ok so i've never bn to a strip club b4 and my boyfriend claims he han't neither,,so i told him i wanted to go and i was gonna buy him a lap dance...and he got really dissapointed that i would do that....anywayz so my ? is girls:would you take your boyfriend to a strip club????would you buy him a lap d..???
Guys:would you take your girl to a male strip club???would you let your girl buy YOU a lap d...(in a female strip club ofcourse =)?????would you buy your girl a lap dance(in a male strip club)
2007-11-13 05:03:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thats not a good idea it could show a diffrent side of someone if you want to see that
2007-11-13 05:06:12 · answer #1 · answered by babybadboy212 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK. As different type of female I would say yes I would take him to the strip club and buy him a lap dance. There is no harm being done. I see it as a open relationship. You can see if a stripper really turns him on.Also, your going home with him she's not so there shouldn't be anything to worry about.
2007-11-13 05:14:29 · answer #2 · answered by shawdy2fine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that its OK to take you girl to the strip club I would never go to a male strip club but if her and her girlfriends want to go ill Even give her single to have fun with. Now if were at the girl strip club i would get a dance for both me and her
2007-11-13 05:25:22 · answer #3 · answered by brian j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't want my girlfriend buying me a lap dance if I was in a committed relationship. If I am truly wanting to be with a girl, then sex is the most personal thing that a couple can share. I would hope and trust that my partner would only want to share it with me. I think you are probably not as into the relationship as your boyfriend and that is why he is upset. He probably feels like it is cheating on you and if your willing to allow him to do that, then you are probably willing to cheat on him...Just going to a strip club might not be so bad...as long as you both are together and making fun of how ugly the strippers are!!!
P.S. Sugar's reply about her 'Ex' and her going to strip clubs not bothering the relationship? Just remember it's her 'Ex'.
2007-11-13 05:17:06 · answer #4 · answered by madhatter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I would not go to a male strip club with her. But I would take her to a female strip club with me and I would buy her a lap dance from a woman (GRRRRRR) Two women is sexy two men is not good for anybody.
2007-11-13 05:08:39 · answer #5 · answered by setter505 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally if my girl baught me a lap dance It would turn me on. It would show that she understands a mans sexuality. It shows maturity and confidence in a relationship. I would think she was sexier than before. Sorry to be a hippocrate, but I WOULD NEVER EVER buy my girl a lap dance. Guys are really protective. I dont think I would ever be comfortable with my girlfriend getting provoked by any guy let alone a butt naked stripper.
2007-11-13 05:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by mastalee103 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! My fiance and I have talked about this before and we're all for it. In fact, he thinks it'd be extremely hot if I went with him. We're planning a trip to Vegas when I turn 21, and a strip club is at the top of our list! However, maybe your guy is a little shy or maybe he just thinks they're trashy and he's not into that sort of thing. I think you should ask him why and really analyze his thoughts on it. It's definitely not something you want to push someone you care about into doing.
2007-11-13 05:08:06 · answer #7 · answered by May25th08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might go to the strip club, but never buy him a lap dance. It will make him feel weird in front of you.
2007-11-13 05:07:25 · answer #8 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
imlost,a few years ago my girl friend and i were in new orleans and this exact thing came up.first we went into girl strip club and I felt like I couldn't look at the girls and she kept asking me if I saw a girl I liked .I felt bad so I told her no.i didn't think anything good would come out of saying yes.Later that night we were in a mens/womens strip club and I got her a lap dance with a male dancer and she hated it and she got mad at me for getting it.we've been going out for 4 years now,our new orleans trip was three years ago we have not gone back to a strip club.I think its a awkword place if you want your relationship to continue . if you both have an open relationship maybe you can pull it off but nit will change things and the lies will start coming out.It wasn't for us .
2007-11-13 06:53:48 · answer #9 · answered by kevinbedrock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm really really bad idea. Women are exploited often at strip clubs. Many guys will have playboy, but women at these clubs are often poor and have to scrap by and don't look as good as on tv. Its scary. Strip clubs aren't sexy like on tv. Really expensive ones in Los Vegas with show girls are okay, little exploitation there. Exploitation is nasty and so many girls at the strip club don't want to be there and you see it and its not a fun experiance. Trust me, read playboy together instead and then read amnesty international on trafficking of women.
2007-11-13 05:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Madame Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't think I would, Buy a lap dance for him, I would just give him one myself ;-) But I wouldn't go with him either because I am a jealous person and I might bring out the claws if I saw another girl on him. Not that I see the problem of him going with his buddy's or even alone as long I don't see it, Because I said I am a jealous person. very very jealous
Plus he wouldn't let me go either he would probably castrate any man near me, lol I love him
2007-11-13 05:10:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋