i am really dressed up and last night i asked him what he wanted to see me in since we haven't had time alone in 2 months he started get offensive and he said that i was trying to make him tell me what to wear and the truth is i just wanted to know what he wanted to see me in. Do you think he has a problem and he thinks that if he tells me what to wear he is too controlling?
2007-11-13 04:25:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HaHa.. no.. guys get mad over little stuff like that easily. Just blow it off and next time go by your gut instincton what he'd like to see you in.
Another point could be.. maybe he's like my boyfriend and he thinks you look great how you always are. I put on sweats and my hair in a just-got-out-of-the-shower pony tail and he thinks I'm the hottest girl in the world. And trust me.. he's still just as attracted to me. :)
Don't stress.. he just got aggravated because he loves you and doesn't want you to stress over the little things. No big.
P.S. My boyfriend always gets mad when I take forever trying to look good for him. He'd rather me be ready sooner so he can spend more time with me than for me to take forever getting all prettied up and have less time with him.
2007-11-13 04:30:42 · answer #1 · answered by Proud New Mommy! :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both the men I'm dating are equally attracted to me whether I'm dressed to the nines or if I'm dressed like a bum. One of them admits he likes to see me wearing different things, not because he's attracted to me more that way, but because it's exciting to him to see something out of the ordinary.
2007-11-13 12:36:06 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my mind set I thinking oh maybe she wants me to suggest to wear something sexy so we both can have fun. I think he thinks he is "" controlling you
2007-11-13 12:30:26 · answer #3 · answered by ViperKilla 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well not really knowing your personality....to me he just sounds like a dumbazz. The only person you need to please is yourself. I would just dress as makes you happy, and unless he has a complaint about something, then just let it be.
2007-11-13 12:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didnt want to sound controlling and wanted you 2 suggest clothes so he can say yes or no!! i dont think he has a problem...maybe he just didnt want you to think he was controllin!!! just ask him and c if ur confused xxx
2007-11-13 12:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea that is a bit controlling. and yes, we like it when girls dress up and get pretty for us (even if it is a gf).
2007-11-13 12:29:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋