We started out as friends, started messing around and then he dumped me for somebody else, told him we could still be friends though. Was really hurt, but got over it. We were both pretty passive during the 5 months we were seeing eachother. Talked everyday from the moment we became friends and when he started seeing this other girl he just stopped calling me out of nowhere. When I asked why he stopped calling and if he met somebody else, he told me. After that he did contacted me a few times asking for stupid favors, but when I contacted him he stoped calling, agian. Never returned my last message. Then out of no where, a month later texted me asking for another favor. Should I return his message? Hes my neighbor too.
2007-11-13 04:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by Hun 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!! He's an @ss. Find someone more worth while. You can only be ignored so many time before you realize that this person doesn't really care about you.
2007-11-13 04:51:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no problem with yall being friends
he keeps asking for favors but realize if you don't want to help you don't have to you are not in debted to him for any reason
and the reason he may not be calling you all the time is he has a new girlfriend.. he has to be loyal with her or it will look really odd if he calling you all the time to "chat" you are a woman you should know that
But if you want to help him out and still be friends go ahead.. but don't let him take advanatge of your kindness asking you for favors all the time and ignoring you when you need something or just want to talk
2007-11-13 04:51:23 · answer #2 · answered by Stop the world I want to get off 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sounds like you are pretty young and it is hard for you to understand at this point right now but forget about him. He wants you on his time, when it is right for him. As they say, there are other fish in the sea. Neighbor, friend, whatever, you dont have to go out of your way to be good to him. Consider him just another guy.
2007-11-13 04:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go over to his house and ask him what his real problem is. This guy shouldn't treat you like that. Let him know that y'all can still be friends but that's only gonna happen if he will start calling you and stuff like that. True friends don't do this crap to their other friends. Ok? Just let him know how you feel. Good luck.
2007-11-13 04:50:07 · answer #4 · answered by criswellmary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
attempt to loiter around which incorporate your buddies, and meet new human beings. Staying in, and thinking bearing directly to the ex will make you experience terrible. Going out % treatment the harm, yet have faith me that is going to help. additionally decrease all communique, and ties with the ex. which will additionally make it plenty much less demanding. never wander what you probably did, except you cheated, simply by fact it often is something in the guy doing the dumping.
2016-11-11 09:19:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i was you i would see what he wanted ,and let him know straight that you have your own things that you have to do that u cant always be doin favors for him.But if u still want to be friends i would because things usually git better after a while of hanging out and talking just dont go back out with him cause you know what will happen.
2007-11-13 05:00:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you guys are neighboors, I'd be civil, but distant. Just go on with your life, and try to keep him out of yours. (this means STOP messaging/calling him!)
If you feel you have to respond to his message, whatever...but NO, don't do him any "favors." Nothing good can come of this for you.
2007-11-13 04:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Voice_Of_Reason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't! he's totally using you! come on girl, have some respect for yourself.
plus, when someone dumps you, you shouldn't be friends with that person after; no matter how close you guys were or if you guys were friends before dating.
unwritten laws of socialization: turn your attention to someone else. NOW!
2007-11-13 04:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think. If he's just trying to use you like that then he doens't care about you. Find other friends.
2007-11-13 04:49:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Stop letting him use you. Ignore him and move on with your life.
2007-11-13 04:50:03 · answer #10 · answered by peaches6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋