Well there was this guy I really liked, turned out he was a jerk, but it was really out of character for him. So i always think that he'll come back to me. I haven't talked to him in a while and I'm fine about it, but sometimes I still think of him...
Well last night I dreamed that he came to visit me at my apt. like he used and he was hugging me, next thing I know we went in my bedroom and somehow Were on the floor making out, so I shut the door with my foot so my roommmates wouldn't see us. well after a while I started to take off his shirt when he said he had to go do something really quickly. well he opened the door, some annoying roommates came in my room (they weren't even my real roommates, they were random girls) and they got all comfortable. when the guy came back he just looked at them and got on my bed and told me to come lay with him. so we were just cuddling and i was just rubbing his arm and chest until he fell asleep. but then the girl in my room made a loud noise that
2007-11-13 04:24:29 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
woke him up and disrupted our time together! I was so mad that I yelled at the girl (but in a whispered way) and forced her out. then i shut the door and locked it...then my alarm went off!!!!
but that was my dream...what should I think of it?
I'm an 18 year old college freshman if that has anything to do with it
2007-11-13 04:25:04 · update #1
leeane I asked a question!
i said what should i think of this dream?
2007-11-13 04:28:28 · update #2
wow weird dream...sounds like you want alone time with him...no interruptions. You always want the person you cant have or the person who was a jerk. Good luck_
2007-11-13 04:28:24 · answer #1 · answered by Chickybabe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you had this dream because you still have some feelings for him and because of his behavior you are being blocked from expressing these feelings. That would be why the girls in your dream were in the way of you two being alone. If you want to try and start a relationship with him, I would suggest calling him and seeing how he acts. Ask to hang out some time and don't judge his character by just one occasion. Hang out with him a few times and try to identify his true self. If he's right for you, things will eventually work out. If not, you'll see that you don't like his personality and ways and you will have an easier time getting over him. I wish you the best of luck.
2007-11-13 04:30:44 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Kym♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good job discribing your problem, couldnt have done better. Your getting emotions seem to be confused/jelous/scared, your confused about what he does when hes not with you, jelous thinking he does things behind your back, and scared that you 2 might not last. This is really common. The only way to pass this is to go to your bf and tell him everything you want to know, and go with what ever your gut brings along, if you feel u 2 wont last long, break up with him instead of struggling with a relationship and in the end, you get hurt badly. Just end it if all isnt going well, if it is after the talk, then im glad i could help you and i hope u 2 last a really long time.
2007-11-13 04:31:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe deep down you think your time together has been interupted and short. From closing the door while you made out...maybe you wanted to keep it a closed relationship but, when he opened the door, he wanted to keep his options opened...personally iI say if he was acting like a jerk, and in your dreams let those annoying girls in your room, MOVE ON!!!
You don't need another person to make you whole.
2007-11-13 04:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by bbcthatsme15 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's just a dream ~ that's all. You say it was "out of character" for him to be a jerk. I am not trying to be harsh here, but it sounds as if he wasn't that into you & didn't have the balls to tell you directly ~ so he acted like a jerk, sometimes that is what people do to get out of relationships when they can't be honest with their partner.
Enjoy the dream for what it was, then let it go.
2007-11-13 04:31:01 · answer #5 · answered by vanilmil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, most of the time the people who appear in your dreams aren't really even the people they look like. Perhaps the reason you had the dream is you're looking for someone to be close with, but something in you is preventing you from being able to have a relationship or preventing you from being able to get close to someone. What is your past history with relationships? Not just the person in your dream...
2007-11-13 04:33:21 · answer #6 · answered by Erin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hoping you won't think my answer is 'immature' but come on, that was a dream. He wasn't actually making those choices or making out with you, or falling asleep in your bed. Sounds like you are hung up on him, bigtime. If it 'turned out he was a jerk' then he doesn't deserve you wasting this much energy and time over him, let alone writing to yahoo about your dreams of him.
2007-11-13 04:29:47 · answer #7 · answered by lucy garterbelt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sympathise with you. dreams are your minds ways of trying to deal with all the stuff rattling around. your subconcious is prob saying something about the situation but don't over analyze it. its obvious you really care for him, but maybe the things with the other women is a fear of him being distracted by other women, or some sort of jealousy.. i dont know i'm not a shrink, just talk to him. theres nothing nicer than hearing from someone that you're liked, anyone who takes it otherwise isnt worth your time - or dreams!
good luck
2007-11-13 04:32:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well in a psychological way i think your subconsciousness is still yearning for him. the normal you is nearly over him, but in the back of your mind you still want him back pretty badly. the dream i guess is a way for your subconsciousness to tell you that you miss him. its takes time to get over someone you like. if the guy was that much of a jerk he's not worth it. the dream could be telling you to make a choice. one is forget him, the other is to try to get back together. good luck
2007-11-13 04:30:58 · answer #9 · answered by Hadriana E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like this guy,but you bad mouth him that he is a jerk,inspite that he is a jerk you want him (you think about him sometimes),What makes you happy go for it. I have no comment on your erotic dreams,but I enjoyed reading it,darned! your bf, !! your roommate girl ##!! the nitty gritty is in suspense! This is the best decent answer I can think of and I am a matured woman.
2007-11-13 04:50:49 · answer #10 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋