Me an one of my ex's have been broken up for a few months now and he never really contacts me ever..And the wierd thing i had a dream about him that he changed and was maturing... at first i started to contact him... but i decided not too... so i spoke to his mom and his mom let me know he was doin well and told me that he wasn't envolved and any serious relationships and that he wasn't getting married and she was Glad then to my surprise the same week he emails me asking how i was doin and said luv ya and god bless... and that was strange for me cause he never emails me... and he hasn't used the words luv ya in a sentence at all since we broke up so my question was i wanted to know if you thought he was thinking about me and possibly had some romantic feelings towards me? and the strange thing is i wrote him back telling him how i was doin and to close the letter i only put god bless instead of luv ya and god bless and he didn't reply.... what do you think?
2007-11-13 06:21:04 · 29 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well...first of all I'm sorry that the two of you broke up in the first place. It is interesting that you had a dream about him, but the more interesting fact is that after you talked to his mother, he all of a sudden emails you??? Weird to say the least. I don't mean to sound rude or anything, but do you think that his mother is the one who emailed you, since you said that he has never emailed you, and has never used 'luv ya' in a sentence before...weird...
or maybe he wants to get back with you and just doesn't know what to say to do so. Don't you want to call him and see if there is still a chance between the two of you? You know you do.
Anyways, you should think about it and see how you feel... You never know, your dream may actually come true.
Good luck to you.
PS: You should try to work on your grammar skills, it was hard trying to get what you were saying. Or maybe I'm just being picky. Don't Mind Me.
2007-11-13 06:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by skittlez08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honest about your feelings with your ex and let him know if you truly love him tell him so.
I also think you are the only person who can truly know what the best course of action would be. Think about it was your relationship that good in the first place? Why did you break up? Luv Ya is a common term used to express friendly feelings. I say it all the time to men I care for deeply however that does not mean I am in Love with them. If you love the man tell him only if you think it will benefit the greater good.
2007-11-13 06:26:46 · answer #2 · answered by P C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say all of that in one breath? Good grief, take a breath. I think you should do whatever would make you feel good. But remember you broke up for a reason and unless you were both under 19 then and now over 25, no one changes those habits that usually cause a breakup. If you are truly interested in him, email him again, tell him you have thought about him and how he was doing from time to time and would like to maybe have a cup of coffee sometime and catch up. But for Gawd's sake don't chatter.
2007-11-13 06:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by Enosfolly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the context that "luv ya" is used. Maybe he has done some maturing and growing up and just wanted to say hi and see how things were going with you. And if he wanted to get back with you romantically, I think he might have hinted toward that. Just see if you get anymore emails from him and take it from there.
2007-11-13 06:26:14 · answer #4 · answered by lu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well his mom told him you asked about him, maybe you should have called if you are interested in him. But Im sure he noticed that you left luv ya off of your letter. That's why he didn't answer you. Guys are funny that way, he may have feelings for you and that was his way of letting you know, but you not responding in like...well that probably cut him a little. Do you love him? do you think you can work things out? See if hes interested. Good Luck!
2007-11-13 06:25:24 · answer #5 · answered by goodgirlabout2gobad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sounds like he is interested in you. Did you break up because he was immature? If so, that could be a big factor. You could find that he is acting matture to get you back, and then he'll turn back to what he was before when he feels comfortable.
But in main answer to your question, I think he seems interested in your for definite. At least as a friend, but probably more than that. Don't go rushing back into his arms too quickly, if you're easy then he can take advantage of what you used to have. But if you feel like you'd like to re-kindle that love then it could be good for you both, just don't go to fast, which is often what people do when returning to ex's. Try and start a-fresh or it'll just end like it did before.
Good luck. xx
2007-11-13 06:25:46 · answer #6 · answered by Gnotknormal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are so hard to figure out. Once you love and care about a person you'll always care about that person. Your situation sounds kind of promising, though. Why did you break up in the first place? Was it a really bad break up? Were there hurtful words exchanged? Can you forgive him totally? Sounds like it might be worth a second chance...Follow your heart. Good luck and happy life!
2007-11-13 06:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by gmoney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be direct and ask him what you want to know. No time to waist playing games or trying to read each others minds. Just tell him how you feel and ask him the same. If there is nothing there you won't waist your time figuring it out. You just might come out of it with a good friend you have no trouble talking to or a soule mate that is also your best friend. You have nothing to lose by talking. So talk away. HONEST communication is the key.
2007-11-13 06:28:49 · answer #8 · answered by GenPatton 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its really hard to say. The way i go with things is that they will work out the way they are supposed to. I think you should try to move on though. Break ups happen for a reason and if you were meant to be together it will happen in the end. Evaluate how many relationships you have had (are you in your teens?, had a lot of relationships?) If you are young and arent looking to get married go out and just have fun!
2007-11-13 06:28:46 · answer #9 · answered by katie k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well to be honest i dont think he is really wanting anything at the moment, just keep things nice between you both and then hopefully you can take it further. he may have some strong feelings for you, but just putting luv ya at the end of the email isnt going to make things better. just keep talking to him and see how his attitude is in the coming weeks. hopefully he will contact you more, and even phone you or something to discuss your future ;-)
2007-11-13 06:24:51 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋