I always argue with my mum what do i do?

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Answer 1

The fact that you admit that you are always arguing with her, you know for your self it is not what you want for you and your mom.Try some other ways to make her feel you love her that much, you want to be very good friends with her.For instance, while she is cooking etc... help her and ask her a daughter-mother question .Going together some places , where you can come more close together

Answer 2

I am assuming that Mom is a gentle and loving Mom that wants the best and is just looking out for you. If this is true, then you need to try calming down and talking with her instead of arguing. It's OK to disagree, it's even good to disagree. The important thing is how you disagree. Everything probably feels like it's super important to you and has to be taken care of right away. Give it a little time, calm down and think through your approach, then sit down with Mom and talk quietly about what you'd like to do differently and why. You probably already know what she won't like about your ideas so have suggestions about how you can compromise. Don't always insist on having everything completely your way. Look for solutions that meet both your needs, even though you have to give up some of what you want to get the major requests.

Believe it or not Mom really wants you to be happy. But even more, Mom needs to know you're a safe, secure, healthy, responsible individual who will grow up to be a wonderful person that can make it on their own in society one day. That's a heavy load for Mom.

Answer 3

i need help with this one myself. what i have learned from this exact situation is mom never realizes that you are not her little baby any more and that you have grown up. Just accept it. But instead of arguing all the time about everything, pick your battles. For every thing else sit your mom down and try to get her to see how you feel.

Answer 4

Look at it this way: escalating an argument is like defending yourself by holding a knife by the blade.

Bad: getting cut by your mom. Worse: cutting yourself.

Good: standing your ground when you're in the right. Bad: not listening to yourself when the switch goes on that says "This isn't getting anywhere."

Answer 5

sit down with your mom and get ground rules down. Just stop cold turkey with the arguing with your mom . Give her a little more credit and respect. Your mom loves you and she wants the very best for you.

Answer 6

You stop arguing with your mother and start respecting her. If you are living with her on her money the rules are hers to give and yours to obey. When you grow up, get your own place, and pay all your own bills, you get to make the rules. Till then, be grateful you have a mother! Mine died when I was a baby.

Answer 7

Don't argue and when you feel you have to make your point make sure you pick your arguments very carefully, in other words don't argue over stupid things, argue over things that really matter otherwise what's the point?

Answer 8

you dont say how old u r or how long its been going on,if your a teenager then it could be your homones,or you and your mum clash cos u have the same fiery nature or maybe u have both suffered a loss,but you only have one mum and she wont be there forever,so try and make things right,if it is too difficult see ur doctor who may get family therapy for you.

Answer 9

Stop arguing.

Answer 10

you've got to get on a nuetral plane with her. i used to argue with my mom all the time cause i never got to do wat i want to do. she agreed that she'd let me do stuff as long as she could trust me not to get into any trouble. so far it's worked. we dont argue any more.