we have been together for a yr and some change. there was cheating and lieing b4 :both of us:but we have been working through it! Thngs were realllly good latley. But he texts out of know where for me to delete all the guys n my phne!!! and that its ****** up when i say "dnt controll me were not married" even tho he does want to get married and start a fam. WHY is he sooo controlling and insecure??? he neeeeeverrr ever was like this b4!! he was a awesome guy who was super secure with himself! now he says ive chnged him! and i hate it!!! he wont let **** go!WHY cant i have guy friends? is it wrong to be friends with a guy and be dateing some one?? HELP how can i make it to where he isnt so insecure and can trust me? im not doing anything wrng! i love him to death!
2007-11-13 07:40:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A year is about the time you see the real person. Everything before that is just the 'date fog'. So now after a year or so...he does not want his girl to hang out with other guys. It's a normal insecure obsessive male reaction. He thinks along the classical lines...men are strong and women are weak. So if you the weak woman was around a strong guy..he might get you to have sex with him.
You can try to talk to him...though it's fairly deep rooted in him. You could simply avoid telling him about other guys, and get him not to ask.
2007-11-15 15:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋