Family & Relationships - 13 November 2007

my wife and i seperated 3 months ago, she said that we aren't right for each other, and that she isn't in love with me anymore. we have a 2 yr old daughter together, and my wife still wants us to take her places together. why does she want to do that?

2007-11-13 04:26:58 · 32 answers · asked by coldskorpiostar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at work yesterday &I saw a guy I knew.. I always thought he was cute in high school but he was with some girl for about 4 years. He asked for my number &everything so I gave it to him. Him &his girlfriend recently broke up about a week ago &he says that they are just friends now.. I really dont know what to believe.. All I know is that I've had the biggest crush on him since freshman year. I'm a sophomore in college now..

2007-11-13 04:26:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really dressed up and last night i asked him what he wanted to see me in since we haven't had time alone in 2 months he started get offensive and he said that i was trying to make him tell me what to wear and the truth is i just wanted to know what he wanted to see me in. Do you think he has a problem and he thinks that if he tells me what to wear he is too controlling?

2007-11-13 04:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For those already married. If you could go back and do the whole wedding planning thing over, what is one thing you would do differently? ,

2007-11-13 04:24:53 · 18 answers · asked by Lucky 3 in Weddings

Well there was this guy I really liked, turned out he was a jerk, but it was really out of character for him. So i always think that he'll come back to me. I haven't talked to him in a while and I'm fine about it, but sometimes I still think of him...
Well last night I dreamed that he came to visit me at my apt. like he used and he was hugging me, next thing I know we went in my bedroom and somehow Were on the floor making out, so I shut the door with my foot so my roommmates wouldn't see us. well after a while I started to take off his shirt when he said he had to go do something really quickly. well he opened the door, some annoying roommates came in my room (they weren't even my real roommates, they were random girls) and they got all comfortable. when the guy came back he just looked at them and got on my bed and told me to come lay with him. so we were just cuddling and i was just rubbing his arm and chest until he fell asleep. but then the girl in my room made a loud noise that

2007-11-13 04:24:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you stay in a relationship where you came home after a hard days work, found out that your husband had...sure, spent the day with the kids...but spent most of it sitting in front of the computer, on the phone or sleeping. That when you came home...there is a mess of dishes in the sink, the kids havent eaten yet...and that your husband had yet again spent most of the paycheck you have given him on thing he didnt need. Add that fact that you havent been intimate with him in almost 6 months because he just didnt feel it was important...yet was all your fault.
Let me ask you....how many of YOU would have a problem with that? How many of you would start to feel selfish because you want more? How many of you would start daydreaming of what its like to be in a working relationship?
How many of you would think about what life is lik on the other side of the fence?

2007-11-13 04:21:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have been married for a year and a half and we have a 3 year old son and a new baby due in January. He has another son who is 5 from a previous relationship. His mother and him are coming back for a few days and we are having a birthday party for him. The ex told my husband that when she is back she wants to talk with him for an hour or two but it has to be alone. I am really upset with this and I told my husband that I don't agree with this happening and now he is mad at me. What should I do??? Am I wrong for thinking this way??? Please help me!

2007-11-13 04:21:02 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was recently married to my boyfriend of over two years....he was married once before but this is my first marriage.....I wanted a big fairy tale wedding but he talked me into waiting "until we can afford my dream wedding" and we were married at the courthouse.......but now he's saying that since he already had the extraordinary wedding with lots of flowers and doves that he doesn't want to have a show with ours...he said he wants to show me he loves me and not have a show for everyone else to believe he loves me.....i understand but since i was a child i imagined how my wedding would be.....

Should I just let it go and live on with my courthouse ceremony or tell him that I really do want a real wedding with my family watching??????..........

2007-11-13 04:19:34 · 44 answers · asked by SINcere 3 in Weddings

Maybe you're friends with that person, you have moved on ...do you still think or hope that maybe someday things will change?

2007-11-13 04:18:03 · 14 answers · asked by Bebe 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for about 6. Since the beginning of the relationship he's always depended on me. We're both college students. I do have a weekly income, he doesn't. He refuses to find a job. He has tried a lot of places but because of his past, its difficult for him to find a job. But he did work for a company for approx. 1 1/2 before we met and I'm pretty sure he can get another position with them. But because he thinks he's too popular around campus, he refuses to apply again there for work. My past relationship has been similar to my current relationship. Am I wrong for not wanting to be with him anymore?

2007-11-13 04:17:27 · 49 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 04:16:23 · 2 answers · asked by oNe LuV 2 in Singles & Dating

i really do hate guys. they keep hurting the gurls, i loved this guy who said that i meant the world to him, i really loved him, when guys say that they love the gurl do they only say so cause they wanna get her??!! i ended up kissing this guy,my first kiss, although am so over protective, i didnt allow him to have sex with me. he asked me alot of times, the thing is now he is ignoing me, i swear i didnt do anything i called him to know what's up he said we will talk later, and he never called back i msged him and he didnt answer, he blocked me! , what the hell is that, can anybody be that heartless!!!!cant he break up with me by telling me that, instead of ignoring me in that stupid way?? what should i do?. i feel that i have been used, (he is 24 and am 20)

2007-11-13 04:16:00 · 4 answers · asked by shatha f 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-13 04:13:19 · 54 answers · asked by sweetchild 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My engagement ring seems to be too big. When my fiancé proposed, it was a size 7 and it danced around my finger and would fall off. We got it resized to a 5 ½ because that’s the ring that fit me best on my ring finger at Kays. When I got it back it still seemed too big. I’ve had it for 6 months now. Sometimes when my fingers are swollen it seems to fit just right but other times, like right now, it feels like it is going to fall off. I feel bad for not wearing it sometimes for fear of loosing it due to the obvious value it has to me and the monetary value of it. I am also afraid that if I get it down to a five it will be too small when my fingers swell and I am really scared of having a ring stuck on my finger (childhood trauma)
What would you do????
Thanks!

2007-11-13 04:12:38 · 11 answers · asked by Oli 3 in Weddings

She's been doing this since I was a kid. I noticed it when I was 9. I used to be so up beat and I used to love to talk to people. Now, I'm so damn shy. It's hard for me to make friends. I'm always second guessing my decisions. It's gottan to the point that, I can't deal with simple issues of life.

2007-11-13 04:11:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Was the answer immediate, or did you have to wait a while? I just ask this because I've been praying for a husband since I was 18, and now I'm 27, and the answer still isn't clear. I'm just wondering...serious answers only, please.

2007-11-13 04:10:52 · 29 answers · asked by sunflower 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 04:08:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-11-13 04:08:09 · 9 answers · asked by PAMELA H 2 in Singles & Dating

mainly want answers from guys..can they be attracted to a girl and only want to be friends? be honest with yourselves here..

2007-11-13 04:05:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when women talk about 'tall, dark and handsome', how tall would you want your man to be?
is it anywhere between 5,10 +, (because i am 5,10), if not please tell me whats tall,
i just turned 16 do you think i have a chance to get any taller?
thanks alot

2007-11-13 04:04:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honestly. all they're made of is pure fat. who wants to grope that??

2007-11-13 04:02:58 · 2 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating

Don't cry for me
For we will be
Reunited once again
It may be hard to leave
But you must
Get back to
Your life
It may be hard
But please
For our sake
Please don't cry
You know I love you
And we will be
Together once more
So don't shed
Those tears
For this deep sorrow
Will soon pass
You know that
I'll always
Be in your heart
And you
In mine

Here's another

This emotional pain
Is way to great
Why does it
Hurt so bad
All these
Looks of scorn
Endless
Emotional pain
It's a
deathly pain
Plucks at the
Heartstrings
Making you
Weep at
Every little thing
Why does it
hurt so bad
When I'm torn
This way
I cry for
The emotional pain
For it is
Too great
To bear

2007-11-13 04:02:51 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-11-13 04:01:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

And in trying to attain these rights, they become nags.

2007-11-13 03:58:14 · 10 answers · asked by Neil 7 in Singles & Dating

So I had a friend in my wedding over a year ago and she was a pain in the BUTT!! She got engaged a last march, she called me and said " You have one year to look the way you want to look in a bridesmaid dress for my weddding." I was 7.5 months pregnant at that time. So I know that is what she meant, but that is how she "asked" me to be in her wedding. To make things worse, I have never even MET her fiance and she is planning on having her wedding Memorial weekend next year which will be my daughters 1st b-day and the ONLY time we can have my side and my husband's side of the family all together to celebrate. She has only seen my daughter 1 time since she was born 5 1/2 months ago and I haven't even talked to her. She hasn't mentioned the wedding recently, so I am hoping she forgot that she asked me because I just can't be in it....if she does bring it up or call me about it, how do I say sorry no thanks??? HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-11-13 03:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So, here is the story. My "so called" other half, has been lying to me the entire 4 years of our, "lie of a relationship". Lets call him BOB (just in case hes on yahoo) ANYHOOT, he involved all my friends including family, and even his parents in this lie. A good friend (not anymore) of mine from years ago told me about it, she said she helped him by introducing him to mutual friends of ours and snuck behind my back, protecting and helping him lie with spreading the news not to tell me about it. Mind you, I am a grown women (child play). Yeah so, my "so called" friends and family betrayed me and for the record, I am a better women therefore, there is no need to confront these excuse's for humans. I know what I found out is true and I honestly don't feel it's necassary to bring this matter to the table, only to hear a cover up lie, plus, I don't want to waste my breath on any of them. How can, or what can I use to break up with him without lying, nor giving any clues on why?

2007-11-13 03:54:37 · 30 answers · asked by Little big brains 3 in Friends

Also do they keep the wording formal, ie Mr & Mrs Smith, given that they have never met them?

2007-11-13 03:53:35 · 10 answers · asked by Ellie 2 in Weddings

2007-11-13 03:50:48 · 47 answers · asked by Clubpenguin 1 in Marriage & Divorce

At Thanksgiving I am planning to make a scene and kick everyone out by the time dinner is about to be served... This way I get all the turkey and all the drunk bastards are out of my house...

2007-11-13 03:45:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

to make your self not bored as much ???

2007-11-13 03:42:21 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends