 in Singles & Dating